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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #30 on: 21 July 2016, 10:22:04 am »
So people who work while pregnant and don't regret it have no conscience? More unhelpful judgement. How do you think the OP will feel reading this if she has decided to go ahead and escort?

The can't possibly have a conscience if they're advising other escorts to go ahead with it surely? Otherwise why would you give advice to do something you've done and regret? Doesn't make sense.

I think giving her the heads up about how she might be later can only be a good thing as it might make her think twice about doing it and take other options.

Your twisting my words because your annoyed at me. It's silly. We don't agree and that's all there is to it.

We will have to agree to disagree on this one but I think some of you trying to say it's not dangerous etc is irresponsible.

I'm out of this topic now as clearly there are a lot of ladies on here who have worked while pregnant and my intention was never to offend them and I don't see the point in arguing as my opinion on this won't change and neither will yours obviously.

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« Last Edit: 21 July 2016, 10:25:36 am by Kendra »

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #31 on: 21 July 2016, 10:41:14 am »
The can't possibly have a conscience if they're advising other escorts to go ahead with it surely? Otherwise why would you give advice to do something you've done and regret? Doesn't make sense.

I think giving her the heads up about how she might be later can only be a good thing as it might make her think twice about doing it and take other options.

Your twisting my words because your annoyed at me. It's silly. We don't agree and that's all there is to it.

We will have to agree to disagree on this one but I think some of you trying to say it's not dangerous etc is irresponsible.

I'm out of this topic now as clearly there are a lot of ladies on here who have worked while pregnant and my intention was never to offend them and I don't see the point in arguing as my opinion on this won't change and neither will yours obviously.

Nobody likes to hear what they don't wanna hear.

I think you've misread my post. I said people who escort while pregnant and don't regret it. Why would someone who escorts while pregnant have no conscience? We're not here to shame people into not offering services they want to offer. Her body: her choice.
As for, "I think giving her the heads up about how she might be later," - neither you nor I know how she will feel later if she chooses escorting. Maybe she will regret it; maybe she will feel great about it.
It's fine that your opinion is different to mine, but trying to guilt this lady into not offering escort services because you wouldn't in her position is unhelpful at best.

Kendra

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #32 on: 21 July 2016, 10:50:43 am »
Yes it is her body but while sharing her body with her baby....I think a little more thought needs to go into it than if it was just herself.

And if she feels great about it then good for her.

If she feels bad about it then I tried to warn her.

My opinion, nothing more and nothing less.

Can you give it a rest now please.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #33 on: 21 July 2016, 10:54:00 am »
Kendra, in case you'd forgotten you are in your own words 'out of this topic now'. If you can't stick to them, we'll be happy to help.
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #34 on: 21 July 2016, 10:54:52 am »
Yes it is her body but while sharing her body with her baby....I think a little more thought needs to go into it than if it was just herself.


And that is exactly what she is doing by posting here and asking for input - giving it plenty of thought.

OP - whatever you decide to do, you have my support. I hope you find a way to make this situation work for you.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #35 on: 21 July 2016, 06:59:12 pm »
So people who work while pregnant and don't regret it have no conscience? More unhelpful judgement. How do you think the OP will feel reading this if she has decided to go ahead and escort?

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How do you think any of us who have worked whilst pregnant would feel?  It was my normal job, just like working in an office no different and no less dangerous than sleeping with a partner.  I do not regret it and before anybody says a thing about it, I do have scrupples and a conscience.  But it was either get an office job where I would not be able to take time off when i was not able to work or sign on for benefits. 

For me it was a no brainer, I was safe as I assume any working pregnant woman would be and I was able to rent a lovely two bedroom house, furnish it, buy my child everything you could possibly want for your first born and my clients helped with gifts etc.

So it has nothing to do with morals, conscience etc it does not make you a bad mother for working whilst pregnant, every expectant mother works whether it is on their back or on their feet.
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #36 on: 21 July 2016, 10:43:19 pm »
There is a hell of a lot of judgement going on in this thread but it's good to see that the person who appeared to be stirring it all up has decided to leave the forum.

Personally I don't see anything wrong with being a sex worker while being an expectant mother although I have never had children myself if I ever found myself in the position that the OP finds herself in then I would do anything necessary to provide for both me and my child whether I was still married or not.

While I agree that webcamming would probably be better than the stress that escorting brings I don't think anyone had the right to question any escort mother's ethics or morals based on whether they feel like carrying on working or not.

To the OP if you feel like sex work is your only option be that escorting or camming then just do everything you can to protect both of you and screen clients as stringently as you need to in order to feel safe. That's not fool-proof but nothing is unfortunately.
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #37 on: 22 July 2016, 09:59:56 am »
What about adult phone lines? It's been years since I have done it, but used to be a nice earner.

Not that I am suggesting the OP doesn't escort, but as another option if she isn't totally sure.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #38 on: 22 July 2016, 01:12:28 pm »
Hello and thanks for all the replies and the ladies who are being understanding! Anyway can anyone offer me anymore advice on camming?
as i know a lot of people said they made alot when they were pregnant. AW is not letting me change my services to offering webcam it keeps coming up with a error. Ive just joined up on mfc as i use to do quite well on there. Chaturbate and Streamate have been pretty much dead.
Also how do i changed my name on adultwork? if anyone could have a look at my profile and tell me what needs changing.
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i made a new profile as i deleted my old one as i got into a relationship with my ex and he didnt like it! so its a fresh new profile what can i do?


Thank you
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« Last Edit: 22 July 2016, 02:00:21 pm by amy »

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #39 on: 22 July 2016, 01:27:54 pm »
Hello and thanks for all the replies and the ladies who are being understanding! Anyway can anyone offer me anymore advice on camming?
as i know a lot of people said they made alot when they were pregnant. AW is not letting me change my services to offering webcam it keeps coming up with a error. Ive just joined up on mfc as i use to do quite well on there. Chaturbate and Streamate have been pretty much dead.
Also how do i changed my name on adultwork? if anyone could have a look at my profile and tell me what needs changing.
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i made a new profile as i deleted my old one as i got into a relationship with my ex and he didnt like it! so its a fresh new profile what can i do?


Thank you
xxxxxx
What about some pics of your bump Side on without clothes? Maybe be careful with the wording . I'd maybe try to attract gentler clients?
« Last Edit: 22 July 2016, 02:00:57 pm by amy »
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #40 on: 22 July 2016, 03:10:24 pm »
Hi Hun

Not sure why it won't let you sign up for webcam ? Is your aw verified ? I don't know much bout other cam sites . X

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #41 on: 22 July 2016, 06:21:40 pm »
If you post in the Adultwork or Webcamming section you'll probably get more technical help with that side.

If you're getting an error, please post what the error says.
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #42 on: 23 July 2016, 07:39:52 am »
Hi Hun

Not sure why it won't let you sign up for webcam ? Is your aw verified ? I don't know much bout other cam sites . X

You have to verify twice when offering webcamming work.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #43 on: 23 July 2016, 03:28:12 pm »
I already verified with sending in my passport and doing the verification photo, do I need to do this again? X

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #44 on: 23 July 2016, 03:49:45 pm »
If you post in the Adultwork or Webcamming section you'll probably get more technical help with that side.

Yes, can we please try to keep this discussion on topic? There's lots of information on both AW and webcamming on the appropriate boards :).
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