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River

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #15 on: 28 June 2012, 05:21:28 pm »
I'd hate to be really old and a relative or friend come up  to me and say:
"I've looked all over the net for 'naughty sex type stuff' you did years /decades ago.
but I can't find anything.
How boring"
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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #16 on: 28 June 2012, 05:48:18 pm »
I shall not ever show my face, too risky  Id loose my job if it was ever descovered
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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #17 on: 28 June 2012, 06:41:31 pm »
face pics or not  i recongised a a good friend of mines younger sister,  just by her body shape and hair style.  i knew as soon as i saw the picture it was her 
Personally if i took a good face shot i probably would but i dont  i absolutly 10000 billion percent hate having my photos taken  although i can get great body and boob shots i can never feel relaxed enough to have a good face shot unless
1 im really really drunk
2 im caught totally unaware   
 

River

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #18 on: 28 June 2012, 06:49:33 pm »
I shall not ever show my face, too risky even if i didnt work elsewhere, I know my bad luck and my damn father would find me as he apparently visits ladies of the night!!!! no thanks.
Better that, than the embarrassment on an outcall, of him opening the door to you.  :o

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #19 on: 28 June 2012, 06:52:01 pm »
I show my face for a few reasons really, one because I think its pretty (not trying to be bigheaded here but it is a selling point, especially my eyes) and 2 because I dont give 2 shits what anyone thinks, I already have an admittedly now died off a bit rep in my local area from being a teenager, people round here know the score with me and I pride myself that I'm not like nearly all the girls round here who are early 20s and sat on benefits with numerous kids doing nothing, gaining weight and putting up with their waster boyfriends

My close family, my mum and younger sisters all know, they dont care and I've often shared funny stories with them, we are quite liberal girlies  ;D I did tell my mum not to tell my dad who is a business exec in Florida as I wanted him to keep thinking of me as his little girl but she forgot and told him anyway! I went mad and suffice to say he wasnt really that happy but said he just wants me to be happy, he sends me ?200 a month extra cash too, also my his gran who is from Hong Kong worked as a WG a long time ago, so its in our family history

my friends all know though we dont really talk about it and I get the impression some of them think its 'weird', but hey thats civvie mindset for ya

Each girl has different circumstances to think of, I didnt show my face when I first started escorting as I saw that was the done thing but as I gained confidence and saw many other profiles with the girl showing it I thought, hey why not

I think its helped my business but face might not be a good feature of theirs to some girls so they might feel happier hiding it and just showing off their body, I dont think it matters to clients when they are booking but admittedly though I like my face I was always paranoid when I didnt show it that facially the client might not like me when he saw, although that has never happened and I have had field reports saying how 'stunning' it is (though I wouldnt go that far imo)



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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #20 on: 28 June 2012, 06:57:33 pm »
I have never shown my face and never intend to.  As someone who is a late starter in the business I have many precious life long friendships that I have no intention of jeapardising by any possibility of being outed. 

I have escort friends for escort related worries.  I don't feel the need to tell everyone and quite frankly at some point I will be pursuing another career and the thought of face pics flying round cyber space is therefore a big no no for me.

Also it has not affected business one jot for me.  In my experience clients care more about a stunning figure, and a relaxed genuine experience than a face pic.
« Last Edit: 28 June 2012, 07:01:07 pm by Mellow »

Kimmy

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #21 on: 28 June 2012, 07:13:00 pm »
In my experience clients care more about a stunning figure, and a relaxed genuine experience than a face pic.

Really? I've lost count of the amount of times clients have told me an attractive face is very important, especially if they like GFE and its a let down turning up to someone with a BOB FOC

but then again you dont look at the mantelpiece whilst poking the fire  ;D

Mellow

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #22 on: 28 June 2012, 07:15:44 pm »
Well the whole experience plus my USP is what guys come to me for, not just a single part of the body or a single service.

Still each to their own.  I bow out of this thread.

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #23 on: 28 June 2012, 07:51:18 pm »
My main reason for not showing my face is that I might get recognized by hotel staff and be refused stay or be kicked out. Or be recognized by the border control officials in places such as the Channel Islands, who from what I've read are really hostile to prostitution and have declined entry to escorts at the airport.

I'm not sure if my worry is adequate or excessive, because normally I would love to show my face, as I'm photogenic and look good in pictures. Otherwise I don't give a damn either about what others, including family, friends and ex co-workers might think.

ParisB

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« Reply #24 on: 28 June 2012, 07:58:36 pm »
Your quite correct i know of several girls in Ireland who have been asked to leave  or refused to checkin  because  the show there face and the hotel staff have printed out there profile to show them when they arrive  [

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My main reason for not showing my face is that I might get recognized by hotel staff and be refused stay or be kicked out. Or be recognized by the border control officials in places such as the Channel Islands, who from what I've read are really hostile to prostitution and have declined entry to escorts at the airport.

I'm not sure if my worry is adequate or excessive, because normally I would love to show my face, as I'm photogenic and look good in pictures. Otherwise I don't give a damn either about what others, including family, friends and ex co-workers might think.
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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #25 on: 28 June 2012, 08:06:23 pm »
Also it has not affected business one jot for me.  In my experience clients care more about a stunning figure, and a relaxed genuine experience than a face pic.

I've had the same experience - though I don't have a stunning body ROFL.  Guys tell you what they think you want to hear, just the same as we do to them. 
 
If guys are shallow enough to only want 'a pretty face' then they will probably be disappointed manies a time. 

I'm also with clover re travelling and hotels/apartments etc and being recognised.  I prefer to know i'm safe and secure in the places I tour in.
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Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #26 on: 28 June 2012, 08:14:50 pm »
I'd probably say it's because I don't really care....

No family to worry about and I dont think my friends would be shocked or surprised..

Also hate to say it for the ladies that do hide there faces.. I always look at these pics and think really is that hiding you? Yes some girls show like nothing but some girls just blur there faces or eyes etc...

Everyone is different but I wouldnt want to escort hiding my face, the horror of turning up a guy not like your face?!!?  :o


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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #27 on: 28 June 2012, 08:29:40 pm »
I'm always envious of girls who can show their faces, it seems so much easier than trying to hide what you do.  I do wish I was in that position even if it was just to stop the 'so what do you look like?' question.

Unfortunately it would not just be me that would be affected by me being open about what I do and show my face, but my family.  The Indian community are a nasty bunch when it comes to anything related to sex.  I remember when the "aunties" found out that a young married couple had indulged in some naughty pics.  They still give the poor girl dirty looks and shun her to this day. 

Mind you if I had no constraints I'd probably be some dirty porn star by now!

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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #28 on: 28 June 2012, 08:44:06 pm »
The only country where I use blurred photos is Ireland.I lived there,and tour frequently so it's better the way it is.I show my face on personal website though,so everyone can have a look.



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Re: Facing your public
« Reply #29 on: 28 June 2012, 08:52:20 pm »
I'm always envious of girls who can show their faces, it seems so much easier than trying to hide what you do.  I do wish I was in that position even if it was just to stop the 'so what do you look like?' question.

Unfortunately it would not just be me that would be affected by me being open about what I do and show my face, but my family.  The Indian community are a nasty bunch when it comes to anything related to sex.  I remember when the "aunties" found out that a young married couple had indulged in some naughty pics.  They still give the poor girl dirty looks and shun her to this day. 

Mind you if I had no constraints I'd probably be some dirty porn star by now!

this is such a weird question, i mean how are you supposed to accurately describe exactly what your face looks like, all clients find different things attractive and you just cant describe what a face 'looks like' in words properly imo lol!