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casey_kisses

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #30 on: 28 June 2012, 09:24:55 pm »

Also hate to say it for the ladies that do hide there faces.. I always look at these pics and think really is that hiding you? Yes some girls show like nothing but some girls just blur there faces or eyes etc...


I hide my face and I do think this is true... and a friend's friend recognised me once... and told my friend... but she is the only person I told and denied it. However I just don't like the idea of escort photos with my face shown being on the net... I'm still young and wouldn't want it to ruin my future, plus my parents don't know. Now I've got pretty good at sort of disguising myself in photo's and for clients and looking different in civvie life, so I don't think it would happen now, but those are the precautions that I took after that one person recognised me.

To be honest my friends wouldn't be shocked if they did find out!

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #31 on: 28 June 2012, 09:46:52 pm »
i hide my face for many reasons.  i have a family and partner but also for my security whilst touring.  I have had a copy of my  profile sent to a hotel i was staying at in scotland by local girl working in the area and refused to be checked in.

I applaud any lady that has the confidence to show her face on the internet you are much braver than i am but its something i wont do again.

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #32 on: 28 June 2012, 09:49:55 pm »
Well I have worked and continue to work in Ireland, Scotland (including Inverness and Aberdeen) the Channel Islands, the Isle of Man and all manner of others including New York and have never, ever had problems. I must look rough as fuck in real life :D.

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #33 on: 28 June 2012, 10:10:37 pm »
I was over on Isle of Man visiting family this week and was astounded the number of private apartments  there is in Douglas.  Still a definite No. No place for me though
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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #34 on: 28 June 2012, 10:53:03 pm »
I'm always envious of girls who can show their faces, it seems so much easier than trying to hide what you do.  I do wish I was in that position even if it was just to stop the 'so what do you look like?' question.

Unfortunately it would not just be me that would be affected by me being open about what I do and show my face, but my family.  The Indian community are a nasty bunch when it comes to anything related to sex.  I remember when the "aunties" found out that a young married couple had indulged in some naughty pics.  They still give the poor girl dirty looks and shun her to this day. 

Mind you if I had no constraints I'd probably be some dirty porn star by now!

this is such a weird question, i mean how are you supposed to accurately describe exactly what your face looks like, all clients find different things attractive and you just cant describe what a face 'looks like' in words properly imo lol!

Well I have two eyes, a nose and a mouth ;D And they always ask who i look like. I look like me.  I'm unique.  (actually I look like my nan but I don't think any of my punters will know what she looks like either).

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #35 on: 28 June 2012, 10:57:27 pm »
Another question that does my head in re looks is 'are you pretty?'  .................. to who??

If I say, yes, I am not being very humble and if I say, no, will they not want to visit, so really quite a pointless question - and I'm never usually slow in telling them that either. :FF :FF :FF
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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #36 on: 29 June 2012, 11:32:26 am »
'so what do you look like?' question.

this is such a weird question, i mean how are you supposed to accurately describe exactly what your face looks like

Well I have two eyes, a nose and a mouth ;D

I usually start with 'Well I have brown eyes.....' and then I tail off hesitantly.
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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #37 on: 29 June 2012, 12:58:22 pm »
I wouldn't mind showing my face, but if my family found out what I did they would disown me. My friends all know, but my mother is really preservative. She once had a go at me for having more than one lover in a year...
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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #38 on: 29 June 2012, 01:59:04 pm »
preservative? I hope you mean conservative  ;D

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #39 on: 29 June 2012, 08:47:01 pm »
My verification photo was accidentally showing on AW for a few weeks, and now I exist in a heightened state of paranoia. It was hard to find, and I'm not too sure who would actually be looking for it, but I still get moments when I'm convinced people recognise me from it  :-\

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #40 on: 29 June 2012, 10:27:10 pm »
I don't show my face.  I don't care about my friends knowing, but my family is another matter - my father is quite traditional

Also, there is a security aspect, as I work quite a bit in the Middle East and I know for a fact that the police match the passport copies that the hotels have to send to escorts face pictures.

Additionally, my clients prefer it as they don't to be seen out in public with someone who can be recognised as an escort!

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #41 on: 30 June 2012, 12:45:11 pm »
 i did read somewhere recently that  whenever you change your profile to seeking services ( ie not showing ) then when you do reset it to offering services your verification picture is showing again untill you check the box to say not show
there was a big thread on this on  [a punting forum] recently so     


My verification photo was accidentally showing on AW for a few weeks, and now I exist in a heightened state of paranoia. It was hard to find, and I'm not too sure who would actually be looking for it, but I still get moments when I'm convinced people recognise me from it  :-\

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #42 on: 30 June 2012, 01:16:35 pm »
Hi escort38!

Personally, I choose not to show my face (or I photoshop it, e.g. blacken out my face!) when putting photos up on sites.

The first time round, I was such a naive and silly woman at 18, and put actual photos of me on there. Then, I was so taken in by all the "replies" I was getting, I had all the usual timewasters we encounter on a regular basis asking for dirty pics. I would stupidly send them and then hear nothing obviously (free wank material).

Although I didnt show my face second time round when I did it a few years later, my ex was snooping about the site, and recognised the pics, and grassed me up to my family. The consequences were devastating, and this is why now I choose not to put pics which can be recognised on.

When I go on SD sites, I put no pic on. However, I have had (been counting!) around 30 timewasters, who request a pic, and then bugger off. So now what I am thinking is to still keep the timewasters on my blacklist, but put a photoshopped pic of me on the site e.g. black bar over my eyes, blurred out face. Seeing as guys mainly wanted a full body pic, they cant complain if i put a full body one on with my face blurred out.

I have far too much to lose if I show my face on sites, so it's probably best if you have a professional job or something to be extra careful, as I have learnt!

All the best :)

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #43 on: 02 July 2012, 07:18:23 pm »
I think as said before, that a lot of girls who show their faces are not from the UK. I don't care what people think but I would care if my mum found out because she would be so upset and I don't want to make her sad  :)

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #44 on: 16 July 2012, 02:08:00 pm »
Hi I made a personal choice not to show my face , (all my pics are from neck down, although I have just added a face pic on aw but it can only be seen by ppl who make a booking and if anyone asks for a face pic I will gladly send one) this is because I have an 11yr old son(thankfully lives with my dad so dont have to work round him being at school), live in a small village and my family is quite liberal but not that liberal. I also wont see anyone from village I live or the one my familes in, but this is my choice.