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funfi

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escorting when married?
« on: 29 August 2011, 07:02:34 pm »
Hello Ladies

I am a newbie embarking on being an escort.
I have been doing lots of research to ensure that I have all fonts of knowledge at hand on how to get clients, deal with difficulties, getting different perceptions, taking on board the warnings and how best to stay safe.

I run my own business and manage my husbands...but this is something I have wanted to do for years for a few reasons, because I have a high sex drive, enjoy the excitement of developing pleasure for someone, I'm bi and I am also good at experimenting and pushing my boundaries , we could also do with extra funds at home. I know what I want and what I don't want and would absolutely manage this as a business.

Problem I have is that I am married...to a rather passive guy. It's not that I wouldn't want to mislead him but if I was to tell him outright I was meeting clients I think it would make life quite fractious. So I want to do  this with discretion and need to apply a good cover story why I am meeting with clients...so does anyone have any suggestions or has been in the same boat?

I thought about the touring option any tips that might help me or is it best to be established with a client base first?

I didn't really want to advertise services on the adult boards and was going to go down the route of making a personal website, do you have to do this with a company that works in the adult industry or can you do a freebie website with moonfruit or something like that to get started?

Hope someone can help....any advice is much appreciated.

Fi x

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Re: escorting when married?
« Reply #1 on: 29 August 2011, 07:19:36 pm »
Fi

In my opinion your husband needs to know, it'll save a lot of heart ache and troubles later on.  Deceiving him could cause all sorts of problems.

Regards websites there are plenty of free options out there, and I believe XW5 on here runs a low cost, simple website for Escort's solution too.

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Re: escorting when married?
« Reply #2 on: 29 August 2011, 08:58:00 pm »
In my opinion your husband needs to know, it'll save a lot of heart ache and troubles later on.  Deceiving him could cause all sorts of problems.

I agree. I am a married Escort and my husbands support has been invaluable. You are both self employed people like My partner and I are, perhaps try and put it to him in a logical business way, pros and cons.

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Re: escorting when married?
« Reply #3 on: 29 August 2011, 09:06:57 pm »
I definitely think you should be open about it huney; it'll save you tonnes of heartache and upset in the future  :-X

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Re: escorting when married?
« Reply #4 on: 29 August 2011, 11:13:21 pm »
Does he think the relationship is monogamous or are you already 'seeing' other people?
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