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K212

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Erotic massage & essential oils
« on: 16 August 2019, 01:18:06 pm »
Could you outline what it entails for you if you provide this only, rather than escorting.

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« Reply #1 on: 16 August 2019, 01:28:20 pm »
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K212

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Re: Erotic massage & essential oils
« Reply #2 on: 17 August 2019, 09:32:07 pm »
Yes I was thinking to look up a short massage course. When I’ve taken other courses for other specialised mainstream work type skills that usually lead to a certain type of profession. There was the usual question of where will you take this with work..Will you work for yourself or within a company doing (whatever it is that course is in) blah blah blah. If ever you got asked this question on a course and not actually in the therapeutic legit massage industry what would you say your reasons for doing the course were?
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« Reply #3 on: 17 August 2019, 10:59:42 pm »
You don't tend to be asked any weird questions but would advise you attend a Level 3 course and not just a weekend course which doesn't tend to give you more than the basics.
You can get a reasonably priced massage table from Amazon, get insurance and can do normal massage when you have days when you can't or don't want to do escorting. Smaller income but good, so you can register with HMRC as have a recognised qualification.
I offer massage as an extra within a booking and most guys really appreciate it, especially great for relieving stress and tension. They tend to turn out to be good regulars.


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K212

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Re: Erotic massage & essential oils
« Reply #5 on: 18 August 2019, 02:41:54 pm »
Been searching high and low online.
Wanting one that smells and creates an erotic type scent..
Anyone know of a good one?
It’s for a plug in mist diffuser
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Re: Erotic massage & essential oils
« Reply #6 on: 18 August 2019, 03:35:33 pm »
The scents that turn men on most are vanilla/baked goods (pumpkin pie was the one American scientists used), so something vanillary, almondy etc. Lavender is the other one, though personally I wouldn't class that as erotic, though it did work in the scientific study.

Jasmine is quite heady and sensual.
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« Reply #7 on: 18 August 2019, 03:46:51 pm »
Lemongrass is lovely, always reminds me of spas

K212

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Re: Erotic massage & essential oils
« Reply #8 on: 18 August 2019, 03:49:06 pm »
Thank you xx

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Re: Erotic massage & essential oils
« Reply #9 on: 18 August 2019, 03:56:13 pm »
K2, I've never been asked that question it's not a job interview. Are you overthinking?

I’ve done courses in other industry type things and the small talk thing is usually talking about where you’ll take that given skill in your work life. Not over thinking it. It’s a standard small talk dull question I find on courses.



You're paying for an educational course. I've done bags of massage courses, paid my money and get trained, no silly questions.  I think your mindset should always be that you are a legitimate massage student/professional. The fact that we do additional services involving cocks doesn't make you a lesser or inferior massage therapist. That's an easy trap to fall into.
Very true

I doubt you'll be asked such a question but if you're going to be self employed put self employed. If you don't know put that. If you're going to do a mix of both put that. Or just put any old shit and get cracking. ;D
i run my escorting work money through a different business. So don’t officially and probs won’t say I do that on paperwork. But your right will just say to anyone asking (making small talk) on a course. I am thinking to go into that industry and wanted to take the course and see..

I did a short course bought my table, practiced on clients, covered my costs for the table, did another few courses, bought my towels and massage paper, more practice and gradually improved. Then took more specialised courses in erotic-sensual massage paid for by massage sessions. Then made a massage website, and paid for that with massage earnings. As Ellie says, the skills you learn will be handy if you choose to do ITEC, BTEC which can take 4 months to 2 years, but no need to worry about that or insurance right now. No insurance policy covers dick massage.

HMRC is only interested in tax collection not qualifications. You can register as what you like with or without conventional/recognised qualifications. But let's not get bogged down in that it's not necessary at these baby steps stage.

I'd opt to do a few simple short courses of 1-7 days, set your room up, like Ellie says, practice simple moves on your clients and happy massaging. Learn as you earn.

My massage often makes more than escort services so there is light over the rainbow. ;)
thats good to know it works well for some people

ive never earnt as much money in anything else as I did escorting and my old mainstream job was well compensated. I think when can’t escort will do solely Massage. Like after pregnancy and not wanting to escort later in life  or if feel can’t escort and have a partner. But want to offer it to clients as an additional for now. Like you said a lot do like it as part of the experience. I just find escorting easier for the money weirdly. Whenever clients have asked for a massage I admittedly say I have no skills but will have a go and I find it HARD work. So I take my hat off to you ladies who do it more. But maybe when your not good at anything/not gained skills in it it’s going to be difficult. Will see after the course I guess if i find it any easier 
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Re: Erotic massage & essential oils
« Reply #11 on: 18 August 2019, 05:00:58 pm »
Sandalwood, lavender and Bergamot.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Erotic massage & essential oils
« Reply #12 on: 18 August 2019, 08:48:12 pm »
I first came across this combination as a massage oil and love the combination Ylang Ylang, sandalwood and black pepper. 

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