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Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« on: 08 July 2014, 10:09:35 am »
I have decided to do outcalls because it will make things a lot easier for me. Only problem is I am a tv escort. so normally if I was using a hotel room, I would be already dressed e.t.c make up wig e.t.c I used to do male escorting so would just get on public transport being in London, it was easy. I don't put on a lot of makeup, just foundation,  a bit highlight/contour and I am convincing.

So just need tips on what can be worn during my trip to clients house that I can  easily change out of. I can put the wig on and just wear a woolly hat, stocking e.t.c can easily be hidden underneath clothing. If I wore a tracksuit and some trainers, do you think the client would mind if I  went to the bathroom to get ready for like 5 mins? Just worried it would turn them off seeing me at the door looking like a chavy lol

Another thing that makes me nervous is the security, as the tends to be  more crime against transgender. I know I would have to confirm the address with a bill, phoneline e.t.c Is there anything else I can do to ensure my safety.

Tvhappiness xoxo
« Last Edit: 08 July 2014, 10:55:57 am by tvhappiness »

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Re: Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« Reply #1 on: 08 July 2014, 12:10:19 pm »
Whenever I do out calls I always wear jeans or maxi dresses if its summer and I always change in my work clothes when I'm at the clients house or at the hotel. I like to be smart and simple and also sexy , that's why I don't wears track bottoms. There are girls who look sexy in track bottoms , so if u feel comfortable in trainers and track bottoms then just wear that.

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Re: Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« Reply #2 on: 08 July 2014, 03:06:26 pm »
Thanks, that really helps. Just needed to know it was okay to quickly change at clients place. Jean and a nice plain top will look okay, cause that is good as uni sex.

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Re: Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« Reply #3 on: 08 July 2014, 04:21:33 pm »
Thanks, that really helps. Just needed to know it was okay to quickly change at clients place. Jean and a nice plain top will look okay, cause that is good as uni sex.

I'd agree but if you're worried I'd mention it to the client too - they generally want us to be discreet as possible, after all :).

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Re: Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« Reply #4 on: 08 July 2014, 04:42:00 pm »
I wouldn't got with a tracksuit whether or not a TV. I read recently that the tracksuit is one of the most offputting clothes for punters. Dressing discreetly does not necessarily equates to a tracksuit. i would go with something casual yet smart like jeans. Best is to alert clients that you'll be changing into something more desirable. Otherwise, they might be disappointed thinking that that's what they're going to get the entire booking. Previously, if a client asks for stockings, i'd wear it to the booking but get uncomfortable as they tend to show under my dresses. So now, I let them know, I'll be changing into them when I arrive.

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Re: Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« Reply #5 on: 08 July 2014, 04:47:01 pm »
I don't own a tracksuit, but I'd choose loose clothes over jeans because they tend to leave ugly marks on your body, no matter how well they fit. Then again, I wouldn't wear trousers of any kind to a booking but for a TV/TS escort it's different and there's fewer choices, so I'd still go with asking the punter what they think first :).

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Re: Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« Reply #6 on: 08 July 2014, 05:26:02 pm »
Thanks for replies, feel much better and will inform them, maybe even leave a note on profile, say it's for their  maintain their discretion :D.

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Re: Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« Reply #7 on: 08 July 2014, 06:37:18 pm »
Can't really help ya out with what to wear...

However, as far as security goes, I can definitely relate to fears of being attacked because of your gender. One thing I do to ensure my security is I always tell my clients that I have a friend/sibling/whoever who knows where I am and is expecting to hear from me at a certain time; it isn't true, but the clients don't know that.

I also carry mace and a small knife with me, but I don't think those are legal in the UK. I do remember someone on here saying that she carried a can of hair spray or something similar with her. It's not mace, but if you get that into their eyes, it's gonna slow them down for a bit.

Other than that, you're kinda struck relying on your screening process and intuition, I think :/ If a client doesn't feel right, I wouldn't take them on. Good luck ^^

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Re: Dress discreetly for tv/ts escort outcall / security
« Reply #8 on: 08 July 2014, 07:16:55 pm »
Any noxious spray (Mace, pepper spray, CS gas) including homebrewed versions is illegal in the UK under the Firearms Act, and knives other than tiny penknives are likewise. Even if they weren't the chance of you being able to use them in any effective way without them being taken from and used on you are miniscule, and carrying weapons generally is a pretty terrible idea. You have to get very close to somebody for a knife to be of any use, when what you should be doing is trying to get away and put as much distance between you as you can.

The most important safety procedure for any outcall is to make sure somebody knows exactly where you are, what time you're expecting to leave and when they should be hearing from you. The second most important is making sure that punter knows they know, and this is why you always call in front of them. Pretending to call is all very well, but if somebody does decide to call your bluff and have a go bear in mind that nobody is going to miss you and raise the alarm?

If you can make yourself the most unappealing, difficult and troublesome potential target you can, you'll generally not have any problems. Alternatively, just make yourself a less appealing target than most other people - you'll look too much like hard work for a opportunist and they'll move on to somebody who isn't as careful :).