What do you think about parties? Those where there are say 8-10 men and with 4-5 ladies. Ratio 2:1 To me it looks like swinging...!
I started thinking to participate in these if any.
Any ideas? Advice? What to be careful of
Many thanks

I would imagine lots of parties would involve drinking/drugs.

Unless I knew some of the men, I would avoid. Like VC I also don't accept MMF bookings unless I have security.

I've never liked the idea of parties but then I don't accept MFF or MFF bookings either.

I think it's the security aspect that would bother me the most.

My bf organises gang bangs in the swinging scene and the thought of it makes me go all queasy. He told me they don't shower when they arrive. I would be really concerned about hygiene and having to suck smelly cocks.

It's easy enough to get one client to wash but I don't fancy asking 8 men or more 

Maybe if I was a well known porn star or something I would feel differently. There's no harm in trying it though if you fancy it. With the correct security in place it might be something you'd enjoy and could be quite lucrative.

About 10 years ago, when I was transitioning from stripper to working girl and had no idea about being an independent, I found an advert for Sacred Rose parties in Earls Court, went for an interview and started work on the same day.

It was a very busy establishment and they held 2 parties a day (3 hours each or 2 hours maybe, I can't quite remember).

There was a lovely lady who was looking after girls and looking after clients, she made sure the guys went to shower as soon as they arrived and provided snacks and refreshments.

Most guys there were regulars and atmosphere was almost family-like (if this makes sense). The guys were mainly middle-aged middle-class nondescript punters, they treated the girls with respect and generally weren't demanding.

I can't remember exact ratio, but I think it varied for guys, but there was 3 girls on day shift and 4 girls on evening shift.

All girls were lovely and were helping each other out.

There was no alcohol or drugs involved, soft drinks and snacks only.

Oh and the girls were paid 150 per shift which was 2 or 3 hours long.

I know the money was little, but the 'work' itself was easy and it gave me confidence to go out there and fly solo, also, it was a comfort working with other girls.

I think this place had been shut down a while back though.8

From a safety point of view I would have thought having several men there is better then one or two?

There again I have twisted logic lol!