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Stayparanoid

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Ex threatening to tell my friends family social services
« on: 12 December 2019, 10:31:22 pm »
Hi I’m extremely stressed . I’ve split up with someone who found out I was an escort a few months into our relationship. He was jelous and insecure and paranoid anyway but this escalated to the point where I couldn’t take it any longer ... anyway .. 3 years later and he’s sending threatening and very Abusive and hurtful messages. He has said he will contact social services ( I have a young child ) and family and my little ones school . He said he’s printed off my Aw profile and will send them . He says he’s put a tracker on my car .. he has the spare key ! I’ve changed my personal number . I don’t know what to do and I need advice! Is there any legal thing I can do ?or anything else ! I really am worried what he’s capable off . Help please xxx

curvywench

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Re: Ex threatening to tell my friends family social services
« Reply #1 on: 13 December 2019, 10:48:12 pm »
Okay straight to garage or police and get car checked for a tracker and also tell them he is threatening and blackmailing you

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Re: Ex threatening to tell my friends family social services
« Reply #2 on: 13 December 2019, 11:41:53 pm »
Do a search for 'blackmail' here. The police really do not like blackmailers.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Ex threatening to tell my friends family social services
« Reply #3 on: 19 December 2019, 02:43:18 am »
As the other ladies have said this is stalking and blackmail, yes there is a legal case. As for social services dont worry too much! I had somebody tell social but they didnt even want to do home visit they just wanted to talk over phone. They were satisfied that I wasnt doing anything while my child.was in the house, didnt leave him with unsavory characters and just made sure he waant around when I have clients. Aslong as your prioritising your childs safety then dont worry about social x

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Re: Ex threatening to tell my friends family social services
« Reply #4 on: 19 December 2019, 03:01:00 am »

I am always shocked to hear stories like this.

What is going on in the minds of these people who have fun trying to hurt others?

Yes, do as the other posters said. Go straight to the police. Ask their advice and do exactly what they tell you to do.

This man uses your insecurity and guilt to try to manipulate you. You don't have to be afraid of him and you don't do anything wrong (or anything illegal) by being an escort.
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