Yeah, I don't tend to do appointment extensions at all. But then, 80% of my clients I think work in the area so can't be extending all over the place without risking their jobs. It suits me to have everything planned out beforehand as the technical increased risk to my personal safety that goes up a maybe half a percent every time I invite another strange man to my flat stresses out the back of my brain a lot. Keeping it all predictable and planned and 'safe' makes me feel better! And I don't work nights, for more of the same reasons. Clients at night, from my previous agency experience, are WAY more like, "Ooh I just had a great idea! Let's do everything totally different to what I said I wanted before!" but as time goes on and I realise what happens to intelligent, safety-conscious women every day, I feel less like obliging a client's random whims - if it's not something he wanted enough to tell me about in advance, then it's a no-can-do, most likely.

Yup, completely agree. If they get there and start wanting to scale the heights of domination, overnight or sometimes just an hour more, without the mental prep I need to do it really aint happening...But on a different note, I normally only take clients over 26. After a cancellation the other day I sat quietly stewing only to receive a call from a very well bred chap, asks all the right info and then at the end says-

"By the way, Im only 20, but I promise I am well behaved...is that ok?"

Now normally I would say no. I cannot bear it when I feel like I have to teach a guy to thrust. But the devil of greed was in me..of course I purred, come now..

*imagining easy peasy booking of the take the candy from the baby variety*

He arrives. Six foot tall, perfect skin and clutching a bottle of moet...turns out he is a baby wine merchant from a obviously well heeled family..

And fucked me for 57 minutes solid. Every position. All angles. Infact at the end he was putting the lube on for me and telling me in perfect rc..please dont worry Lucy, I will definately stand any extra bill .. ;Dat the end I actually said the immortal phrase "take your time baby...." God I love my job sometimes
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Oh honey, you lucky girl! If you are anything like me, you were owning him money! 20, built, knows how to screw, and comes baring bubbly, bless him!

going to a 1.5 or 2 hour minimum. It's apparent that you're worth it. Or just being more assertive about getting what's due to you. Consider this: do any of the gents that short your rate come back? Are they writing raving reviews of you that keep you busier than you need to be? If they don't, have them GET UP and get your money.

All the best to you,

Tiffani Jameson

do any of the gents that short your rate come back? Are they writing raving reviews of you that keep you busier than you need to be? If they don't, have them GET UP and get your money.

Hey Ms. Thang! Answer: no. and no. yeah, so it makes sense 

Recently, I have been more upfront about the money. And now that I read the replies, it makes me feel more confident about asking, instead of scared to ask. Recently, I had a guy give money in the middle of our appointment. It wasn't as hard to ask because I felt jusitfied. Besides, asking for the money afterwards makes me feel weird. You gotta put more coins in the slot honey!

The guys who leave reviews are either regulars or big spenders. what a coincidence 

The guys who leave reviews are either regulars or big spenders. what a coincidence 

And those are the ones that deserve the extra half hours at your discretion. For the most part clients have a 'see a fool, bump his head' mentality. They'll get over any way they can. I remember the last time it happened to me. He booked two hours, and I stayed over about 45 minutes (what can I say? We were having fun.). No tip WHATSOEVER. When he wrote the review,  they asked him how much he payed he wrote that he payed for my two hour rate and got FOUR. I wrote him and told him he just made both of us  look like asses: me for not being professional enough to get up and him for not compensating me OR omitting that from the review. I have learned a lot since then. I'm glad to see you're standing up for yourself.

Also headdesks!*