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thesunalsorises

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Experienced sugar baby turned escort needing advice
« on: 11 May 2016, 02:51:14 pm »
Hello all you lovely ladies,

I am 20yo and been sugaring for 2 years. I have done a few no strings attached arrangements which seems basically the same as escorting and a few long term arrangements.  I am now turning to escorting, mainly as it seems less time consuming and less BS. I would like to be indie from the start but that does seem a bit daunting, so I am considering an agency just whilst I get a lay of the land.

So here I thought would be a nice place to get some advice for newbies, maybe even arrange a meet up between newbies and experienced.

Hope to hear from you all

Jaquelyn

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Re: Experienced sugar baby turned escort needing advice
« Reply #1 on: 11 May 2016, 03:57:41 pm »
Best thing to do is go to www.saafe.info and read over the pages there four or five times. Then use the search boxes (there are two above) and see if the questions you have have been asked before. You may have to use a few different words in the search box.

Then if you don't get the answer to what you want to know (which is highly unlikely but possible), come back to the forum and ask your questions.

Good luck and welcome to SAAFE.
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Re: Experienced sugar baby turned escort needing advice
« Reply #2 on: 11 May 2016, 04:07:51 pm »
What she said, but if you can do SBing yourself you really have zero need for an agency.

If you advertised somewhere, you remember all the dodgy chancers you got trying it on? An agency would have booked most of them in with you: they're not the ones in the room, and it makes them money.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Experienced sugar baby turned escort needing advice
« Reply #3 on: 11 May 2016, 08:47:06 pm »
Never been a sugar baby, I follow a bunch on tumblr though and their hustle and saviness to the world of men paying for time seems so high if not higher as you get a bigger amount of attemtpted freeloaders and timewasters so i'm sure you'll pass you're first day with flying colours lol

thesunalsorises

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Re: Experienced sugar baby turned escort needing advice
« Reply #4 on: 11 May 2016, 09:01:44 pm »
Thank you ladies, reading through it all now. Feeling fairly confident about it now since sugaring is so similar, I am just going to make sure I have the safety thing down to a T before doing it.

Yes you definitely do but once you have found 1-3 good ones its pretty easy. What bothers me is the whole charade, most of the men on there should just go to escorts because everyone is just pretending its not about the money- when it 100% is! Its a full GF experience but they fool themselves into thinking its real.

I have had two get very possessive and stalkerish and it got quite scary at one point because I was a newbie, gave my real phone number to one and after a while of dating him stupidly said where I went to uni. Never make that mistake again! Now I have a full character I play, it is quite funny! xx

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Re: Experienced sugar baby turned escort needing advice
« Reply #5 on: 12 May 2016, 07:03:39 pm »
Hi there!
Best to look on here and have a good read it's a great site.
I was an SB at first and still am, I then moved onto escorting and simply made a profile on AW and didn't know about any forums or help pages, made a few mistakes similar to yours (giving personal number telling them where I study) in the first 6 months but after finding Saafe got it all covered!

Make sure to have a different number and email, don't use AW on your personal phone I've done that and it's gone wrong! You sound clued up enough already but definitely spend a few hours reading here, if you don't want your escorting to be know by people don't show your face and make sure to take pictures in a neutral area like a hotel or something where people don't recognise the wallpaper or you.

If you need any help just ask, I hope it goes well! Apart from the time wasters and guys who send you pathetic threats (very small minority) it's a fantastic job and I enjoy it still after 4 years! xx