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Linzi Dawn

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #45 on: 23 July 2016, 09:02:18 pm »
Quote from: Nova on 21 July 2016, 07:47:32 am
No it isn't and I don't think this kind of judgement is appropriate here.

Well I think it is morally wrong IMO is what I should have said.  I haven't judged anyone, how can I I don't know the OP.   We have a choice to sell our bodies, the child doesn't and me personally I wouldn't risk the health of my child by having penetrative sex with STRANGERS.

No need to get your knickers in a twist, clearly I've touched a nerve, I gave an honest and frank opinion to the OPs question.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #46 on: 24 July 2016, 09:35:08 am »
Quote from: Linzi Dawn on 23 July 2016, 09:02:18 pm
Well I think it is morally wrong IMO is what I should have said.  I haven't judged anyone, how can I I don't know the OP.   We have a choice to sell our bodies, the child doesn't and me personally I wouldn't risk the health of my child by having penetrative sex with STRANGERS.

No need to get your knickers in a twist, clearly I've touched a nerve, I gave an honest and frank opinion to the OPs question.

For starters, none of us sell our bodies. We sell a service we provide with our bodies, just like every other manual worker in the world.
Secondly, how do you think your judgement (and it is a judgement) on doing sex work while pregnant is helpful to the OP and how might it make others feel who have done sex work while pregnant?
Yes you gave your honest and frank opinion and now I'm giving mine.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #47 on: 24 July 2016, 10:39:23 am »
Quote from: Nova on 24 July 2016, 09:35:08 am
For starters, none of us sell our bodies. We sell a service we provide with our bodies, just like every other manual worker in the world.
Secondly, how do you think your judgement (and it is a judgement) on doing sex work while pregnant is helpful to the OP and how might it make others feel who have done sex work while pregnant?
Yes you gave your honest and frank opinion and now I'm giving mine.


Yet again.. Spot on IMO Nova
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Linzi Dawn

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #48 on: 24 July 2016, 03:45:56 pm »
Quote from: Nova on 24 July 2016, 09:35:08 am
For starters, none of us sell our bodies. We sell a service we provide with our bodies, just like every other manual worker in the world.
Secondly, how do you think your judgement (and it is a judgement) on doing sex work while pregnant is helpful to the OP and how might it make others feel who have done sex work while pregnant?
Yes you gave your honest and frank opinion and now I'm giving mine.

Well you can pretty it up as much as you like, we sell our bodies end of.    How you can compare our line of work with being on a factory floor?  its laughable but this isnt what the question was about.

Like I said I dont judge anyone - if you have such a strong view on the subject maybe it would have been best not to have posted on it clearly you find it acceptable and I dont, its a personal choice.  No need to get so rattled, this is what this forum is for to voice our opinions.

 
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #49 on: 24 July 2016, 03:57:28 pm »
Quote from: Linzi Dawn on 24 July 2016, 03:45:56 pm
Well you can pretty it up as much as you like, we sell our bodies end of.

Then how do you still have a body, if you sold it?

You don't sell it, you rent it out, same as the rest of us, same as any manual worker. A bloke digging a ditch uses his thigh muscles, I use my fanny muscles, but we're both selling a service.
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Linzi Dawn

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #50 on: 24 July 2016, 04:14:54 pm »
Quote from xw5

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #51 on: 24 July 2016, 05:07:33 pm »
Quote from: Linzi Dawn on 24 July 2016, 03:45:56 pm
we sell our bodies end of.

No Linzi, 'we' do not.

If you feel you no longer own your body whilst or after you're workking then that's fine and your individual take on it is entirely up to you, but it's wrong to tacitly include all of us and by posting without being clear that you're just giving an opinion and speaking only for yourself (by using 'we' instead of 'I', or in the earlier post by stating 'it is morally wrong' without first typing 'I think' or 'in my opinion') then it's going to get people's backs up.

Nobody is 'rattled', just irritated at seeing an opinion which they do not share being presented as fact - it's just unfortunate wording, that's all :).
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Linzi Dawn

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #52 on: 24 July 2016, 06:21:58 pm »
Quote from: amy on 24 July 2016, 05:07:33 pm
Nobody is 'rattled', just irritated at seeing an opinion which they do not share being presented as fact - it's just unfortunate wording, that's all

 like you said it was probably wrong of me to word it as such.    Mss Sophie will do what is best for her and I wish her all the luck x
« Last Edit: 24 July 2016, 08:25:54 pm by xw5 »
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #53 on: 29 June 2017, 04:13:01 pm »
Quote from: wishlist on 20 July 2016, 10:21:11 am
I made 500 plus a week while camming while preg, PM me if you need any advise x
I don't suppose you would mind lending me a hand would you I'm in this situation and I don't know where to start? Xx
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #54 on: 29 June 2017, 05:58:27 pm »
I think we know what it's like to be skint and have no option but to go to work.

When one of my close friends was pregnant we did a 2 girl (she didn't declare to clients) she was mainly BJ and I was sex. I kept an eye and when she was tired I jumped in, when they tried to touch her bursting boobs I dived on them, if they even looked at her I rugby tackled them  ;D could you not do something like this?

If not I second the camming/phone chat ect.

Hope you and baby are going great
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #55 on: 29 June 2017, 07:05:33 pm »
I'm working and have decided to carry on. I think I'll be fine doing that, I just need advice on wording my profile etc and options like calming I am very open to x
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #56 on: 04 July 2017, 03:23:51 pm »
i created this profile when i was found out i was pregnant. I was working a lil less and did more webcam until i started showing more (using my normal aw profile and again, new profile after started showing) but its not a case of right or wrong, but i've been really ill whilst pregnant so had to stop! i make most of my money using my old profile purely as phone stuff!! a hell of a lot less money but its so easy for me as my health is decreased! x
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #57 on: 04 July 2017, 04:04:39 pm »
I have had some really horrible responses online o feel like shit. I genuinely didn't think it would be this terrible.
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #58 on: 04 July 2017, 05:52:43 pm »
Quote from: English natural beauty on 04 July 2017, 04:04:39 pm
I have had some really horrible responses online o feel like shit. I genuinely didn't think it would be this terrible.

From punters? Or do you mean on forums like this?

People can be very judgemental of EVERYTHING when you're pregnant, or have a young baby. It's as if motherhood transforms you (for some people) from a grown up human being who can get on with their life, to some sort of public property who can be judged on everything from not taking folic acid, to having an elective CS, to choosing to BF or not. FUCK anyone else, it's your decision and only yours on how you parent and what you do.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #59 on: 04 July 2017, 06:00:13 pm »
Notmon this forum but others yes  :FF
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