A lot of it you can do without even investing big money. 

An alternative to pole dancing is just a good old fashioned lap dance/striptease..........  I have lots of guys who love a lapdance as it gives them that buzz/feeling if they've never been to a lapdance club........

As for your image, (now no disrespect to anyone who has enhancements or plastic surgery) but I sometimes feel society/media is pushing us all to the extremes and where will it end?  I know many women who don't need work but have done it and I've even had women (not men) suggest to me that I have some work done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  And you know what?  I'm bloody busy and in my opinion - if it ain't broke then don't fix it.  This obsession with perfection is getting beyond ridiculous and it worries me more that the younger generation are striving to achieve a certain look, which at times is far from natural. 

My old boobs are saggy but my clients adore them!  I'm mature and the younger guys seem to worship my stretch marks (LOL). 

If you're busy and doing well then see that as a positive as any change might in fact hinder that! 

I have shellac painted nails now but went through a phase of having fake ones and now a lot of my regulars have confessed that they hated them!  LOL

Lady has made a good point about personality.  You may be the most gorgeous divine beauty in the world but if you just lie there and don't interract then I doubt people will come back or rather more importantly you may not attract the nicer clients that you do want to come back ............... 

Just adding again that I don't want to cause offence to girls who have work done as it's an individual choice but sounds to me like you don't need to and maybe are caught up in this search for something that doesn't necessarily warrant being done.