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Title: Extra work for no gain
Post by: Secretpassionscouple on 03 March 2020, 01:02:20 pm
Hi so we are a married  bi couple who work on aw as a due
 We have a regular client who is nice enough but a couple of weeks  before the meet takes place he starts texting  asking for sexy messages for his wife and requests  spunk filled underwear at no extra charge ..do they not realise  we have other booking  and this takes up our time .. anyone  else get the same ?  We are escorts  not freinds for life lol xxx
Title: Re: Extra work for no gain
Post by: BibiofLeeds on 04 March 2020, 03:15:31 pm
I think the majority of escorts get these cheeky fuckers.Mostly they are pretty deluded and forget we do this for money not because we like them. Only you can decide if the money you get for his booking is worth putting up with the extra hassle. Mostly when a client started behaving like that I found they also would try and push boundaries in other ways and I didn't wish to see them anymore. Or you could politely but firmly tell him that if he wants sexy texts and knickers then he needs to pay for them as it is an extra service.He might get the message you never know!
Title: Re: Extra work for no gain
Post by: DarcyLady on 04 March 2020, 04:48:29 pm
These people annoy the hell out of me. He's just after freebies, and I always charge for everything.
Title: Re: Extra work for no gain
Post by: Mirror on 04 March 2020, 05:46:18 pm
One reason I stopped accepting couple bookings was that I was being treated as titillation, however it's not confined to couples of course so good boundaries required. No response often gets the message across.
Title: Re: Extra work for no gain
Post by: BangerRacing on 04 March 2020, 07:18:41 pm
People's true colours come out in the end don't they.

The other day I saw an escort who has this on her profile;
"I don't refer to my guests as clients, they are my special friends".
Good luck with that one, I thought.
Title: Re: Extra work for no gain
Post by: CelesteManchester on 04 March 2020, 09:01:13 pm
"Dear Mr:
I'm so thrilled we're texting before our appointment in X days time, this will really rev up our time together, don't you agree?♥️💋

My cost for sexting is XYZ amount, payable prior to the sexting, in 30 minute increments
*pick your own amount here*. I accept CashApp, Venmo, PayPal...." (etc)

"Why yes, we DO offer specially filled panties for your personal use! I'll even mail them discreetly in a brown envelope inside a baggie, sealed for *freshness*. My donations for those would begin at ABC $$ amounts...."

You just see how fast he shuts up😂😂😂, once you start quoting prices. Do not let him derail you; you keep saying this stuff over & over. He'll stop.

Title: Re: Extra work for no gain
Post by: SuperCheese on 04 March 2020, 10:11:59 pm
There are lots of clients like this; it's a form of boundary pushing and freebie hunting. Time is money, so I wouldn't entertain him for free. Is the eventual booking worth all of your free graft?
Title: Re: Extra work for no gain
Post by: jellib33 on 06 March 2020, 02:18:20 am
Yes,

I had a client and he was very excessive
Texting me all the time
Wanted me to get back to him
I finally told him
He wanted a cheap rate
Would throw something in last minute
Very annoying
Wanted to meet at least every other week
Got me sick once
Had enough
Told him to leave it

Used to do threesome encounters with two guys and inquired about my rate
Wondered why I wouldn't see him
Excessive

Already takes me a long time texting
Filtering for paying clients

Title: Re: Extra work for no gain
Post by: Secretpassionscouple on 10 March 2020, 03:19:01 pm
Thanks guys so its not just us then
 We suppose  its part of our journey  unfortunately  xx