Hi All!

This is my first post, so I apologise if I miss any positing etiquette.

I have a separate number for my SW (OF, AW, VS, WhatsApp) which is not linked to ANY social media except my work Instagram page. This IG page is not linked to a Facebook account.

I am extremely cautious with exposing my real name. I have long(ish) term clients who I see almost daily who STILL don't know my name, and even other porn stars I have worked with do not know. I have no punter site reports at all, so no risk of my name being leaked there.

My personal Facebook uses my real name and has location and contacts turned off (it is linked to my PERSONAL mobile number). Over the past 2 weeks, I have had 2 ex clients who I have had to block add and message me on Facebook. One is a local, one is from over an hour away from an old tour. HOW HAVE THEY FOUND ME? We don't have ANY mutual friends/pages/groups at all. Both said I came up in their "people you may know" and they recognised my face.

I have obviously blocked both after figuring out who they are, but not before ripping them a new one about invasion of privacy etc etc. Also updated their CE profiles for other SP's.

Does anyone have any clue how this can be prevented?

You can amend the settings to not allow the public to add you as a friend.

Sometimes it gives friends suggestions of people in close proximity. So u may have come up as a friend suggestion. Best way is to private your Facebook and remove ur face pic as a profile pic so even if you do come up as a friend suggestion they won't know who it is. Logging into the same wifi will do same. I never log into hotel wifi or clients home wifi for those reasons.

Hi All!

This is my first post, so I apologise if I miss any positing etiquette.

I have a separate number for my SW (OF, AW, VS, WhatsApp) which is not linked to ANY social media except my work Instagram page. This IG page is not linked to a Facebook account [...]

Do you have your sex work emails pushed to your personal phone?


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