Hey everyone,
First off, sorry if there is already a topic on this, I searched and couldn't find one.
Ok so I saw a client for the second time today, who I used to work in a call center with. We got on really well and even got rather friendly after drinking far too much at a staff party, though I didn't end up going home with him as he would have liked.
So my buddy and I have a booking together, and who should walk through the door but my old friend, grinning like a Cheshire cat! I didn't know what to say or do, but he started talking about us working together and the awkwardness was gone. We had a great booking, he paid and promised to return.
Today I went to his place and had a fantastic half hour of (without going into too much detail!) sweaty passionate teenager-like-exciting sex, I had so much fun we went over time and in my rush I left my undies with him!
He lets another WG use his flat for the occasional in call and I'm tempted to ask if he would like to make the same arrangement with me, as I need somewhere to work from and he mentioned a messy custody battle for his kids and is worrying about his money situation for the foreseeable.
The problem is that I'm in a happy relationship with a wonderful guy who doesn't know about my work, and it would destroy him if he ever found out, where as my client, who has asked me out, is so laid back about escorts, swingers, open relationships etc.
I can't help but imagine what if I had gone home with my client on that drunken night out? I could be open and honest about my job, have the added security of working from my own home and having a guy who would really know where I am when I go out on an evening.
It doesn't hurt that he's hit the gym since our staff party and is so energetic it's unbelievable! He also looks at me like I'm the last slice of chocolate cake, and kisses so sincerely...
Any advice would be appreciated, even if it's just a swift slap and a dose of reality pills!