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ChloeClouds

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Is he dodgy??
« on: 23 March 2018, 06:33:14 pm »
I have an outcall booking to a hotel at 7.30pm, everything was arranged about 2 days ago via AdultWork messages, no red flags popped up in my head, seemed genuine. I text the number on the AW booking form today to see if he was free so I could call to confirm... Wrong number! So I message him on AW to let him know the number he gave me was wrong. He replies giving me the correct number, one of the digits in the original number he gave was incorrect... I then call him half an hour later ... He picked up and sounded really muffled,  I had to ask him to speak clearer as he sounded like he had material covering the speaker.. And I think a broad scottish accent. From what I gathered, since my last message to him on AW they had deleted his account... Within half an hour of me messaging him! He then sent me a new message on AW from his new username. With this being a new account he obviously had no feedback.

Does this sound dodgy? Why would AW randomly delete his account for no reason??

I've text back saying " Hi, I'm not sure I want to go ahead with the booking tonight with AW deleting your account. Maybe if your profile gets reinstated I will consider. Don't take offence this is just for my own peace of mind"

He's suggested meeting in the foyer of the hotel for a drink.... What do you guys think? I'm supposed to be going in an hour ha.

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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #1 on: 23 March 2018, 06:38:06 pm »
Yup to me this sounds super dodgy. If you aren't comfortable with the booking don't do it imo.
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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #2 on: 23 March 2018, 06:43:08 pm »
Personally I wouldn't touch that booking with a barge pole 
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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #3 on: 23 March 2018, 06:51:30 pm »
If he isnt dodgey then he sounds like a idiot your gut will always serve you well in this job . xx I wouldnt bother with him babe xx
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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #4 on: 23 March 2018, 06:55:28 pm »
Meeting in the foyer? Same old alarm bells ring for me on this one. He could be mingled with the crowd and watching you walk in to either see if he likes you or just to make a fool of you.  The aw deleted account would warn me off to start with never mind the meeting downstairs.  Have you checked out his room number to see if he is really booked in? You need his real surname too.
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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #5 on: 23 March 2018, 07:02:12 pm »
It just sounds to me like somebody who didn't want to type his real mobile number into Adultwork, and I don't blame him. Then when he realised that there was a definite paper trail or perhaps because he thought you could correct the number on the form and add the real one he deleted the account himself.

Did you do the usual outcall checks to establish that he was actually where he claimed to be, and give him a time to call you and confirm? Plenty of people don't want their information on AW (or unsolicited phone calls) and it doesn't make them timewasters.

That said, I would never agree to meet a punter in a public place. If they want to go for a drink they can do that after I've been to the room, confirmed it's the number I've been given to my security buddy and collected my fee.
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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #6 on: 23 March 2018, 07:02:57 pm »
Quote from: Justine on 23 March 2018, 06:55:28 pm
Meeting in the foyer? Same old alarm bells ring for me on this one. He could be mingled with the crowd and watching you walk in to either see if he likes you or just to make a fool of you.  The aw deleted account would warn me off to start with never mind the meeting downstairs.  Have you checked out his room number to see if he is really booked in? You need his real surname too.

Just wanted to reply the same. You need his room number or booking confirmation with his real name. Can you get deposit before you leave your flat? If not, forget about him and block him.
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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #7 on: 23 March 2018, 08:20:24 pm »
The only time I've ever met a client in a public place has been literally outside his hotel because it's keycarded or the desk staff are over-zealous.
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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #8 on: 24 March 2018, 01:20:44 pm »
I working well over 10 years and the only time I met someone in a public place was back in my car meet days.
If I was worried bringing a newbie into my flat I would meet him at the main entrance. but it very rare that I would meet someone I'm uncomfortable with. b
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ChloeClouds

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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #9 on: 24 March 2018, 01:37:22 pm »
Hi Girls, thanks for the advice. I didn't go in the end, my intuition was telling me something wasn't right. After I text him to let him know I wasn't coming he sent me a series of weird messages like "What would you like to drink I will get you one now" and another saying "Are you at the hotel yet?" Like he'd completely dismissed the text saying I wasn't coming! Haha
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Re: Is he dodgy??
« Reply #10 on: 24 March 2018, 01:45:56 pm »
if you're a gut person then listen to your gut
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