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scarlett45

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #45 on: 22 November 2018, 10:42:37 am »
hi refunded him 50 pound told him i was keping 10 pound for admin fees due to 4 months of detailed emails ,2 scenario phone chats i don't work for nothing then blocked him so thank you for the advice ,as i really wouldn't have refunded him at all as i don't think he would have turned up anyway but that's not for me to to generlise xx
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ladyofthemansion

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #46 on: 22 November 2018, 06:12:13 pm »
Quote from: scarlett45 on 22 November 2018, 10:42:37 am
hi refunded him 50 pound told him i was keping 10 pound for admin fees due to 4 months of detailed emails ,2 scenario phone chats i don't work for nothing then blocked him so thank you for the advice ,as i really wouldn't have refunded him at all as i don't think he would have turned up anyway but that's not for me to to generlise xx

You were determined not to give him the whole lot. If you chose to go in to extended chat that was up to you. You cancelled on him and should have paid the whole lot back.
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Mirror

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #47 on: 22 November 2018, 06:58:33 pm »
Quote from: ladyofthemansion on 22 November 2018, 06:12:13 pm
You were determined not to give him the whole lot. If you chose to go in to extended chat that was up to you. You cancelled on him and should have paid the whole lot back.
I agree it was the OP's choice and should have been dealt with then, or accepted.

« Last Edit: 22 November 2018, 07:04:28 pm by Mirror »
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ladyofthemansion

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #48 on: 23 November 2018, 02:31:55 am »
Quote from: Mirror on 22 November 2018, 06:58:33 pm
I agree it was the OP's choice and should have been dealt with then, or accepted.

I call it stealing. X
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someonesomewhere

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #49 on: 23 November 2018, 09:37:17 am »
Quote from: ladyofthemansion on 23 November 2018, 02:31:55 am
I call it stealing. X

Yup, I agree. But at least op is justifying it in her own mind because after all chances are despite paying the deposit he wouldn't have shown.  :-\
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Mirror

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #50 on: 23 November 2018, 09:43:12 am »
Quote from: someonesomewhere on 23 November 2018, 09:37:17 am
Yup, I agree. But at least op is justifying it in her own mind because after all chances are despite paying the deposit he wouldn't have shown.  :-\

Based on what?

Until he no shows she's no right to keep the deposit - unless she stipulated that in the terms.
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someonesomewhere

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« Reply #51 on: 23 November 2018, 10:01:54 am »
Quote from: Mirror on 23 November 2018, 09:43:12 am
Based on what?

Until he no shows she's no right to keep the deposit - unless she stipulated that in the terms.

I was being sarcastic about the reasoning for keeping some of the deposit. Forgot to add about the ping pong comms, which op is going to have to work on shutting down because we all know if we allow punters to do this, they will.
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ladyofthemansion

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #52 on: 23 November 2018, 10:32:11 am »
Next time this same guy tried to book somebody else and they ask for deposit his answer will be “No, I’ve been stung before.”

OP. You still have time to send the guy the tenner you have stolen and apologies that you were wrong.
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Mirror

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #53 on: 23 November 2018, 11:56:14 am »
Quote from: ladyofthemansion on 23 November 2018, 10:32:11 am
Next time this same guy tried to book somebody else and they ask for deposit his answer will be “No, I’ve been stung before.”

OP. You still have time to send the guy the tenner you have stolen and apologies that you were wrong.

Yes tars us with the same brush.
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Kay1996

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #54 on: 23 November 2018, 04:12:47 pm »
Yeah,
OP the minute you cancelled you should have refunded the whole deposit.
This could be classed as theft. No wonder some punters have bad opinions of WGs when girls do things like this!
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amy

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #55 on: 23 November 2018, 04:48:53 pm »
Christ Almighty, give it a rest - I agree from what I've read of the thread that any deposit should be refunded in full but the weapons grade level of pious sanctimony here is making me struggle to keep my lunch down and we're not going to have a witch hunt.

Since I doubt the OP wants to come back and comment now (and if I were her any comment I would make in response to the above would need to be removed anyway), locked. Anybody who was hoping to join in the pile on will just have to spend the afternoon polishing their halo instead.
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