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Lorelei84

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Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« on: 13 March 2025, 09:10:27 am »
Morning everyone :)

I've been thinking about my services, and the extras I want to offer. 
I just can't quite work out what should be extras, and how much I should charge.

I'd love to hear other people's thoughts on this.

Lorelei
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OverTheHill

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #1 on: 13 March 2025, 10:05:42 am »
Hi Lorelei,

It’s difficult to give you a figure because it depends on the extra, and, like everything else, it is really subjective.

I’ll give you an example.

I charge an extra £40 for filming (which I rarely get), but other ladies are charging £100 plus.

If you state what extra you are thinking on charging for, then others can give you an idea, but the best way to gauge it, is to look at other advertisers in your area and see what they are charging.

The other thing I would mention, is that if you overprice extras then it is likely you won’t get many, but, again that depends on how many clients you want to see.

There are so many variables.

I like to be busy, which for me, is 5 clients a day, so my rates and extras are very average.
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Gazaro

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #2 on: 13 March 2025, 10:20:34 am »
I think OWO should be extra.
When I had it included, everyone wanted it. And you can imagine the risk.
Now I have it as an extra, and suddenly 60% of men don't need it.
I understand when your hour is very expensive, over £250, then it's ok to include. But when girls meet for 120 with owo included, that's making our services cheaper in general.
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Lorelei84

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #3 on: 13 March 2025, 10:34:49 am »
I  had a look through other profiles last night on AW and trying to find people who were actually listing extras let alone charging was like looking for needles in haystacks haha!

So my current list is a shared shower, 15 mins
CIM at discretion, no swallow (I don't get many requests for this), and it's into the side of my mouth and spat out.  Even hubby isn't allowed it's eww lol :-X but as I said, it's rare, I think I've done it once only!
Facial at £20
DFK is £25 although I'm tempted to up that as I'm really not a fan, I don't mind passionate kissing with tongues touching but not keen on someones tongue wriggling about in my mouth haha.
OWO £40  (I was offering this as part of the service until I started reading here and now I've changed it.)

How does that look to you all?  Be kind but fair, I'm new to this and still very much learning.
Thank you :)

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amy

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #4 on: 13 March 2025, 11:22:00 am »
What gave you the idea that you 'should' charge for extras to start with Lorelei? As you've seen from looking at ads it's nowhere near as common nowadays (although obviously you can structure your prices however you like) and I think you're making a lot of unnecessary hard work for yourself :)

It was a fad more recently to have a sort of two tier pricing structure, so a 'basic' service would be X price for X time and then a 'VIP' one with more services included was a higher one - might that work? I'll admit I can't be bothered with any of it, but I was going to I'd want to keep it simple.
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Lorelei84

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #5 on: 13 March 2025, 11:34:41 am »
Well the idea came about simply to make more money 🤣. I'm in am area where charging higher amounts, even if that were included, just doesn't work.  Whereas this way sometimes I get lucky and people want a little something on top.
I know clients like certain things but I don't feel they should necessarily be part of the standard service.
Plus, it reduces the number of people asking for things I'm not keen on doing, but will do if they are willing to pay for it.

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« Reply #6 on: 13 March 2025, 12:25:48 pm »
As Amy mentioned, I offer a tiered service, but that suits me and always has.

What I will say, is I don’t offer ANYTHING I don’t like. If you don’t like DFK then don’t do it.

I don’t offer a lot of things but I focus on advertising what I do offer. I’m buggered if I’m going to offer services I don’t like just because clients ‘might’ want them.
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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #7 on: 13 March 2025, 05:45:34 pm »
I dont offer kissing at all. Don't offer anything you don't want to do. I also don't do filming, facials, anal, or rim on them.
I offer CIM +20, Watersports +30, Pegging/lift cary/muscle worship +50

Im not a sensual GFE so I dont promote myself as such. More general service, light PSE and some fetish stuff. My hour rate is within the average range for British women in London. I think put a price you think is fair and competitive to get extra £££. And put what you do and don't do clearly to avoid confusion and complaints.
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amy

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #8 on: 13 March 2025, 06:01:45 pm »
Quote from: Lorelei84 on 13 March 2025, 11:34:41 am
Well the idea came about simply to make more money 🤣. I'm in am area where charging higher amounts, even if that were included, just doesn't work.  Whereas this way sometimes I get lucky and people want a little something on top.
I know clients like certain things but I don't feel they should necessarily be part of the standard service.
Plus, it reduces the number of people asking for things I'm not keen on doing, but will do if they are willing to pay for it.

Well I said a higher price, not a high price :). If you can convincingly cover your disgust then crack on, but as the others have said I don't think anybody here is going to recommend offering services you don't want to, for the sake of your sanity if nothing else. I could no more do OWO, CIM or RO than I could fly around the room, so I don't.

If you're comfortable presenting punters with a menu on top of your flat rate and figuring out the combinations then dealing with anything they wind up not doing - are you going to refund anything that doesn't go ahead, because you'll need to keep some money at hand for that?

Plus having to stop everything so they can scratch about for more money in the middle of bookings if they suddenly decide they want X or Y; the best of luck to you but I think you're giving yourself a lot to do. It's making me tired just thinking about it :D
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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #9 on: 14 March 2025, 12:20:09 pm »
The only things I charge extra for are full fetish outfits in a fabric that's expensive, delicate and difficult to get in and out of.

I have considered charging extra for facial or COB, but decided it's easier to add in rules, only offer it selectively when it suits me when I want to offer someone who understands my rules, a treat.
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Lorelei84

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #10 on: 14 March 2025, 01:40:40 pm »
Quote from: amy on 13 March 2025, 06:01:45 pm
Well I said a higher price, not a high price :). If you can convincingly cover your disgust then crack on, but as the others have said I don't think anybody here is going to recommend offering services you don't want to, for the sake of your sanity if nothing else. I could no more do OWO, CIM or RO than I could fly around the room, so I don't.

If you're comfortable presenting punters with a menu on top of your flat rate and figuring out the combinations then dealing with anything they wind up not doing - are you going to refund anything that doesn't go ahead, because you'll need to keep some money at hand for that?

Plus having to stop everything so they can scratch about for more money in the middle of bookings if they suddenly decide they want X or Y; the best of luck to you but I think you're giving yourself a lot to do. It's making me tired just thinking about it :D

The extras have to be declared when making the booking.  If they read my profile properly (most don't) then they usually ask at point of booking.
So to be fair, I don't get many extra requests, I just wanted to hear other people's thoughts on the matter.
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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #11 on: 14 March 2025, 04:28:44 pm »
I charge extra 30 for OWO and am really clear about this from the outset.
I would say that 80% of Clients choose this.

I also charge extra for any outcall starting after 7pm because i hate working evenings.
50 quid extra, on top of my usual fee per every half hour from 7.30pm..

.Most Clients find they can accommodate before 7pm after all  ;D

I don't work after 9pm start time. Ever.
 
They wouldn't like me if i did   8)
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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #12 on: 16 March 2025, 08:49:52 am »
I did charge extras at one stage, most clients were OK and discussed it during a booking which takes extra time.  Occasionally they would change there mind during a booking and promise to pay the extra at the end, I didn't agree to that.  Then stopping for the extra cash during the booking delayed matters, it was all a hassle.

I put my price up and stopped charging for extras, it made life easier and no change in income.
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Patricia

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #13 on: 16 March 2025, 10:07:10 am »
The reason I've never had an extras list of charges is that imo it could complicate and/or give the booking a downturn.  Not all clients have a structured idea of their visit and some spontaneity is common.  I've had some men say oh surprise me! Yes I can do that but then to say righteo let's do this but you'll have to pay more etc etc.  no that wouldn't suit me at all.
 
Basic things like owo or oral on me I wouldn't charge extra for as I would just increase my basic fee for all and they can either do it or not but pay the same as everyone else.  In any booking it's me who decides what I will or won't do and no worries over him paying extra at the end or interrupting the session for him to go to his jacket and look for cash 🫤  No thanks
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Gazaro

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Re: Extras, what, and how much to charge?
« Reply #14 on: 16 March 2025, 10:21:36 am »
I used to think the same and had OWO included.
Now I think I prefer to go through all the " hustle" in organising an extra (most men will know they will want owo in advance anyway) rather than taking 50% cocks uncovered in my mouth. As it turned out, half of the men don't really bother and could go without this risky activity.
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