Author Topic: Embarking on my first outcall (a few safety related questions) (Read 2531 times)

emily_x · « **on:** 12 July 2016, 11:57:39 pm »

Hi guys. I've sifted through the SAAFE and I'm honestly both so grateful and so amazed at all the quality content that has been put up there. I've had a read through the forums and used the search function (although it doesn't seem too efficient, unless I'm using it wrong?) and I hope I'm not asking redundant questions here. I've been thinking about doing this for a few years, so I'm excited to make it a reality. I have a few questions that I'd really like answered, though. My current living situation means I can't take incalls, so I'm happily limiting myself to travelling to clients.

Firstly, and as a general question, what are good ways of keeping myself safe and verifying client authenticity when I'm taking myself to an outcall? At the moment I'm in the process of setting up bookings, and for hotel visits I'm thinking of (on top of running numbers/names through blacklist databases) providing a booking reference for the room, and asking them to show a picture of either a newspaper or a piece of paper with the date in front of their hotel room number. Similarly for a personal residence, something like a proof of date and a utility bill with full name and address in the same picture? I don't know if I'm being too rigid here! Is there something I'm missing out?

I'm currently only advertising through AW. The guys messaging me obviously have their associated rating, and I'm already passing on guys with hidden or negative reviews. I'm currently super sceptical about people with a 0 rating (or anything less than, like, 5) because I personally don't know what to expect as an escort in general. Should I just keep things to established members until I feel confident? If a guy is willing to provide the proof (as above) with a 0 or 1 rating, should I go for it?

I'm aware that having a buddy is a good idea, but while I'm testing things out I haven't told anyone. Where could I find a buddy if I decided not to tell anyone irl? Is one really necessary if I'm stringent about my checks?

When I phone call a client to have a chat/set things up/get a feel for the bloke, do you have any pointers? I'm great at chatting person, but I fall apart a bit on the phone. Is there anything I should look (hear!) out for? Anything in particular I should definitely bring up before we meet?

And finally (sorry to ramble, ha) I have a little question about dressing for an outcall. I've got my lingerie at the ready, but in terms of street clothes, what should I aim for? I'm an early twenties trendy type, so I'm fully aware I shouldn't turn up for a booking in my finest corduroy dungarees and vintage trainers. But at the same time, should I still dress how I feel most comfortable/fashionable (with the whole trendy Shoreditch wanker thing dialled down) so I feel most like myself? No idea!

Anyway, thanks for reading ladies, you've already helped me immensely xx

ghostworld · « **Reply #1 on:** 13 July 2016, 02:08:05 am »

Hi Emily, here's my 2 c, this is just what I do, so don't take it as gospel, just might give you some ideas of things to think about doing,

For hotel outcalls, ask for name the room is booked under, then call hotel and ask to be put through to them. No exceptions for this and I've so far been ok.

For homes, I get a landline and check its for the address Im visiting (and call them on it). Ive also accepted a pic of two letters together, with same name and address, with todays paper. Or a letter with the door number in photo. Some girls disagree that this is thorough enough. I'd advice only doing outcalls to places that don't take (or cost) too long to get to, just until you feel more confident at spotting TWs. Guys don't seem to like the extra security checks, and sometimes not want to comply, but I wouldnt risk it, theres a lot of arseholes who get their kicks in messing escorts about.

I see guys without AW profiles, but its a good way to vet people, but remember it can be faked. Check out who has left the feedback and that they look like a real escort! Most importantly is the phone call, always trust your gut. If someone doesn't come across well on the phone they won't do in person. Maybe they are shy and awkward, but you don't want these guys when your new, just too much awkwardness all round! I ask age, ethnicity, are they looking for anything in particular, mostly just to get them talking and I can make a judgement on how they sound.

As for clothes, you don't want to attract attention going to the hotel, so like you've just come from the office. Shift dress, pencil skirt and shirt. I wear flats and then quickly slip on heels when I get of the lift. If I guy wants something specific I tell him that I bring it and change on arrival. I've actually gone to outcalls dressed in jeans and tshirt as I forgot to bring outcall gear, and they've stopped me changing into my "sexy" stuff, I think some like the girl next door fantasy.

Lastly, make sure you have a security phone buddy!! You can find one on here (I can help if you need) DO NOT go to ANY bookings without telling someone where you are going and what time you will be finished, and then let them know when you are finished, on your way home and safe.

Good luck x

barbie88 · « **Reply #2 on:** 13 July 2016, 01:30:35 pm »

Hiya Hun

I tend to only visit hotels for outcalls but I always ask for room number and name and then call the hotel and ask to be put threw. Most genuine customers are happy to give you this info some getting funny but I just nicely explain to them . Same when it comes to home addresses I always ask for a land line and call them on it . If it's a customer I have spoken with on cam or has loads of feed back I feel more relaxed bout it .

When I got to a outcall I wear a nice jacket or long coat and casual but nice outfit but put sexy stuff in a nice bag. I have had customers in past ask me to dress as if I'm going down to the local shop lol and some can be funny to where you park your car .

Good luck to you sweetie x

BeeBee · « **Reply #3 on:** 13 July 2016, 02:16:10 pm »

I ask for email confirmation of the hotel booking, talk to them on the phone and trust my gut.
A neat dress is the easiest I think to wear. Nobody knows what or who you are so I'm not that bothered about how I dress.
Buddy - give them clear time expectations, room number and actions if they don't hear from you. Don't expect them to think of what they should do, already putting them under pressure by having responsibility for you.
Good Luck, you'll be fine after you've done a few! Confidence is key.

emily_x · « **Reply #4 on:** 14 July 2016, 12:25:06 pm »

Thanks for the advice, ladies. It's all super helpful.

I asked a guy who wanted me to go to his house for a copy of a utility bill and his landline number, to which he refused. Said that his "positive feedback" was enough (5 feedback? Of which 2 are the same girl and 2 are inactive members from a few years ago? No thanks)

Feels pretty good to just say no if they don't jump through my hoops!

ghostworld · « **Reply #5 on:** 17 July 2016, 01:19:32 am »

If he has a landline then you can probably skip the bills (they can be faked anyway) but no landline no outcall imo. It's pretty standard for an outcall for escorts to ask for this. 5 isn't really much feedback, especially if most are no longer active. If he is being pushy I would be wary.

LittleBunny · « **Reply #6 on:** 17 July 2016, 09:11:50 am »

Hi,

Please can I ask I what to do about the fact some men don't have landlines. To be honest I don't have a landline too as I rely solely on my mobile (and ofc my punter phone lol) so I actually think this is a valid excuse.

I also don't think a prepaid uber is the best way for me as I know it will put off even genuine men. I just don't want to have too many blockers up.

Many thanks,

Bunny

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #7 on:** 17 July 2016, 09:59:46 am »

If he doesn't have a landline, then I'd go with utility bill photo.

LittleBunny · « **Reply #8 on:** 17 July 2016, 10:09:23 am »

Hi Voluptuous Curves,

I think I misunderstood the steer of the q ... This is purely about identifying them. The only thing that concerns me is about whether they are there in the property or not ie for hotels I call reception or call their room. I guess in this instance I will just have to hope for the best that they are there and wanna fuck me than getting off on mucking me around lol

Thanks!

Bunny X

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #9 on:** 17 July 2016, 10:30:34 am »

Someone else suggested getting them to take a photo of their front door, showing the number, which you can then compare on Google street view to check if it's the same.

emily_x · « **Reply #10 on:** 20 July 2016, 07:48:26 pm »

Oooh, I really like that front door photo idea.

Anyway, thanks for the advice everyone. I had my first booking today and thanks to your help I felt infinitely safer! It was great and I still feel really good about it. I think I'll be sticking around here for a while!

Phoenix · « **Reply #11 on:** 22 July 2016, 02:38:02 am »

Glad it went well

Late to the party, but as I've been working outcall only for 7 years, i give the options in this order and let them choose;
1. Landline 2. Email photo of driver's licence/utility bill showing clear address 3. Amazon voucher 4. Phone top-up voucher ( my least favourite, considering i speak with clients for less than 2 minutes per visit- I should still have credit a decade from now at that rate ) The deposits are only for nominal amounts - 10 or 20 quid depending on distance. It wouldn't cover time lost, but it' s unlikely a fake outcaller would go to the trouble of paying for his kicks. Giving them first the options of Id proof also shows i have every intention of showing up ( and would rather have *** squid in my purse than pennies on my phone credit.
One bloke has just 'gone to town' for my weekend visit - emailed 3 types of proof and included a mantlepiece pic of him cuddling what appears to be a girlfriend

Some chancers will tell rubbish like they are no good on the internet/phone/computer is broken/no email address. These are the ones who want to fake an outcall.

Also, on the day and immediately before you travel, I keep them informed and if they don't confirm straight back, I don't go. Guy's can change their mind/receive visitors/drop dead etc..

Phoenix · « **Reply #12 on:** 22 July 2016, 02:52:11 am »

Just to add; For the safety aspect - even the top-up voucher leaves a trail of sorts ( albeit a chancey one )- via the CCTV at the time of purchase - should an ugly incident ever occur XX

poppy321 · « **Reply #13 on:** 03 August 2016, 09:27:32 pm »

Hi Emily,

I always have that problem with deciding what to wear! I always fear clients wont find my own clothes very sexy so I always have to wear something that's pretty much the opposite of my taste!! It helps one get into character though I guess

maybe go with a black bodycon dress, bare legs and some black heels??

ladyinred · « **Reply #14 on:** 05 August 2016, 03:12:22 am »

Quote from: poppy321 on 03 August 2016, 09:27:32 pm

Hi Emily,

I always have that problem with deciding what to wear! I always fear clients wont find my own clothes very sexy so I always have to wear something that's pretty much the opposite of my taste!! It helps one get into character though I guess maybe go with a black bodycon dress, bare legs and some black heels??

Same here

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