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Title: Face stroking
Post by: Ackerlady on 11 October 2018, 06:17:25 pm
I've been getting a lot of clients lately stroking my face (a lot) during bookings. Does this make anyone else uncomfortable? I really, really don't like it.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: DaisyDuck on 11 October 2018, 06:22:56 pm
I hate it. I just shake my head like an annoyed pony and they stop.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Ackerlady on 11 October 2018, 06:26:17 pm
I hate it. I just shake my head like an annoyed pony and they stop.

Haha that's a brilliant image. I'll have to try it.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Umrao on 11 October 2018, 06:49:52 pm
I get this a lot too and as long as they stroke the side of my face and neck slowly I do find it quite a turn on. It’s only if they start moving my hair here and there as if to help me when I’m trying different angles during oral that it annoys me.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Kay on 11 October 2018, 08:03:21 pm
I prefer stroking to licking...  :o
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Lucie268 on 11 October 2018, 08:33:14 pm
ew I hate this
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Ackerlady on 11 October 2018, 09:45:47 pm
I get this a lot too and as long as they stroke the side of my face and neck slowly I do find it quite a turn on. It’s only if they start moving my hair here and there as if to help me when I’m trying different angles during oral that it annoys me.

I had one recently that was doing that, moving my hair about like he was trying to create a birds nest! He got pretty close to suceeding - this was during kissing and oral, and it was not to help me keep it out of the way!

I don't know why but I really can't stand all the stroking, and all of my clients are doing it lately!!
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Umrao on 11 October 2018, 09:53:40 pm
I had one recently that was doing that, moving my hair about like he was trying to create a birds nest! He got pretty close to suceeding - this was during kissing and oral, and it was not to help me keep it out of the way!

I don't know why but I really can't stand all the stroking, and all of my clients are doing it lately!!


Lol Yes the one moving my fringe out of the way felt more like I was being petted like a dog. I should have said woof, woof that would defiantly have given him a................stroke! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;)
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: ladyofthemansion on 11 October 2018, 10:04:38 pm
I like my hair played with but not my face. Hate that.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Ackerlady on 11 October 2018, 10:13:26 pm

Lol Yes the one moving my fringe out of the way felt more like I was being petted like a dog. I should have said woof, woof that would defiantly have given him a................stroke! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;)

I had one yesterday that kept kissing the top of my head like you would a child, during oral... um, what?!
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Anais on 11 October 2018, 10:24:42 pm
Ive had the stroking recently too but also tongue on my neck  :-X
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Ellie B on 11 October 2018, 11:05:36 pm
I have had the face stroking thing before and its is annoying and patronising.
It feels like they are some dog judge at Crufts!!!

I also despise it when they prod and pull my hair, especially when they stroke my hair on their dick wtf!!!

Licking the face is the worst, as if they are some cat licking/drinking milk!

Yes a woof woof from us or a meow is the best response!!!! ::)
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Dynamite Doll on 12 October 2018, 12:51:10 am
I've been getting a lot of clients lately stroking my face (a lot) during bookings. Does this make anyone else uncomfortable? I really, really don't like it.

This shit pisses me off I now have two f..king spots from a recent idiot stroking my forehead.  I take good care in my skin care regime last thing I want is fool rubbing my face after touching his bare cock. I clearly say my face is out of bounds after couple of attempts and me moving my head in different positions to dodge.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Gypsy on 12 October 2018, 08:03:19 am
Yes, I'm very prone to spots if people touch my face with anything! All that bacteria on hands etc  :FF
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: chocoholicgirl on 12 October 2018, 09:03:37 am
It is gross, both the face stroking and touching my hair. I have to put my hair behind my ears if I'm bending over to give a BJ and they think it's ok to pull it back out, therefore it's now resting over their dick and balls, in the lube, getting fucking dirty. Oh and their hands are no doubt dirty too. I'm certainly not anal  ;D about cleanliness and lube and stuff but I really hate getting lube on my hair, I don't have the time or inclination to wash, dry and straighten it when I spent ages doing it earlier. Thanks very much.

I don't like intimate gestures full stop tbh, it feels unnatural to me and creeps me out!
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Ackerlady on 12 October 2018, 10:15:32 am
I don't like intimate gestures full stop tbh, it feels unnatural to me and creeps me out!

This exactly. Nose nussling is also not ok!!
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Lucie268 on 12 October 2018, 05:21:20 pm
I also don't like it when they kiss my face. Proper grosses me out.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Love.Sex.Dreams on 13 October 2018, 05:54:20 pm
I hate it, only because my make up comes off.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Elite Ebony on 22 October 2018, 03:47:15 am
If it's something you truly hate, why allow it?

Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: DaisyDuck on 22 October 2018, 09:18:25 am
I hate when they plant tender kisses on my shoulder. Fuck off!
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: denise96 on 22 October 2018, 08:51:01 pm
hahhaa, i just take my hair, put it up and i don't care what they say or how i look in that moment... i'm like "i have to do this because i don't want any hair to go in my mouth, otherwise is gonna stop me from performing a good oral" they are like oo oke that's a good ideea. :)))) and keep doing my job :)

i hate when they try to kiss you but they'r tongue move like a snake in your mouth and doing circles  :FF  in my head is like  ??? ??? ??? wtf is he doing? kissing me or this is some new improved FK or something  :FF

face stroking is the worst eww i hateeee it i hateeee itt !!!  but they don't stop, unfortunately :(
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Phoenix on 23 October 2018, 09:50:26 am
hahhaa, i just take my hair, put it up and i don't care what they say or how i look in that moment... i'm like "i have to do this because i don't want any hair to go in my mouth, otherwise is gonna stop me from performing a good oral" they are like oo oke that's a good ideea. :)))) and keep doing my job :)

i hate when they try to kiss you but they'r tongue move like a snake in your mouth and doing circles  :FF  in my head is like  ??? ??? ??? wtf is he doing? kissing me or this is some new improved FK or something  :FF

face stroking is the worst eww i hateeee it i hateeee itt !!!  but they don't stop, unfortunately :(

Had someone last night who was stroking my neck, which i LOVE, then moved on to my throat and stopped stroking. Just held his fingers there...
I knocked him away so quickly, he is currently inhabiting the middle of next week.. >:D
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Justine on 23 October 2018, 09:56:40 am
I don't mind face stroking as I don't wear a lot of makeup but do wear eye shadow and liner. If they start to run their fingers over my eyes (why??) I just remove their fingers, easy!

Anything at all I really hate them doing is dealt with pronto. Ask them to stop or make sure they do.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Librarylady on 23 October 2018, 12:50:57 pm
They usually do it during kissing so luckily it doesn't last long, but I feel like stopping them will put a downer on the meeting. I have had a couple recently do it while looking into my eyes, that REALLY makes me uncomfortable.
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: KimD on 23 October 2018, 01:05:39 pm
I prefer stroking to licking...  :o

Someone licked your face :o? I had a client do that recently... I don't know if it was on purpose or by accident but it had me in hysterics! Totally killed the romance ::)
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: BangerRacing on 24 October 2018, 04:52:49 pm
They can stroke anything but my ears, that turns me psychotic. This is when self defense moves come in handy. Subtle inside arm sweeps. More often than not, if you mirror the behaviour they'll stop upon realising how irritating it is, especially if you over exaggerate. Go for palm slaps to both cheeks.  :P
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Ellie B on 24 October 2018, 10:14:10 pm
Yes, mirror their behaviour is the best way to deal with this.
I had a guy yesterday that stroked my ears, face and kissed me on the shoulders - all which I hate so I did the same to him with my actress hat on - so he soon stopped
It may seem like playing games, which I also hate doing, but works to halt their actions without having to say a word.
Hence I will say I won't be seeing him again.
With hindsight I should have given him half the money back and walked out.
First time I have felt about doing this in about a year!

Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: katrina on 26 October 2018, 12:30:05 pm
I can't remember anyone ever stroking my face, but I really like it when they stroke my hair I could have someone do that all day long...Obviously not for free though lol


Maybe when they do the face stroking they think they're making luurrve lmffao  :D
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: Librarylady on 26 October 2018, 02:38:02 pm
I can't remember anyone ever stroking my face, but I really like it when they stroke my hair I could have someone do that all day long...Obviously not for free though lol


Maybe when they do the face stroking they think they're making luurrve lmffao  :D

That's exactly what I think that they think they are doing  :FF
Title: Re: Face stroking
Post by: PissedOffPrincess on 26 October 2018, 06:07:41 pm
Someone licked your face :o? I had a client do that recently... I don't know if it was on purpose or by accident but it had me in hysterics! Totally killed the romance ::)

LOL now I know what to do when they stick their fingers in my ears  - pretend Im ticklish not grossed out