Well Lady thank you soo much for your replys,.... hes coming over from the USA so not sure about the ,, have an hours session with him before a whole night but I shall ask, we have ( myself and said Dom) spoken about what will happen at great length, he seems abit of a softy actually but nether the less , my plan ( if I do do this booking), is to take my sub along, stick him in a room in the same hotel, I then can give him the money and if I need saving, he will be atleast in the building and he suggested that I call my security 3 times during the night to let them know im safe and well,,,,, soo maybe this will work