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tighter22

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What makes guys cancel?
« on: 04 March 2015, 08:06:47 pm »
I'm curious I have had several guys cancelling. They give their number and pictures and arrange a meeting. The even tell me that they will call the next day (i don't do same day meetings) one hour or two before the meeting time.

And then i just don't hear from them. do you think this has to do with other competing girls? why is this happening so often?

moon_in_june

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Re: What makes guys cancel?
« Reply #1 on: 04 March 2015, 08:15:29 pm »
And then i just don't hear from them. do you think this has to do with other competing girls? why is this happening so often?

Maybe they want same day appointments and so book with you spur of the moment- and then keep that slot reserved just in case they can't find another escort available that very day. So maybe if you found a way to thoroughly screen AND offer same-day appointments the problem would go away. It would be worth a try for a day or two, just to see what happens.

Fabulassie

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Re: What makes guys cancel?
« Reply #2 on: 04 March 2015, 08:17:00 pm »
If you're simply never hearing from them, they were time wasters to begin with.

If they're cancelling, it could be legit or maybe not. I give them another chance.

Are you new to this? If you're new, you'll get a lot of time-wasters. That will die down.

Fabulassie

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Re: What makes guys cancel?
« Reply #3 on: 04 March 2015, 08:17:55 pm »
Any advance bookings have to text to confirm fairly early in the morning on the day. They're pencilled in until then.

mature helen

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Re: What makes guys cancel?
« Reply #4 on: 04 March 2015, 08:22:17 pm »
I don't do advanced bookings I've always said call on the day to book as I've found punters want what they want there and then within the next 30 minutes.



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Re: What makes guys cancel?
« Reply #5 on: 04 March 2015, 08:38:27 pm »
Any advance bookings have to text to confirm fairly early in the morning on the day. They're pencilled in until then.

I have exactly the same rule. For me it saves me waiting around all day for calls, I like knowing my schedule.

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Re: What makes guys cancel?
« Reply #6 on: 04 March 2015, 10:43:32 pm »
I don't do advanced bookings I've always said call on the day to book as I've found punters want what they want there and then within the next 30 minutes.

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Ieaio

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Re: What makes guys cancel?
« Reply #7 on: 05 March 2015, 10:29:24 am »
Could be anything:

- Their itch has been scratched ( Hence why i don't take advanced bookings unless on AW booking system because generally to part with ?120, you've got to be in the mood haha)
- Too nerveous
- A better offer, maybe their favorite girl picked up the phone
- General life comitments
- Flat out forgetting
- Wife messes up his plans to sneak out
- They realize they don't have enough money in the bank or a bill comes up
- They've read a bad reveiw of you after further research
- They can no longer be bothered
- Social anxiety
- Called into work
- A genuine emergency

ETCETC

Who knows. Just as sometimes we cancel on them

tighter22

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Re: What makes guys cancel?
« Reply #8 on: 05 March 2015, 03:39:55 pm »
thanks guys, it's been happening to me pretty often so was just wondering why