Talking from experience social services did have a problem with escorting where I was concerned.

I never did it where my children were present yet when my ex flagged me to them, being a young mother who was prostituting herself, it quickly became something they relied heavily on in their mitigation to have my children adopted.

My children were never at risk nor in harms way in relation to my work because I never worked at home and they had no idea what I did, but this alongside domestic violence (which they were already involved for but wasn't seeking to remove my children because of) culminated in my little ones being adopted and the judge overseeing my case ruled that given my line of work my life was unruly and in effect made me an incompetent parent. It sounds bad and unjustified  because it was, I genuinely believe I was a miscarriage of justice but that's another story.

I can completely see why you don't want them involved and if you have to then, deny deny deny. I don't know what area you are from and granted social work departments differ massively from town to county but as soon as I read this and saw ladies saying that social services would be ok with what you do I just had to put this out there that prostitution can be and is a red flag to some social work departments.

Is there any way you can ensure he "loses" whatever evidence he has of you doing this?
If so then once you're sure he can't "show" social services anything, then report him to the police.

What an ass he sounds. He should pay his own bills, the freeloading twat.

I'm sorry he's doing this to you xx

Are you aware that social services departments have 'targets' for forced adoptions each year? Do you know how many take place via secrecy in the family court? And that they try and get it all 'done and dusted' within 6 to 12 months.

  Its scandalous and young female sex workers are often amongst the most vulnerable people that they pick on. A lot of these social workers and/or their managers have their own agenda ie; Their own personal views and government opinions against prostitution and are often on 'power trips'  to control other peoples lives via their children.

My advice to the OP regarding her situation, I would see a solicitor about getting an injunction order on your ex, tell them he's harassing you. Deny anything he says and appear to be whiter than white and then if SS did get involved you've nothing to worry about.

Quote from: angelastar on 16 February 2016, 09:46:28 am

as long as you can demonstrate that your children are being cared for properly and in a secure environment then you have nothing to worry about. sex work isnt illegal.

This is rubbish, we all know that its legal, that's not the point.  A young woman has bravely posted to warn others about how her children were taken from her for no other reason than domestic violence and because of her occupation. Her children were cared for properly in a secure environment, they came to no harm.


Are you aware that social services departments have 'targets' for forced adoptions each year? Do you know how many take place via secrecy in the family court? And that they try and get it all 'done and dusted' within 6 to 12 months?  Its scandalous and young female sex workers are often amongst the most vulnerable people that they pick on. A lot of these social workers and/or their managers have their own agenda ie; Their own personal views and government opinions against prostitution and are often on 'power trips'  to control other peoples lives via their children.


My advice to the OP regarding her situation, I would see a solicitor about getting an injunction order on your ex, tell them he's harassing you. Deny anything he says and appear to be whiter than white and then if SS did get involved you've nothing to worry about.