I get bladder shy every now and then. The key is getting into a position you're comfortable peeing in if you are struggling as squatting over someone is not such a position lol. Then once you start peeing move to the guy... it's much easier once you've let a bit go 

Don't worry Ayla!! It happens to the best of us 

Even though I've been offering watersports for years, I still get a shy bladder as well sometimes! And I know you've said you're new to it, and maybe you haven't had / don't want to have a guy pee on you, but trust me it happens the other way round too. Guys often really want to do it to us as well, then in the moment find they can't. It's just one of those things. I think that we all have it so ingrained into us that you only pee on the toilet that randomly pissing anywhere else can be difficult... it's a natural mental block.

What helps me is having a really chilled relaxed atmosphere.... I tell the guy it might not happen straight away and lets just relax (in position in the bath) for a few minutes first. Chatting is fine if he likes that but "crouch over me / piss in my mouth " type talk or trying to play with me makes me lose focus and is too much pressure. Within 2 or 3 minutes of the relaxed time, knowing there's no expectation, I will be able to have a nice wee (and probably be unable to stop-but that's a whole other story  )

I know it goes without saying, but really needing to pee is important too. When I first started doing watersports, the only way I could do it would be to drink so much water that essentially I was just uncontrollably wetting myself once in the desired position. It does work though! Obviously this has to be timed very carefully... don't even THINK about trying this ahead of time or if you are travelling to the booking by car. Xx

I get bladder shy every now and then. The key is getting into a position you're comfortable peeing in if you are struggling as squatting over someone is not such a position lol. Then once you start peeing move to the guy... it's much easier once you've let a bit go 

I don't think the squatting position I was in really helped things aha

I e had this loads of times. I should really untick it because I've tried loads but even if someone's talking to me from another room while on toilet I have to wait til they're quiet

Thing is I can pee around people (like in nightclubs on girls nights out where you have to share a stall because it's so cramped). I think it was nerves.

Don't worry Ayla!! It happens to the best of us 

Even though I've been offering watersports for years, I still get a shy bladder as well sometimes! And I know you've said you're new to it, and maybe you haven't had / don't want to have a guy pee on you, but trust me it happens the other way round too. Guys often really want to do it to us as well, then in the moment find they can't. It's just one of those things. I think that we all have it so ingrained into us that you only pee on the toilet that randomly pissing anywhere else can be difficult... it's a natural mental block.

What helps me is having a really chilled relaxed atmosphere.... I tell the guy it might not happen straight away and lets just relax (in position in the bath) for a few minutes first. Chatting is fine if he likes that but "crouch over me / piss in my mouth " type talk or trying to play with me makes me lose focus and is too much pressure. Within 2 or 3 minutes of the relaxed time, knowing there's no expectation, I will be able to have a nice wee (and probably be unable to stop-but that's a whole other story  )

I know it goes without saying, but really needing to pee is important too. When I first started doing watersports, the only way I could do it would be to drink so much water that essentially I was just uncontrollably wetting myself once in the desired position. It does work though! Obviously this has to be timed very carefully... don't even THINK about trying this ahead of time or if you are travelling to the booking by car. Xx

The atmosphere was fine. We chatted inbetween silences where I was trying to concentrate and it just wasn't happening.

Luckily this was an incall and I was bursting by the time he arrived I just couldn't do the deed as it were aha

I used to turn the sink tap on, the sound of running water used to really help me.

I was thinking about waterfalls and stuff it didn't help unfortunately

Timing is everything...but super-relaxation helps.
Drink 1 pint of water every 10 minutes, 30 minutes before he arrives.
Then 1 drink a pint in front of him.
That 4 pints has to come out somehow.

When you're ready a combo of relaxed breathing, muscle relaxation  and
 'not thinking about peeing' should do the trick lol.

Tensing up the V muscles due to nerves will sabotage the whole thing though.

Another one here! Lol. I ended up in agony too when couldn't pee till he was well out of the way!

Drink loads of water an hour before an appointment, then all during the appointment just keep on saying to yourself, geez i need a wee.  Trust me it works 

Oh, I had a request recently for "clean pee please", because he wants to drink it
How do u get clean pee ffs ..