This is the article I was referring to: /aanos.org/human-male-sexual-response-to-olfactory-stimuli/]https://aanos.org/human-male-sexual-response-to-olfactory-stimuli/

A combination of pumpkin pie and lavender had the strongest effect on penile blood flow (out of doughnuts, liquorice and cranberry). Vanilla, strawberry, cola, jasmine and oriental spice are also mentioned.

I'm struggling to think of something equally iconic as pumpkin pie in Britain - bakewell tart? I think it's basically a cake/baking scent that you're after, so for scented candles something like vanilla or cookie dough?


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I'd definitely do a massage course that leads to the qualification. Interestingly - you can do it through a private school so it only takes a few months instead of at college where they stretch it to fit the school year.

When you say you find massage hard work -
I'd say that's because you haven't been trained how to do it properly.
It is easy - if you know how. Really easy and as relaxing to give as it is to receive.

I love doing my job and I sometimes give 2 x 2 hour massages per day.
Client has to be on the right surface and at the right height or you could strain yourself. And there are techniques to make it easy on your body.

Also, go for massages yourself, with lots of different providers - to have a good understanding of what it should feel like and how different people deliver it differently.

As for scents: you do want your room to smell nice but keep it subtle. Not all clients will like the same smell.
Make sure you use unscented grapeseed massage oil for the sensual massage as your clients do not want to return to their wives smelling of massage oil.

I'm dabbling in aromatherapy but wouldn't use essential oils with sex work clients because I'm not qualified, risks of oil meeting condoms and many clients don't want to be left perfumed however used properly aromatherapy doesn't have to smell strong.

Can any one recommend me where to look for massage courses? Is a lot on the net but I don’t know which one is good.

Start with your local.college.