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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #15 on: 20 July 2016, 10:21:11 am »
I made 500 plus a week while camming while preg, PM me if you need any advise x

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #16 on: 20 July 2016, 02:59:29 pm »
Make clips. Pregnancy is a huge fetish. Start now and make a few every day. Talk about your expanding belly, your growing tits, your juicy preg pussy, your swollen feet, your piles, what it will feel/sound like giving birth, EVERYTHING about the pregnancy (apart from the baby. They don't want/need to know about that). Plus the other things, like masturbating, rubbing your tummy/tits, squeezing out colostrum, and any other sexy/kinky/fetish things that will have the added attraction of your pregnancy.

Upload to AW, Clips4Sale, and any other clip sites that you like the look of. Upload at LEAST once a day. Make enough clips to be able to keep uploading until well after the baby is born (which is when you won't want to cam/work, or be able to find the time to for a few months).

Good luck :)

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #17 on: 20 July 2016, 07:32:17 pm »
Make clips. Pregnancy is a huge fetish. Start now and make a few every day. Talk about your expanding belly, your growing tits, your juicy preg pussy, your swollen feet, your piles, what it will feel/sound like giving birth, EVERYTHING about the pregnancy (apart from the baby. They don't want/need to know about that). Plus the other things, like masturbating, rubbing your tummy/tits, squeezing out colostrum, and any other sexy/kinky/fetish things that will have the added attraction of your pregnancy.

Upload to AW, Clips4Sale, and any other clip sites that you like the look of. Upload at LEAST once a day. Make enough clips to be able to keep uploading until well after the baby is born (which is when you won't want to cam/work, or be able to find the time to for a few months).

I will give this a go how much do I charge per clips? Xx

Good luck :)

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #18 on: 21 July 2016, 07:47:32 am »
Difficult one this one as morally it is wrong but I was in the same position many years ago.  I offered hand relief and oral with a condom and reduced my fees quite a bit so I was able to get by.   When I got to about 6 months I found a receptionist job in a massage parlour that paid reasonably well.  There is definitely a market for pregnant escorts, I was offered ridiculous amounts of money whilst maiding.

Since discovering webcamming I have cut my escorting down greatly so like the other ladies on here have advised try your hand at webcam or just offer reduced services.

Best of luck LD x

No it isn't and I don't think this kind of judgement is appropriate here.

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« Reply #19 on: 21 July 2016, 08:44:36 am »
Judgement isn't welcomed on here which is fair enough but advice surely for the grater good is?

As I said in my first post....I didn't want to say my personal thoughts on the matter because I know it would offend some ladies but your completely delusional if you try and say that selling sex to every Tom, Dick & Harry whilst pregnant isn't morally wrong.

Being a hooker is morally wrong too but we still do it, nobody is whiter than white but at least when most of us are breaking morals, we only have ourselves to be responsible for and as an adult....that's our choice to make.

Being pregnant and working is not only seriously dangerous in many ways as explained in my earlier post but the thought of men with a pregnancy fetish getting "off" over my bump and my body changing because of my baby would haunt me for the rest of my life. I've seen feedback that punters have left for pregnant escorts boasting about cumming on the escorts bump. I can't even begin to put in words how wrong that is....to me.

Each to their own but I have a conscience and I don't think I could ever forgive myself if I worked while pregnant, every time I looked at my child....I would be horrified with myself, completely riddled with guilt but that's just me.

I think sex between a pregnant lady and the father of her child is a very lovely thing but that's as far as it goes for me.

We all have our own opinions, you can't shoot someone down just because your option differs. My intention with this post isn't to offend anyone, it's just my views on the subject and I hope that of anything....it will make the OP think twice and realise that there are other options where she can make good money, tonnes and tonnes more than she ever could in Tesco's without putting her or her unborn child at any risk.

If she insists on sex work of some sort then I think webcamming is her best option.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #20 on: 21 July 2016, 09:04:31 am »
Judgement isn't welcomed on here which is fair enough but advice surely for the grater good is?

As I said in my first post....I didn't want to say my personal thoughts on the matter because I know it would offend some ladies but your completely delusional if you try and say that selling sex to every Tom, Dick & Harry whilst pregnant isn't morally wrong.

Being a hooker is morally wrong too but we still do it, nobody is whiter than white but at least when most of us are breaking morals, we only have ourselves to be responsible for and as an adult....that's our choice to make.

Being pregnant and working is not only seriously dangerous in many ways as explained in my earlier post but the thought of men with a pregnancy fetish getting "off" over my bump and my body changing because of my baby would haunt me for the rest of my life. I've seen feedback that punters have left for pregnant escorts boasting about cumming on the escorts bump. I can't even begin to put in words how wrong that is....to me.

Each to their own but I have a conscience and I don't think I could ever forgive myself if I worked while pregnant, every time I looked at my child....I would be horrified with myself, completely riddled with guilt but that's just me.

I think sex between a pregnant lady and the father of her child is a very lovely thing but that's as far as it goes for me.

We all have our own opinions, you can't shoot someone down just because your option differs. My intention with this post isn't to offend anyone, it's just my views on the subject and I hope that of anything....it will make the OP think twice and realise that there are other options where she can make good money, tonnes and tonnes more than she ever could in Tesco's without putting her or her unborn child at any risk.

If she insists on sex work of some sort then I think webcamming is her best option.

No, that isn't morally wrong either. Why on earth would it be? Receiving money for providing a service is not wrong, unless every single person in the service industry is immoral.
If the OP wants to sell sex while pregnant, then that is her choice and I'm sure she is going into it with her eyes open. Comments like, "I don't think I could ever forgive myself if I worked while pregnant," are, in my view, completely unhelpful.

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« Reply #21 on: 21 July 2016, 09:23:30 am »
That's YOUR opinion that it's not morally wrong but it's NOT my opinion, that's what I tried to say in my last post. A forum is always going to be filled with mixed opinions. In life....everyone has mixed opinions. Yes we're providing a service but it's hardly cutting someone's hair. It's completely different when talking in this context.

If I didn't feel that being a hooker was morally wrong then I wouldn't hide my identity, I would tell my parents and the rest of my family and friends and not give a shit but we're derailing the thread now and I know for sure that's not helpful.

I was expressing my views on the subject since you shot someone else's opinion down in flames.

You might think it's unhelpful me trying to tell a pregnant lady asking for advice on escorting that it's dangerous and that there are other options but I think you filling her head telling her what she wants to hear is being far more unhelpful. Conflicting opinions again.

And I said that I wouldn't be able to live with myself (which is the gods honest truth) but also as a plea to make the OP really think about what she's about to do.

Sometimes telling people the harsh truth is for the best.

As I said, each to their own. This is my opinion and I don't expect everyone to agree with me whereas you clearly think that just because myself and a couple of others don't agree with you that we're somehow in the wrong  ???


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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #22 on: 21 July 2016, 09:27:49 am »
No, that isn't morally wrong either. Why on earth would it be? Receiving money for providing a service is not wrong, unless every single person in the service industry is immoral.
If the OP wants to sell sex while pregnant, then that is her choice and I'm sure she is going into it with her eyes open. Comments like, "I don't think I could ever forgive myself if I worked while pregnant," are, in my view, completely unhelpful.


Totally agree with Nova.
 As someone who has extensive experience and education related to pregnancy I actually completely disagree that it is dangerous too. No more dangerous than any couple having sex while pregnant as long as normal protection is used.
Victorians believed it was morally wrong to show your ankles.
Its all just opinion at the end of the day.

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« Reply #23 on: 21 July 2016, 09:39:07 am »
As stated before, I worked when I was pregnant and was on PAMFAN and got a lot of work via that, I stopped working at 7 months and only came back to work when my child was 6 months old.

Personally I suffered from bad morning sickness for about 5 months and was constantly tired so only worked when i had the energy and only took one appointment a day and predominantly saw my regulars who were aware of my situation.

You can try webcamming, I did not know about webcamming in those days, it is lucrative and you can do it even with people in the house as long as you are behind closed doors :).  That way you can work up your clientelle for when you are able to offer a personal service.  Also do not forget that once you start lactating you will have a whole different type of clientelle breaking down your door and trust me that is a very popular service also on cam.

Enjoy your pregnancy and watch the hormones especially afterwards, I suffered with post partum for 2 years before being diagnosed.  xx

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #24 on: 21 July 2016, 09:39:22 am »
As stated before, I worked when I was pregnant and was on PAMFAN and got a lot of work via that, I stopped working at 7 months and only came back to work when my child was 6 months old.

Personally I suffered from bad morning sickness for about 5 months and was constantly tired so only worked when i had the energy and only took one appointment a day and predominantly saw my regulars who were aware of my situation.

You can try webcamming, I did not know about webcamming in those days, it is lucrative and you can do it even with people in the house as long as you are behind closed doors :).  That way you can work up your clientelle for when you are able to offer a personal service.  Also do not forget that once you start lactating you will have a whole different type of clientelle breaking down your door and trust me that is a very popular service also on cam.

Enjoy your pregnancy and watch the hormones especially afterwards, I suffered with post partum for 2 years before being diagnosed.  xx

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« Reply #25 on: 21 July 2016, 09:46:48 am »
I hope every thing is going ok for you ? You need to do what's best for you and your baby Hun . I have never been pregnant like I said before but I have been skint and we all know in this job you can no Monday in the morning and be rich by the afternoon . But my friends who cammed when they was pregnant did well . You need to get on adult work Hun . X

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #26 on: 21 July 2016, 09:52:37 am »

Totally agree with Nova.
 As someone who has extensive experience and education related to pregnancy I actually completely disagree that it is dangerous too. No more dangerous than any couple having sex while pregnant as long as normal protection is used.
Victorians believed it was morally wrong to show your ankles.
Its all just opinion at the end of the day.

Dangerous in the fact that she would be meeting complete strangers. Did your parents never tell you not to go with strangers? It's cause there's bad guys out there.

As an escort, we see strangers in private and anything at any time can go wrong. We may have a difference of options on the whole escort/pregnancy thing but to say it isn't dangerous is crazy to me.

And as I also said, what happens if the OP has sex and the condom bursts? What happens if she gets a bareback pusher? That puts her health and the baby's health at risk.

It's the OP's choice, I'm not saying anything bad about her or anyone who chooses to work while pregnant. I'm simply trying to point out the potential risks and that if like me, she has a conscience then working while pregnant might be something she will regret in the future.

All I'm trying to do is give a balanced view. It's up to the OP and any other pregnant lady who reads this to make up their own minds.

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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #27 on: 21 July 2016, 10:03:40 am »
Make clips. Pregnancy is a huge fetish. Start now and make a few every day. Talk about your expanding belly, your growing tits, your juicy preg pussy, your swollen feet, your piles, what it will feel/sound like giving birth, EVERYTHING about the pregnancy (apart from the baby. They don't want/need to know about that). Plus the other things, like masturbating, rubbing your tummy/tits, squeezing out colostrum, and any other sexy/kinky/fetish things that will have the added attraction of your pregnancy.

Upload to AW, Clips4Sale, and any other clip sites that you like the look of. Upload at LEAST once a day. Make enough clips to be able to keep uploading until well after the baby is born (which is when you won't want to cam/work, or be able to find the time to for a few months). Good Luck : )

Brilliant suggestions here from Cat ;D ;D ;D

You only have 4 hour a day for camming when your Mum is out at work.... well that's 20 hours per week!! 20 hours better than nothing!!! And when your Mum is at home you could perhaps offer Direct IM - text based chat via AW. It's not nearly as profitable as camming but I personally have an additional 300 credits per week from Direct IM. It's a decent extra earner.
You could also do some phone chat....

I would suggest you change your AW user name / create a user name that reflects that you are pregnant.

You need to do what you feel is best for you, but you can and will work things out. There is always a way. I wish you the very best of luck. xx






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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #28 on: 21 July 2016, 10:10:55 am »
I think we can put morals aside, but I would be worried about a condom accident, so would back up either webcamming or offering only non-penetrative services.
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Re: Escorting while pregnant tips and advice
« Reply #29 on: 21 July 2016, 10:11:33 am »
Dangerous in the fact that she would be meeting complete strangers. Did your parents never tell you not to go with strangers? It's cause there's bad guys out there.

As an escort, we see strangers in private and anything at any time can go wrong. We may have a difference of options on the whole escort/pregnancy thing but to say it isn't dangerous is crazy to me.

And as I also said, what happens if the OP has sex and the condom bursts? What happens if she gets a bareback pusher? That puts her health and the baby's health at risk.

It's the OP's choice, I'm not saying anything bad about her or anyone who chooses to work while pregnant. I'm simply trying to point out the potential risks and that if like me, she has a conscience then working while pregnant might be something she will regret in the future.

All I'm trying to do is give a balanced view. It's up to the OP and any other pregnant lady who reads this to make up their own minds.

So people who work while pregnant and don't regret it have no conscience? More unhelpful judgement. How do you think the OP will feel reading this if she has decided to go ahead and escort?