Jenny (and everybody else) I've split this from the 'Manny' thread and moved it here because we don't allow general discussion in the Warnings section - it's for specific warning information only .

Prostitution is not illegal in the UK, and anybody who is a victim of an offence can and should go to the police - if nothing else it helps to prevent offenders doing the same thing to others (part of the reason sex workers can be targeted for robberies is because the robbers think we won't/can't report it). You can also report any incidents anonymously to National Ugly Mugs, which is free and easy to sign up to - they will pass on your report to the police if you want, but it isn't compulsory.

If a punter turns out to have no money or refuses to pay (and this is yet another good reason to always get payment up front) then the only thing you can really do is politely ask him to leave, call/text your security buddy if necessary and deal with it all as calmly as possible - most of these are just opportunists and don't want a confrontation and the chances of it turning nasty are thankfully pretty small. Whilst they might be thieves and/or wankers, the vast majority are not going to be rapists.

I make it a point to always get the money from the Client BEFORE they take their clothes off - and I will politely tell them so too if they try to get naked first.
If there's a problem with them paying my rate and I want them to leave it's going to be easier and quicker if they've still got their clothes on. Waiting while they get dressed gives them too much time to think up excuses and/or to formulate a plan. If there's an issue I want them the other side of a locked door with the absolute minimum of a delay!
R xx