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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: MissSophieXx on 16 July 2016, 06:06:25 pm
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Hi ladies this is my last resort really I have just given up my part time job at tesco
As it was a nightmare and was not worth the pain I was in by the end of my shift.
I've decided I'm going to start escorting again for a short period of time just to save some money up
Before baby is here. Obviously I need to be more careful what can I do to keep me and my
Little boy safe.
Also the town I live in is really small so would like to avoid bumping into anyone I know can i ask for photos before meeting? Xx
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If you do a search for 'pregnant' here, you will discover that there's definitely a niche 'pamfan' market, but that it's a controversial area.
Asking for client photos is going to put a lot of people off. If you can recognise voices, getting them to ring you as part of your booking procedure is going to work much better.
Is booking somewhere out of the area for a weekend an option?
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Hi Hun
I have never been pregnant so I can't advise personally . I have had friends webcam
When pregnant And they were very busy . Would you ever do webcam ? It will give you more pennies than tescos and you might find it less stressful . I really doubt genuine clients will send pictures Hun maybe go to a different town but not to far away if your worried .
I wish you luck xx
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Hi ladies this is my last resort really I have just given up my part time job at tesco
As it was a nightmare and was not worth the pain I was in by the end of my shift.
I've decided I'm going to start escorting again for a short period of time just to save some money up
Before baby is here. Obviously I need to be more careful what can I do to keep me and my
Little boy safe.
Also the town I live in is really small so would like to avoid bumping into anyone I know can i ask for photos before meeting? Xx
I'm not going to say my full thoughts on working as an escort while pregnant because it would offend some and that's not what I want to do.
But is there no way you could follow the advice of Barbie and do the webcamming instead? That way you wouldn't be putting your unborn child at any risk.
This game is dangerous and you could get attacked at any point. When most of us get into this job, the fear of having to fight for our own life is scary enough without having to fear that of an innocent child.
Also, what if a condom bursts and you end up catching and STI?
The list of complications is endless with this one but it's best I stop now.
xx
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I'm sort of with Kendra when it comes to escort meets while pregnant although your choice, I agree that web cam whilst pregnant if you market it within an inch of your life can bring in good money, especially when your milk comes. Search for pregnancy fetish on porn sites and good luck! X
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Is it belly pains your getting ?
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Hey ladies! Thanks for the replies. Honestly escorting while pregnant isn't ideal and I know that but
I feel like it's my only choice. I use to cam on streamate and made s decent living I went back on a few days ago and didn't even make a penny. I'm up for using other sites the only thing is I'm living back at my mums and she's out 4 hours a day Monday to Friday so that's all I have.
What sites should I try? xx
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And it was both really back pain and belly pains and swollen feet after my shift really wasn't worth it for the money and they constantly want you to do overtime. Xx
Is it belly pains your getting ?
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If you're having pain then I'd stick with camming. I can't imagine bending into awkward sex positions is going to do much for your pain levels.
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Hey :)
I considered this but decided not to in the end. When I was doing some research though I did find reviews online of a pregnant lady who didn't offer penetrative sex, just foreplay, for a similar price to full-sex because there are a lot of guys out there who are into pregnant women.
Are you showing already?
Hope it goes well for you. I was in a similar situation, and it is hard!
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Also have you spoken to your midwife about support you are entitled to? If you are low income you can get a ?500 maternity grant, it's not much but helps for those necessary baby things. Is it your first?
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One more thing, if you are worried about bumping into someone you know in your town, are you able to book a hotel in a place further afield and do incalls for a few days?
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I see what your saying with webcam to make good money you have to put the hours in 4 hours prob isn't enough are you on adult work ? I don't know any one who did escorting while pregnant just web cam . I don't want to tell you what t o do we all have different circumstances but try and explore other options before I recently had a what could of been a proper creepy customer which I managed to avoid but the thought of it has really scared me there are a lot of creeps out there and you don't need the potential stressss that comes with escorting .
See what support is on offer to you Hun financially and you take care of your self x
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Difficult one this one as morally it is wrong but I was in the same position many years ago. I offered hand relief and oral with a condom and reduced my fees quite a bit so I was able to get by. When I got to about 6 months I found a receptionist job in a massage parlour that paid reasonably well. There is definitely a market for pregnant escorts, I was offered ridiculous amounts of money whilst maiding.
Since discovering webcamming I have cut my escorting down greatly so like the other ladies on here have advised try your hand at webcam or just offer reduced services.
Best of luck LD x
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Hey ladies! Thanks for the replies. Honestly escorting while pregnant isn't ideal and I know that but
I feel like it's my only choice. I use to cam on streamate and made s decent living I went back on a few days ago and didn't even make a penny. I'm up for using other sites the only thing is I'm living back at my mums and she's out 4 hours a day Monday to Friday so that's all I have.
What sites should I try? xx
Adultwork is your best bet x
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I made 500 plus a week while camming while preg, PM me if you need any advise x
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Make clips. Pregnancy is a huge fetish. Start now and make a few every day. Talk about your expanding belly, your growing tits, your juicy preg pussy, your swollen feet, your piles, what it will feel/sound like giving birth, EVERYTHING about the pregnancy (apart from the baby. They don't want/need to know about that). Plus the other things, like masturbating, rubbing your tummy/tits, squeezing out colostrum, and any other sexy/kinky/fetish things that will have the added attraction of your pregnancy.
Upload to AW, Clips4Sale, and any other clip sites that you like the look of. Upload at LEAST once a day. Make enough clips to be able to keep uploading until well after the baby is born (which is when you won't want to cam/work, or be able to find the time to for a few months).
Good luck :)
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Make clips. Pregnancy is a huge fetish. Start now and make a few every day. Talk about your expanding belly, your growing tits, your juicy preg pussy, your swollen feet, your piles, what it will feel/sound like giving birth, EVERYTHING about the pregnancy (apart from the baby. They don't want/need to know about that). Plus the other things, like masturbating, rubbing your tummy/tits, squeezing out colostrum, and any other sexy/kinky/fetish things that will have the added attraction of your pregnancy.
Upload to AW, Clips4Sale, and any other clip sites that you like the look of. Upload at LEAST once a day. Make enough clips to be able to keep uploading until well after the baby is born (which is when you won't want to cam/work, or be able to find the time to for a few months).
I will give this a go how much do I charge per clips? Xx
Good luck :)
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Difficult one this one as morally it is wrong but I was in the same position many years ago. I offered hand relief and oral with a condom and reduced my fees quite a bit so I was able to get by. When I got to about 6 months I found a receptionist job in a massage parlour that paid reasonably well. There is definitely a market for pregnant escorts, I was offered ridiculous amounts of money whilst maiding.
Since discovering webcamming I have cut my escorting down greatly so like the other ladies on here have advised try your hand at webcam or just offer reduced services.
Best of luck LD x
No it isn't and I don't think this kind of judgement is appropriate here.
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Judgement isn't welcomed on here which is fair enough but advice surely for the grater good is?
As I said in my first post....I didn't want to say my personal thoughts on the matter because I know it would offend some ladies but your completely delusional if you try and say that selling sex to every Tom, Dick & Harry whilst pregnant isn't morally wrong.
Being a hooker is morally wrong too but we still do it, nobody is whiter than white but at least when most of us are breaking morals, we only have ourselves to be responsible for and as an adult....that's our choice to make.
Being pregnant and working is not only seriously dangerous in many ways as explained in my earlier post but the thought of men with a pregnancy fetish getting "off" over my bump and my body changing because of my baby would haunt me for the rest of my life. I've seen feedback that punters have left for pregnant escorts boasting about cumming on the escorts bump. I can't even begin to put in words how wrong that is....to me.
Each to their own but I have a conscience and I don't think I could ever forgive myself if I worked while pregnant, every time I looked at my child....I would be horrified with myself, completely riddled with guilt but that's just me.
I think sex between a pregnant lady and the father of her child is a very lovely thing but that's as far as it goes for me.
We all have our own opinions, you can't shoot someone down just because your option differs. My intention with this post isn't to offend anyone, it's just my views on the subject and I hope that of anything....it will make the OP think twice and realise that there are other options where she can make good money, tonnes and tonnes more than she ever could in Tesco's without putting her or her unborn child at any risk.
If she insists on sex work of some sort then I think webcamming is her best option.
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Judgement isn't welcomed on here which is fair enough but advice surely for the grater good is?
As I said in my first post....I didn't want to say my personal thoughts on the matter because I know it would offend some ladies but your completely delusional if you try and say that selling sex to every Tom, Dick & Harry whilst pregnant isn't morally wrong.
Being a hooker is morally wrong too but we still do it, nobody is whiter than white but at least when most of us are breaking morals, we only have ourselves to be responsible for and as an adult....that's our choice to make.
Being pregnant and working is not only seriously dangerous in many ways as explained in my earlier post but the thought of men with a pregnancy fetish getting "off" over my bump and my body changing because of my baby would haunt me for the rest of my life. I've seen feedback that punters have left for pregnant escorts boasting about cumming on the escorts bump. I can't even begin to put in words how wrong that is....to me.
Each to their own but I have a conscience and I don't think I could ever forgive myself if I worked while pregnant, every time I looked at my child....I would be horrified with myself, completely riddled with guilt but that's just me.
I think sex between a pregnant lady and the father of her child is a very lovely thing but that's as far as it goes for me.
We all have our own opinions, you can't shoot someone down just because your option differs. My intention with this post isn't to offend anyone, it's just my views on the subject and I hope that of anything....it will make the OP think twice and realise that there are other options where she can make good money, tonnes and tonnes more than she ever could in Tesco's without putting her or her unborn child at any risk.
If she insists on sex work of some sort then I think webcamming is her best option.
No, that isn't morally wrong either. Why on earth would it be? Receiving money for providing a service is not wrong, unless every single person in the service industry is immoral.
If the OP wants to sell sex while pregnant, then that is her choice and I'm sure she is going into it with her eyes open. Comments like, "I don't think I could ever forgive myself if I worked while pregnant," are, in my view, completely unhelpful.
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That's YOUR opinion that it's not morally wrong but it's NOT my opinion, that's what I tried to say in my last post. A forum is always going to be filled with mixed opinions. In life....everyone has mixed opinions. Yes we're providing a service but it's hardly cutting someone's hair. It's completely different when talking in this context.
If I didn't feel that being a hooker was morally wrong then I wouldn't hide my identity, I would tell my parents and the rest of my family and friends and not give a shit but we're derailing the thread now and I know for sure that's not helpful.
I was expressing my views on the subject since you shot someone else's opinion down in flames.
You might think it's unhelpful me trying to tell a pregnant lady asking for advice on escorting that it's dangerous and that there are other options but I think you filling her head telling her what she wants to hear is being far more unhelpful. Conflicting opinions again.
And I said that I wouldn't be able to live with myself (which is the gods honest truth) but also as a plea to make the OP really think about what she's about to do.
Sometimes telling people the harsh truth is for the best.
As I said, each to their own. This is my opinion and I don't expect everyone to agree with me whereas you clearly think that just because myself and a couple of others don't agree with you that we're somehow in the wrong ???
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No, that isn't morally wrong either. Why on earth would it be? Receiving money for providing a service is not wrong, unless every single person in the service industry is immoral.
If the OP wants to sell sex while pregnant, then that is her choice and I'm sure she is going into it with her eyes open. Comments like, "I don't think I could ever forgive myself if I worked while pregnant," are, in my view, completely unhelpful.
Totally agree with Nova.
As someone who has extensive experience and education related to pregnancy I actually completely disagree that it is dangerous too. No more dangerous than any couple having sex while pregnant as long as normal protection is used.
Victorians believed it was morally wrong to show your ankles.
Its all just opinion at the end of the day.
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As stated before, I worked when I was pregnant and was on PAMFAN and got a lot of work via that, I stopped working at 7 months and only came back to work when my child was 6 months old.
Personally I suffered from bad morning sickness for about 5 months and was constantly tired so only worked when i had the energy and only took one appointment a day and predominantly saw my regulars who were aware of my situation.
You can try webcamming, I did not know about webcamming in those days, it is lucrative and you can do it even with people in the house as long as you are behind closed doors :). That way you can work up your clientelle for when you are able to offer a personal service. Also do not forget that once you start lactating you will have a whole different type of clientelle breaking down your door and trust me that is a very popular service also on cam.
Enjoy your pregnancy and watch the hormones especially afterwards, I suffered with post partum for 2 years before being diagnosed. xx
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As stated before, I worked when I was pregnant and was on PAMFAN and got a lot of work via that, I stopped working at 7 months and only came back to work when my child was 6 months old.
Personally I suffered from bad morning sickness for about 5 months and was constantly tired so only worked when i had the energy and only took one appointment a day and predominantly saw my regulars who were aware of my situation.
You can try webcamming, I did not know about webcamming in those days, it is lucrative and you can do it even with people in the house as long as you are behind closed doors :). That way you can work up your clientelle for when you are able to offer a personal service. Also do not forget that once you start lactating you will have a whole different type of clientelle breaking down your door and trust me that is a very popular service also on cam.
Enjoy your pregnancy and watch the hormones especially afterwards, I suffered with post partum for 2 years before being diagnosed. xx
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I hope every thing is going ok for you ? You need to do what's best for you and your baby Hun . I have never been pregnant like I said before but I have been skint and we all know in this job you can no Monday in the morning and be rich by the afternoon . But my friends who cammed when they was pregnant did well . You need to get on adult work Hun . X
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Totally agree with Nova.
As someone who has extensive experience and education related to pregnancy I actually completely disagree that it is dangerous too. No more dangerous than any couple having sex while pregnant as long as normal protection is used.
Victorians believed it was morally wrong to show your ankles.
Its all just opinion at the end of the day.
Dangerous in the fact that she would be meeting complete strangers. Did your parents never tell you not to go with strangers? It's cause there's bad guys out there.
As an escort, we see strangers in private and anything at any time can go wrong. We may have a difference of options on the whole escort/pregnancy thing but to say it isn't dangerous is crazy to me.
And as I also said, what happens if the OP has sex and the condom bursts? What happens if she gets a bareback pusher? That puts her health and the baby's health at risk.
It's the OP's choice, I'm not saying anything bad about her or anyone who chooses to work while pregnant. I'm simply trying to point out the potential risks and that if like me, she has a conscience then working while pregnant might be something she will regret in the future.
All I'm trying to do is give a balanced view. It's up to the OP and any other pregnant lady who reads this to make up their own minds.
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Make clips. Pregnancy is a huge fetish. Start now and make a few every day. Talk about your expanding belly, your growing tits, your juicy preg pussy, your swollen feet, your piles, what it will feel/sound like giving birth, EVERYTHING about the pregnancy (apart from the baby. They don't want/need to know about that). Plus the other things, like masturbating, rubbing your tummy/tits, squeezing out colostrum, and any other sexy/kinky/fetish things that will have the added attraction of your pregnancy.
Upload to AW, Clips4Sale, and any other clip sites that you like the look of. Upload at LEAST once a day. Make enough clips to be able to keep uploading until well after the baby is born (which is when you won't want to cam/work, or be able to find the time to for a few months). Good Luck : )
Brilliant suggestions here from Cat ;D ;D ;D
You only have 4 hour a day for camming when your Mum is out at work.... well that's 20 hours per week!! 20 hours better than nothing!!! And when your Mum is at home you could perhaps offer Direct IM - text based chat via AW. It's not nearly as profitable as camming but I personally have an additional 300 credits per week from Direct IM. It's a decent extra earner.
You could also do some phone chat....
I would suggest you change your AW user name / create a user name that reflects that you are pregnant.
You need to do what you feel is best for you, but you can and will work things out. There is always a way. I wish you the very best of luck. xx
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I think we can put morals aside, but I would be worried about a condom accident, so would back up either webcamming or offering only non-penetrative services.
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Dangerous in the fact that she would be meeting complete strangers. Did your parents never tell you not to go with strangers? It's cause there's bad guys out there.
As an escort, we see strangers in private and anything at any time can go wrong. We may have a difference of options on the whole escort/pregnancy thing but to say it isn't dangerous is crazy to me.
And as I also said, what happens if the OP has sex and the condom bursts? What happens if she gets a bareback pusher? That puts her health and the baby's health at risk.
It's the OP's choice, I'm not saying anything bad about her or anyone who chooses to work while pregnant. I'm simply trying to point out the potential risks and that if like me, she has a conscience then working while pregnant might be something she will regret in the future.
All I'm trying to do is give a balanced view. It's up to the OP and any other pregnant lady who reads this to make up their own minds.
So people who work while pregnant and don't regret it have no conscience? More unhelpful judgement. How do you think the OP will feel reading this if she has decided to go ahead and escort?
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So people who work while pregnant and don't regret it have no conscience? More unhelpful judgement. How do you think the OP will feel reading this if she has decided to go ahead and escort?
The can't possibly have a conscience if they're advising other escorts to go ahead with it surely? Otherwise why would you give advice to do something you've done and regret? Doesn't make sense.
I think giving her the heads up about how she might be later can only be a good thing as it might make her think twice about doing it and take other options.
Your twisting my words because your annoyed at me. It's silly. We don't agree and that's all there is to it.
We will have to agree to disagree on this one but I think some of you trying to say it's not dangerous etc is irresponsible.
I'm out of this topic now as clearly there are a lot of ladies on here who have worked while pregnant and my intention was never to offend them and I don't see the point in arguing as my opinion on this won't change and neither will yours obviously.
Nobody likes to hear what they don't wanna hear.
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The can't possibly have a conscience if they're advising other escorts to go ahead with it surely? Otherwise why would you give advice to do something you've done and regret? Doesn't make sense.
I think giving her the heads up about how she might be later can only be a good thing as it might make her think twice about doing it and take other options.
Your twisting my words because your annoyed at me. It's silly. We don't agree and that's all there is to it.
We will have to agree to disagree on this one but I think some of you trying to say it's not dangerous etc is irresponsible.
I'm out of this topic now as clearly there are a lot of ladies on here who have worked while pregnant and my intention was never to offend them and I don't see the point in arguing as my opinion on this won't change and neither will yours obviously.
Nobody likes to hear what they don't wanna hear.
I think you've misread my post. I said people who escort while pregnant and don't regret it. Why would someone who escorts while pregnant have no conscience? We're not here to shame people into not offering services they want to offer. Her body: her choice.
As for, "I think giving her the heads up about how she might be later," - neither you nor I know how she will feel later if she chooses escorting. Maybe she will regret it; maybe she will feel great about it.
It's fine that your opinion is different to mine, but trying to guilt this lady into not offering escort services because you wouldn't in her position is unhelpful at best.
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Yes it is her body but while sharing her body with her baby....I think a little more thought needs to go into it than if it was just herself.
And if she feels great about it then good for her.
If she feels bad about it then I tried to warn her.
My opinion, nothing more and nothing less.
Can you give it a rest now please.
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Kendra, in case you'd forgotten you are in your own words 'out of this topic now'. If you can't stick to them, we'll be happy to help.
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Yes it is her body but while sharing her body with her baby....I think a little more thought needs to go into it than if it was just herself.
And that is exactly what she is doing by posting here and asking for input - giving it plenty of thought.
OP - whatever you decide to do, you have my support. I hope you find a way to make this situation work for you.
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So people who work while pregnant and don't regret it have no conscience? More unhelpful judgement. How do you think the OP will feel reading this if she has decided to go ahead and escort?
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How do you think any of us who have worked whilst pregnant would feel? It was my normal job, just like working in an office no different and no less dangerous than sleeping with a partner. I do not regret it and before anybody says a thing about it, I do have scrupples and a conscience. But it was either get an office job where I would not be able to take time off when i was not able to work or sign on for benefits.
For me it was a no brainer, I was safe as I assume any working pregnant woman would be and I was able to rent a lovely two bedroom house, furnish it, buy my child everything you could possibly want for your first born and my clients helped with gifts etc.
So it has nothing to do with morals, conscience etc it does not make you a bad mother for working whilst pregnant, every expectant mother works whether it is on their back or on their feet.
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There is a hell of a lot of judgement going on in this thread but it's good to see that the person who appeared to be stirring it all up has decided to leave the forum.
Personally I don't see anything wrong with being a sex worker while being an expectant mother although I have never had children myself if I ever found myself in the position that the OP finds herself in then I would do anything necessary to provide for both me and my child whether I was still married or not.
While I agree that webcamming would probably be better than the stress that escorting brings I don't think anyone had the right to question any escort mother's ethics or morals based on whether they feel like carrying on working or not.
To the OP if you feel like sex work is your only option be that escorting or camming then just do everything you can to protect both of you and screen clients as stringently as you need to in order to feel safe. That's not fool-proof but nothing is unfortunately.
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What about adult phone lines? It's been years since I have done it, but used to be a nice earner.
Not that I am suggesting the OP doesn't escort, but as another option if she isn't totally sure.
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Hello and thanks for all the replies and the ladies who are being understanding! Anyway can anyone offer me anymore advice on camming?
as i know a lot of people said they made alot when they were pregnant. AW is not letting me change my services to offering webcam it keeps coming up with a error. Ive just joined up on mfc as i use to do quite well on there. Chaturbate and Streamate have been pretty much dead.
Also how do i changed my name on adultwork? if anyone could have a look at my profile and tell me what needs changing.
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i made a new profile as i deleted my old one as i got into a relationship with my ex and he didnt like it! so its a fresh new profile what can i do?
Thank you
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Hello and thanks for all the replies and the ladies who are being understanding! Anyway can anyone offer me anymore advice on camming?
as i know a lot of people said they made alot when they were pregnant. AW is not letting me change my services to offering webcam it keeps coming up with a error. Ive just joined up on mfc as i use to do quite well on there. Chaturbate and Streamate have been pretty much dead.
Also how do i changed my name on adultwork? if anyone could have a look at my profile and tell me what needs changing.
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i made a new profile as i deleted my old one as i got into a relationship with my ex and he didnt like it! so its a fresh new profile what can i do?
Thank you
xxxxxx
What about some pics of your bump Side on without clothes? Maybe be careful with the wording . I'd maybe try to attract gentler clients?
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Hi Hun
Not sure why it won't let you sign up for webcam ? Is your aw verified ? I don't know much bout other cam sites . X
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If you post in the Adultwork or Webcamming section you'll probably get more technical help with that side.
If you're getting an error, please post what the error says.
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Hi Hun
Not sure why it won't let you sign up for webcam ? Is your aw verified ? I don't know much bout other cam sites . X
You have to verify twice when offering webcamming work.
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I already verified with sending in my passport and doing the verification photo, do I need to do this again? X
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If you post in the Adultwork or Webcamming section you'll probably get more technical help with that side.
Yes, can we please try to keep this discussion on topic? There's lots of information on both AW and webcamming on the appropriate boards :).
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No it isn't and I don't think this kind of judgement is appropriate here.
Well I think it is morally wrong IMO is what I should have said. I haven't judged anyone, how can I I don't know the OP. We have a choice to sell our bodies, the child doesn't and me personally I wouldn't risk the health of my child by having penetrative sex with STRANGERS.
No need to get your knickers in a twist, clearly I've touched a nerve, I gave an honest and frank opinion to the OPs question.
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Well I think it is morally wrong IMO is what I should have said. I haven't judged anyone, how can I I don't know the OP. We have a choice to sell our bodies, the child doesn't and me personally I wouldn't risk the health of my child by having penetrative sex with STRANGERS.
No need to get your knickers in a twist, clearly I've touched a nerve, I gave an honest and frank opinion to the OPs question.
For starters, none of us sell our bodies. We sell a service we provide with our bodies, just like every other manual worker in the world.
Secondly, how do you think your judgement (and it is a judgement) on doing sex work while pregnant is helpful to the OP and how might it make others feel who have done sex work while pregnant?
Yes you gave your honest and frank opinion and now I'm giving mine.
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For starters, none of us sell our bodies. We sell a service we provide with our bodies, just like every other manual worker in the world.
Secondly, how do you think your judgement (and it is a judgement) on doing sex work while pregnant is helpful to the OP and how might it make others feel who have done sex work while pregnant?
Yes you gave your honest and frank opinion and now I'm giving mine.
Yet again.. Spot on IMO Nova
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For starters, none of us sell our bodies. We sell a service we provide with our bodies, just like every other manual worker in the world.
Secondly, how do you think your judgement (and it is a judgement) on doing sex work while pregnant is helpful to the OP and how might it make others feel who have done sex work while pregnant?
Yes you gave your honest and frank opinion and now I'm giving mine.
Well you can pretty it up as much as you like, we sell our bodies end of. How you can compare our line of work with being on a factory floor? its laughable but this isnt what the question was about.
Like I said I dont judge anyone - if you have such a strong view on the subject maybe it would have been best not to have posted on it clearly you find it acceptable and I dont, its a personal choice. No need to get so rattled, this is what this forum is for to voice our opinions.
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Well you can pretty it up as much as you like, we sell our bodies end of.
Then how do you still have a body, if you sold it?
You don't sell it, you rent it out, same as the rest of us, same as any manual worker. A bloke digging a ditch uses his thigh muscles, I use my fanny muscles, but we're both selling a service.
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we sell our bodies end of.
No Linzi, 'we' do not.
If you feel you no longer own your body whilst or after you're workking then that's fine and your individual take on it is entirely up to you, but it's wrong to tacitly include all of us and by posting without being clear that you're just giving an opinion and speaking only for yourself (by using 'we' instead of 'I', or in the earlier post by stating 'it is morally wrong' without first typing 'I think' or 'in my opinion') then it's going to get people's backs up.
Nobody is 'rattled', just irritated at seeing an opinion which they do not share being presented as fact - it's just unfortunate wording, that's all :).
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Nobody is 'rattled', just irritated at seeing an opinion which they do not share being presented as fact - it's just unfortunate wording, that's all
like you said it was probably wrong of me to word it as such. Mss Sophie will do what is best for her and I wish her all the luck x
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I made 500 plus a week while camming while preg, PM me if you need any advise x
I don't suppose you would mind lending me a hand would you I'm in this situation and I don't know where to start? Xx
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I think we know what it's like to be skint and have no option but to go to work.
When one of my close friends was pregnant we did a 2 girl (she didn't declare to clients) she was mainly BJ and I was sex. I kept an eye and when she was tired I jumped in, when they tried to touch her bursting boobs I dived on them, if they even looked at her I rugby tackled them ;D could you not do something like this?
If not I second the camming/phone chat ect.
Hope you and baby are going great
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I'm working and have decided to carry on. I think I'll be fine doing that, I just need advice on wording my profile etc and options like calming I am very open to x
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i created this profile when i was found out i was pregnant. I was working a lil less and did more webcam until i started showing more (using my normal aw profile and again, new profile after started showing) but its not a case of right or wrong, but i've been really ill whilst pregnant so had to stop! i make most of my money using my old profile purely as phone stuff!! a hell of a lot less money but its so easy for me as my health is decreased! x
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I have had some really horrible responses online o feel like shit. I genuinely didn't think it would be this terrible.
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I have had some really horrible responses online o feel like shit. I genuinely didn't think it would be this terrible.
From punters? Or do you mean on forums like this?
People can be very judgemental of EVERYTHING when you're pregnant, or have a young baby. It's as if motherhood transforms you (for some people) from a grown up human being who can get on with their life, to some sort of public property who can be judged on everything from not taking folic acid, to having an elective CS, to choosing to BF or not. FUCK anyone else, it's your decision and only yours on how you parent and what you do.
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Notmon this forum but others yes :FF
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I'm sorry, that sucks. Maybe withdraw from posting on those forums for now?
You could try doing a member search on AW for escorts/webcammers who have "Pregnant" ticked in their likes list, and draw inspiration from those profiles. (Although you'll have to wade through a load of girls who've just ticked literally everything)
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It's turned so nasty. Yes I have seen pregnant women get some slack but this is a personal attack and extremely alarming that people that once wanted to book me and were so kind have turned on me like this. It's way out of hand now and it's got shocking!
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Try maybe also doing topless massages? If you are afraid to see people you may know tour to neariest big city once a week.
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Personally, I wouldn't work whilst pregnant because if anything went wrong (as in a customer turning nasty) it could all go terribly wrong (I'm not judging just thinking more along the lines of yours and your baby's safety in the event of a problem). However, if you really do need to keep on working, could you not offer a more specialised service like lactating/milk maid and target a specialised audience, etc. My concern would be that your bog standard average guy might be too rough or heavy handed with you because they don't care whether your pregnant or not. Whereas if you are specifically targeting men who have a thing for pregnant ladies, they will hopefully be more gentle and respectful towards you. There used to be specialist websites where you could advertise if you were pregnant/lactating. Maybe another lady will be along with some names of those websites. Good luck in whatever you decide to do and stay safe.x (apologies if I've duplicated anyone else's suggestions as I didn't read this thread in its entirety before posting).
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The internet trolls have left me alone now. They have laid off there nasty things to say and moved on thank goodness. I had no idea it would speak such nasty horrible things to be said about me and now I am on high alert if any forum punters want to book or mention reading my reviews I will not let them have an appointment. Which is best if I'm Honest as majority seem to be bloody horrible, terrible or extremely rough and awkward in the sexual department or extremely bad hygiene orally and physically. It's always a test with most of them. So red alert is here and I'm being very strict. I do offer massage anyway so I'm going to continue with that and I have a lot of regulars so I will only see guys that specifically know what they are looking for I have also put on my profile I am not offering any porn star services as I am delicate and if anyone tries to take advantages I will simply show them that part of my profile so they can't complain. I don't have to work ofcourse not but I choose to as someone with a normal job would do the same. My normal job does not bring in high enough income so this being my main source of income is what brings it in for me and I'm hoping to be able to build on my savings from it even more so.
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And we'll move on here too, since other forums and their members are off topic :).
You'll get all sorts of comments, ENB; wait until you're visibly pregnant and are seen ordering a coffee or God forbid a glass of wine and random cunts think it's fine to come up to you in public and comment as if you've just got your needle and cooking spoon out (and it would still be none of their business if you had), but you just have to rise above it. If you follow their logic pregnant women would never leave the house in case they got run over crossing the road, or eat food in case they choked or got food poisoning.
I don't know if you've read the full thread or when you're due, but I know you've mentioned a few tours in other posts - it might be worth making a loose time plan for what you're going to do when you're further along since the travel and packing/unpacking/hotel stress might get a bit much? Because pregnancy is completely predictable, obviously ;D.
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I am now showing. Someone tried to touch my stomachs the other day and I was fuming. I touched theirs back and made them jump and they asked why, so I replied with why is my point exactly.
In terms of tours etc, I am never alone and always with another girl or two so they are very helpful with everything like that. Pregnancy is so unpredictable. One minuite I'm eating a bacon sandwich happy as Larry the next I'm vomiting it up and peeing myself. It's hard work. But still quite exciting :)
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Hi ladies
I have a very distraught friend who is pregnant. She has decided to continue to work during her pregnancy, which is entirely her buisness. She has become a victim of abuse from both punters and prossies. She has recieved extremely abusive messages calling her vile things such as an "embryo abuser" and has even had wishes of her child disowning her when it is an adult for being an escort. I am a mother and I love my children very much. As escorts and mother's we do are absolute best for our families. Sometimes we are away from our kids to work, it's not easy but we are doing our best. I've had many emotional moments when being away from my kids as I'm sure all of you, especially touring girls. But we are all still mum's, mum's who do their absolute best. This girl does not deserve this abuse! She deserves support. Her baby isn't here yet but she's doing her best and absolutely loves her baby already. I think it would be really nice if all working mums could show this lady some support. If any of you have worked during your pregnancy or have children, your words of support would be much appriciated.
To all mums, keep up the good work xxx
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Is she not able to post a request for support herself? Surely there's not much point people pitching in if she isn't going to see it?
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Shes at home upset. She is on saafe. I was hoping shed see it and feel better. Just remove it amy! I really don't know why i bothered lol
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Hi ladies
I have a very distraught friend who is pregnant. She has decided to continue to work during her pregnancy, which is entirely her buisness. She has become a victim of abuse from both punters and prossies. She has recieved extremely abusive messages calling her vile things such as an "embryo abuser" and has even had wishes of her child disowning her when it is an adult for being an escort. I am a mother and I love my children very much. As escorts and mother's we do are absolute best for our families. Sometimes we are away from our kids to work, it's not easy but we are doing our best. I've had many emotional moments when being away from my kids as I'm sure all of you, especially touring girls. But we are all still mum's, mum's who do their absolute best. This girl does not deserve this abuse! She deserves support. Her baby isn't here yet but she's doing her best and absolutely loves her baby already. I think it would be really nice if all working mums could show this lady some support. If any of you have worked during your pregnancy or have children, your words of support would be much appriciated.
To all mums, keep up the good work xxx
That's terrible , the abuse your friend has endured. Her body her choice. Block and ignore!! Easy to say I know , but my online escorting life is so much simpler since I stopped getting into a dialogue with those who send nasty/idiotic messages.
Just found out I'm pregnant by 4.5mnth. Did not have a clue until 3wks ago!! Crazy. I didn't see myself having a baby at 40 , but here we are. Im living with the daddy who is 25yrs my senior, so we will be mature parents to say the least. Its been a HUGE shock as I've had a hard year and was only just getting back on my feet when my landlord of 5mnths decided to sell up, so after a year of having no perm home or security, I'm back to square one. Luckily I am well looked after by this kind older man , the plan was I see a small number of AW clients here to get ???? to move into my own place, then I find out I'm pregnant!! Didn't know if I would carry on working at first, but after much soul searching ive decided to do it. The pregnancy I see as a blessing in disguise , even though from the outside it looks as if it couldn't of come at a worse time, at least I won't be old and childless now :) I would of had a 22yr old son by now but sadly he died of a heart problem aged 13. I never thought I'd have any more , especially at 40, but everything happens for a reason and it is meant to be. Its prob my last chance at motherhood before I'm too old. . . If anyone wants to have a pop, I say F*** them. Your friend should too!! Try to ignore the haters and concentrate and her own n baby's well being. Chin up and hugs to all the pregnant WGs- a brave and difficult desision for any woman xx
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Hi ladies
I have a very distraught friend who is pregnant. She has decided to continue to work during her pregnancy, which is entirely her buisness. She has become a victim of abuse from both punters and prossies. She has recieved extremely abusive messages calling her vile things such as an "embryo abuser" and has even had wishes of her child disowning her when it is an adult for being an escort. I am a mother and I love my children very much. As escorts and mother's we do are absolute best for our families. Sometimes we are away from our kids to work, it's not easy but we are doing our best. I've had many emotional moments when being away from my kids as I'm sure all of you, especially touring girls. But we are all still mum's, mum's who do their absolute best. This girl does not deserve this abuse! She deserves support. Her baby isn't here yet but she's doing her best and absolutely loves her baby already. I think it would be really nice if all working mums could show this lady some support. If any of you have worked during your pregnancy or have children, your words of support would be much appriciated.
To all mums, keep up the good work xxx
That's terrible , the abuse your friend has endured. Her body her choice. Block and ignore!! Easy to say I know , but my online escorting life is so much simpler since I stopped getting into a dialogue with those who send nasty/idiotic messages.
Just found out I'm pregnant by 4.5mnth. Did not have a clue until 3wks ago!! Crazy. I didn't see myself having a baby at 40 , but here we are. Im living with the daddy who is 25yrs my senior, so we will be mature parents to say the least. Its been a HUGE shock as I've had a hard year and was only just getting back on my feet when my landlord of 5mnths decided to sell up, so after a year of having no perm home or security, I'm back to square one. Luckily I am well looked after by this kind older man , the plan was I see a small number of AW clients here to get ???? to move into my own place, then I find out I'm pregnant!! Didn't know if I would carry on working at first, but after much soul searching ive decided to do it. The pregnancy I see as a blessing in disguise , even though from the outside it looks as if it couldn't of come at a worse time, at least I won't be old and childless now :) I would of had a 22yr old son by now but sadly he died of a heart problem aged 13. I never thought I'd have any more , especially at 40, but everything happens for a reason and it is meant to be. Its prob my last chance at motherhood before I'm too old. . . If anyone wants to have a pop, I say F*** them. Your friend should too!! Try to ignore the haters and concentrate and her own n baby's well being. Chin up and hugs to all the pregnant WGs- a brave and difficult desision for any woman xx
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Hi ladies
I have a very distraught friend who is pregnant. She has decided to continue to work during her pregnancy, which is entirely her buisness. She has become a victim of abuse from both punters and prossies. She has recieved extremely abusive messages calling her vile things such as an "embryo abuser" and has even had wishes of her child disowning her when it is an adult for being an escort. I am a mother and I love my children very much. As escorts and mother's we do are absolute best for our families. Sometimes we are away from our kids to work, it's not easy but we are doing our best. I've had many emotional moments when being away from my kids as I'm sure all of you, especially touring girls. But we are all still mum's, mum's who do their absolute best. This girl does not deserve this abuse! She deserves support. Her baby isn't here yet but she's doing her best and absolutely loves her baby already. I think it would be really nice if all working mums could show this lady some support. If any of you have worked during your pregnancy or have children, your words of support would be much appriciated.
To all mums, keep up the good work xxx
That's terrible , the abuse your friend has endured. Her body her choice. Block and ignore!! Easy to say I know , but my online escorting life is so much simpler since I stopped getting into a dialogue with those who send nasty/idiotic messages.
Just found out I'm pregnant by 4.5mnth. Did not have a clue until 3wks ago!! Crazy. I didn't see myself having a baby at 40 , but here we are. Im living with the daddy who is 25yrs my senior, so we will be mature parents to say the least. Its been a HUGE shock as I've had a hard year and was only just getting back on my feet when my landlord of 5mnths decided to sell up, so after a year of having no perm home or security, I'm back to square one. Luckily I am well looked after by this kind older man , the plan was I see a small number of AW clients here to get ???? to move into my own place, then I find out I'm pregnant!! Didn't know if I would carry on working at first, but after much soul searching ive decided to do it. The pregnancy I see as a blessing in disguise , even though from the outside it looks as if it couldn't of come at a worse time, at least I won't be old and childless now :) I would of had a 22yr old son by now but sadly he died of a heart problem aged 13. I never thought I'd have any more , especially at 40, but everything happens for a reason and it is meant to be. Its prob my last chance at motherhood before I'm too old. . . If anyone wants to have a pop, I say F*** them. Your friend should too!! Try to ignore the haters and concentrate and her own n baby's well being. Chin up and hugs to all the pregnant WGs- a brave and difficult desision for any woman xx
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Hi ladies
I have a very distraught friend who is pregnant. She has decided to continue to work during her pregnancy, which is entirely her buisness. She has become a victim of abuse from both punters and prossies. She has recieved extremely abusive messages calling her vile things such as an "embryo abuser" and has even had wishes of her child disowning her when it is an adult for being an escort. I am a mother and I love my children very much. As escorts and mother's we do are absolute best for our families. Sometimes we are away from our kids to work, it's not easy but we are doing our best. I've had many emotional moments when being away from my kids as I'm sure all of you, especially touring girls. But we are all still mum's, mum's who do their absolute best. This girl does not deserve this abuse! She deserves support. Her baby isn't here yet but she's doing her best and absolutely loves her baby already. I think it would be really nice if all working mums could show this lady some support. If any of you have worked during your pregnancy or have children, your words of support would be much appriciated.
To all mums, keep up the good work xxx
That's terrible , the abuse your friend has endured. Her body her choice. Block and ignore!! Easy to say I know , but my online escorting life is so much simpler since I stopped getting into a dialogue with those who send nasty/idiotic messages.
Just found out I'm pregnant by 4.5mnth. Did not have a clue until 3wks ago!! Crazy. I didn't see myself having a baby at 40 , but here we are. Im living with the daddy who is 25yrs my senior, so we will be mature parents to say the least. Its been a HUGE shock as I've had a hard year and was only just getting back on my feet when my landlord of 5mnths decided to sell up, so after a year of having no perm home or security, I'm back to square one. Luckily I am well looked after by this kind older man , the plan was I see a small number of AW clients here to get ???? to move into my own place, then I find out I'm pregnant!!
Didn't know if I would carry on working at first, but after much soul searching ive decided to do it. The pregnancy I see as a blessing in disguise , even though from the outside it looks as if it couldn't of come at a worse time, at least I won't be old and childless now :) I would of had a 22yr old son by now but sadly he died of a heart problem aged 13. I never thought I'd have any more , especially at 40, but everything happens for a reason and it is meant to be. Its prob my last chance at motherhood before I'm too old. . . If anyone wants to have a pop, I say F*** them. Your friend should too!!
Try to ignore the haters and concentrate and her own n baby's well being. Chin up and hugs to all the pregnant WGs- a brave and difficult desision for any woman xx
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That's terrible , the abuse your friend has endured. Her body her choice. Block and ignore!! Easy to say I know , but my online escorting life is so much simpler since I stopped getting into a dialogue with those who send nasty/idiotic messages.
Just found out I'm pregnant by 4.5mnth. Did not have a clue until 3wks ago!! Crazy. I didn't see myself having a baby at 40 , but here we are. Im living with the daddy who is 25yrs my senior, so we will be mature parents to say the least. Its been a HUGE shock as I've had a hard year and was only just getting back on my feet when my landlord of 5mnths decided to sell up, so after a year of having no perm home or security, I'm back to square one. Luckily I am well looked after by this kind older man , the plan was I see a small number of AW clients here to get ???? to move into my own place, then I find out I'm pregnant!!
Didn't know if I would carry on working at first, but after much soul searching ive decided to do it. The pregnancy I see as a blessing in disguise , even though from the outside it looks as if it couldn't of come at a worse time, at least I won't be old and childless now :) I would of had a 22yr old son by now but sadly he died of a heart problem aged 13. I never thought I'd have any more , especially at 40, but everything happens for a reason and it is meant to be. Its prob my last chance at motherhood before I'm too old. . . If anyone wants to have a pop, I say F*** them. Your friend should too!!
Try to ignore the haters and concentrate and her own n baby's well being. Chin up and hugs to all the pregnant WGs- a brave and difficult desision for any woman xx
Hey Hun, I'm working while pregnant and it's been very tough. If you do need any advice or anyone to talk to feel free to message me I would love to be able to help others xxx
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Thank you :) I don't know why my post was X 4!! I kept getting an error msg so didn't think it had posted at all.
Changing my AW to "pregnant" type name tonight.
I'm also putting " no PSE" gfe/gentle only.
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Thank you :) I don't know why my post was X 4!! I kept getting an error msg so didn't think it had posted at all.
Changing my AW to "pregnant" type name tonight.
I'm also putting " no PSE" gfe/gentle only.
It's a big thing working while pregnant and may aspects of it make it very popular, I don't offer pregnancy services but many do and they make a fortune, although ultimately it's what you are comfortable with! Make your mind up also if you will allow clients to cum on your bump, personally I don't like that bit is up to you as lots will request that. Also bear in mind if you do swallow everything you swallow so does your baby so maybe take that off too, another thing is lactating, men are stupid and will assume that as soon as you are pregnant your boobs are oozing milk, that is highly unlikely however you will get tons of requests for it, decide if you would want a grown man sucking on your nipple, I got bitten and it really hurt me and your breasts will be very sensitive so I don't offer this whatsoever now. Ultimately it's all about what you are comfortable with. Make sure you have the block function as you will get lots of idiots and more Bareback requests as some guys will assume you can't get pregnant now so it's fine to go unprotected :FF
Another thing that's great is doing massage and happy endings, they are very good for business and very popular and much more relaxed when sometimes you don't feel like being poked and prodded around. If you need any help I'm more than happy to help xxx
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Hi,
Been discussing this subject with a friend who stopped working some time ago, retired to a life with a partner. It’s gone to ruins. She’s pregnant (early stages) and thinking to part time work to get some funds together during pregnancy.
Said I’d post on here.. did a search online etc but didn’t get too far. Have messaged the only pregnant service provider I could find on AW for example who looked like they ‘may’ respond. With some polite questions to ask for advise. (Her profile says she is nearing the end of her offering pregnancy services due to her due date nearing, so I thought she may be okay to answer perhaps, with another pregnancy provider on the scene not being competition, but no reply).
Anyone know if AW is the only place guys can search for a pregnancy provider?
Anyone know of an escort who’s done this in the past and would be happy to discuss for advice?
Pamfan website doesn’t seem to show much
Thank you.
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I have. More than happy to answer any questions you may have and share some advice. 💋
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Hi, would you recommend working while pregnant? will I lose clients as I won't always be available? and thinking of starting again when the baby starts nursery.
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Well I did put some advice on here but it's been taken down.
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Well I did put some advice on here but it's been taken down.
Indeed it was. Perhaps you could have tried to post it without the judgemental sanctimony that preceded it, since there's more than enough on the thread already.
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I have recently put up an ad for pregnancy and i was surprised how many answers I got. And it sucks because I thought working is out for me.
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How's your baby?1
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If it was me I would web cam and then feature the hell out of my profile and have the hourly rate at something like £400 so you only had to do 1-2 counts for escorting a week. Your a very special and rare thing in our world and men should be understanding the premium price and it’s also going towards baby things for the birth. Wishing you all the best in your pregnancy and stay safe honey.
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Most def do it if u r short for money
U dont wanna regret not using the last moments of peace