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lili69

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Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« on: 28 May 2012, 07:36:40 pm »
I have an overnight Domme booking coming up and although I am getting more experienced at dominating guys and I have a reasonable range of equipment, I wondered if anyone has any ideas or tricks to fill the time for a long booking of this type.

The client says the kinkier/dirtier the better, so it sounds like limits are not a problem!

I hope you don't mind me asking, I am not looking to steal any ideas or trade secrets, but I would appreciate any advice...

Many thanks ladies

Emma_GFE

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #1 on: 28 May 2012, 07:49:29 pm »
I dont and will not provide this service to a client (nothing against it would love to try it one day but I'm shy. it would have to be someone I trust 100% and wouldnt want it to go tits up and have an unhappy client!) but woud like to wish you some luck and hope you get the answers you are after.

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #2 on: 28 May 2012, 07:56:08 pm »
What are your limits? How cruel can you be?

lili69

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #3 on: 28 May 2012, 08:00:11 pm »
I couldn't inflict any real pain or injuries, but its someone I have met before and I am interested in pushing my own limits a bit and trying some new things...

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #4 on: 28 May 2012, 08:03:44 pm »
Lili - didnt mean that to come across offensive in anyway at all. I do wish I had the courage and confidence. Enjoy!

lili69

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #5 on: 28 May 2012, 08:12:43 pm »
Lili - didnt mean that to come across offensive in anyway at all. I do wish I had the courage and confidence. Enjoy!

No offense taken at all Emma - Domming is not for everyone.  I started out doing GFE and then tried a couple of role plays and found out I really enjoyed pushing my boundaries.  Although I am very much into acting I tend to just get into whatever character is required at the time. :)

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #6 on: 28 May 2012, 08:16:04 pm »
Domination is not meant to include sex so what are you planning on doing ALL NIGHT ......................................... ::)
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lili69

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #7 on: 28 May 2012, 08:20:50 pm »
Well, its a client I have met before who I have had sex with, so its probably not strictly Dominatrix in the real true sense of the word.  But we do want to do a proper Dominatrix role play ...

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #8 on: 28 May 2012, 10:27:54 pm »
Well, its a client I have met before who I have had sex with, so its probably not strictly Dominatrix in the real true sense of the word.  But we do want to do a proper Dominatrix role play ...

Well that should be about deprivation then  and no ....................................................
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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #9 on: 28 May 2012, 10:30:21 pm »
If you want to find out what true domination is like have a look over many of the domination profiles on AW and that will give you a general idea of what it really entails.
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lili69

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #10 on: 28 May 2012, 10:35:48 pm »
If you want to find out what true domination is like have a look over many of the domination profiles on AW and that will give you a general idea of what it really entails.
Good idea - many thanks Lady_Lust xxx

I must admit I am really interested in developing my dominatrix side properly ...

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Re: Dominatrix booking - any advice please?
« Reply #11 on: 28 May 2012, 11:32:13 pm »
Remember not to buy into the rather too common bit of snobbishness that says that Real DominatricesTM do not have 'sex' with clients. Some very lovely ones do, and some very lovely ones do not.

Without suggesting that Lady_Lust_XXX has ever done this, some of the less lovely ones have a very annoying habit of looking down their noses at anyone who does - regardless of whether or not they also include BDSM services. It's usually an laughable attempt to pretend that they are not prostitutes like everyone else offering sexual services for money. If anyone wants to put 'of course I do not have sex with clients' in their marketing, fine, just don't believe that it makes you better than anyone who does.

In this case, if the client wanted a no 'sex' pro-domme, he'd have booked one.
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