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Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« on: 06 December 2014, 08:45:00 am »
I know that this sounds ridiculous but do you ever end the week really sexually frustrated ?

Considering that I've been at it all week I should return home thinking of anything but but at times I think back through the week and realise that despite how much sex I've had I have the sex/orgasm ratio is extremely unbalanced. Persistently being taken to the edge but not often taken all the way there.I know that when escorting it does take that bit longer to orgasm etc (generally) because your brain becomes a little desensitised.

I'm asking because I have come home this week (after a busy week) a really randy bugger. Really craving some  passionate sex. I've gone so far as to trawl dating sites and almost contact my ex lol. It just seems insane ! I've returned to escorting after a break but when on previously I was with an ex, escorting five days a week and had a couple of f buddies too. I remember when my ex found out about it all he said 'as if being a whore isn't enough, you still went and fucked around'. It wasn't because it obviously wasn't and isnt now.

Does anyone else end some weeks feeling like this ?

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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #1 on: 06 December 2014, 09:31:13 am »
Yes, I feel exactly the same sometimes :)
Thats why I have a f.buddy too :))
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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #2 on: 06 December 2014, 10:05:54 am »
Not exactly the same thing, seeing as I hardly ever climax in or out of work, but after a busy week I often feel the need for more involved and emotionally satisfying encounter. I'm most certainly more attentive and involved in the bedroom with my BF since I started whoring.

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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #3 on: 06 December 2014, 11:34:05 am »
This week, yes, but I think it's due to a 'perfect storm' of practical, frustrating, and upsetting/annoying circumstances conspiring against me! I'm lucky though, in that I nearly always climax with clients, so it is thankfully rare.
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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #4 on: 06 December 2014, 04:11:51 pm »
I think you are just realising now that sex in work is just that whether you orgasm or not.

There is a huge difference between sex and love making in a loving relationship.  Infact I would say the meaning could be totally opposite and sometimes the easier you orgasm the less "feeling" there is in the situ.
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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #5 on: 06 December 2014, 09:55:49 pm »
Not exactly the same thing, seeing as I hardly ever climax in or out of work, but after a busy week I often feel the need for more involved and emotionally satisfying encounter. I'm most certainly more attentive and involved in the bedroom with my BF since I started whoring.

I'm the opposite, more often than not I find BF sex a chore. But I do climax with clients. If I never did I'd probably feel the same.

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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #6 on: 06 December 2014, 10:14:23 pm »
Having orgasms with clients its easy. having passionate sex, like op said, its harder, until now I have just 3 regulars with whom  I can have that. Really passionate sex,almost love making.
But I cant have that with the guys Im not atracted too :)
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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #7 on: 06 December 2014, 10:51:14 pm »
Not exactly the same thing, seeing as I hardly ever climax in or out of work, but after a busy week I often feel the need for more involved and emotionally satisfying encounter. I'm most certainly more attentive and involved in the bedroom with my BF since I started whoring.

I'm the opposite, more often than not I find BF sex a chore. But I do climax with clients. If I never did I'd probably feel the same.

I generally don't get off unless I'm masturbating. I'm also not very physically sensitive, and am very particular about things that do anything for me at all. Suffices to say I've only had 2 partners to date that I've enjoyed sex with a lot. Rest of the time it's alright but I'd much rather be doing other things. For example masturbating. Doh.
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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #8 on: 07 December 2014, 03:24:21 am »
I may b totally wrong but i always thought that 4 us ladies.. the more sex we get the mor we want and the less we hav the less we need it/hav it on our mind... but 4 men it seems the exact opposite!
I often end up masturbating after a day seeing clients!
Although i dnt hav a problem 2 cum wv clients and most of mine seem to enjoy long ro sessions so i am cumming from that in the booking... and then sometimes coming home and masturbating over the thought of certain sessions/ clients of mine...
 I used 2 hav f buddies but am currently in a relationship... my bf is passionate in bed but some how i feel in-satiable these days.. sometimes i masturbate b4 my bf comes home just in case we dont end up having sex lol.
the most anoying thing is when im rly horny after a day with clients but hav gotton a bit 'de sensitised' down there.... aargh now that is sexual frustration lol

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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #9 on: 07 December 2014, 03:50:28 am »
I have been, whether I've had orgasms with clients or not although not many clients are good in bed and insist I come like I'm a machine which puts me off but I'm fussy in my real life who I have sex with and am glad I don't orgasm with most clients. I'm not frustrated enough to find a casual bloke today although I had one last year.

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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #10 on: 07 December 2014, 10:09:10 am »
I may b totally wrong but i always thought that 4 us ladies.. the more sex we get the mor we want and the less we hav the less we need it/hav it on our mind... but 4 men it seems the exact opposite!

That's absolutely right, and tbh it's not difficult to understand why.

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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #11 on: 08 December 2014, 11:18:11 am »
Feeling sexually frustrated all the time, yet there are so many other things to do: after all sex is only repetitive.

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Re: Ending the week sexually frustrated.
« Reply #12 on: 08 December 2014, 01:43:46 pm »
Having regular clients helps out with this.
If they are socially nice and/or very good in bed I give give them a big discount as an incentive for them to continue seeing me.

One of my regulars, I see him every 2-3 weeks for an overnight for only ?300, he's 56, a really lovely bloke just not particularly attractive who I wouldn't be seen dead with in public (I'm 21). But he is a GOD in bed his cock and kisses are plain wonderful! he actually makes love to me, it takes a lot of work for him to cum so there are times its been easy for me to have consistent repeat orgasms. Wish I could find a man like him closer to my age, good looking and fit would be yummy.