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Doing massage only advice
« on: 01 April 2025, 12:02:17 am »
I've always done escort before sometimes with Massage included, but I've just had some tummy tuck and I can't do full service with few more weeks. I wanted to know what pattern the people who do Massage only usually follow probably do hand job and or without at the end.

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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #1 on: 11 April 2025, 09:59:59 am »
I've never offered massage, but I do know that it's hard on your back, especially if you don't have a massage table at the right height (which is a part of the reason I don't do it, albeit only a tiny part). Will you be OK standing and leaning over for the length of a booking after major abdominal surgery?

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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #2 on: 11 April 2025, 04:24:36 pm »
I did massage with hj ending for a few years, it's hard going on your hands,back and feet. I was always busy but the downsides were you're limited to what you can earn a day as no one is leaving early and it's knackering. Always loads of washing cause of the oil and constant showers

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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #3 on: 12 April 2025, 09:20:41 pm »
I'd advice you wait until the muscles are stronger because, as others have said, it's tiring and you'll slow down your recovery.  Perhaps see one or two people a day could help if you really want to do it but due to your surgery I'd limit the service to maximum 20 or 30 mins, and only go lightly.  If a clients wants a deep sports massage you can sweet talk them into why lighter massages are better for him without giving away you've had an operation

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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #4 on: 13 April 2025, 10:25:29 am »
I went through the same thought process a couple of years ago. I'd had enough of providing paid for sex - I was getting thrush and a long backstory of STIs and pregnancy/terminations. On top of that, i was getting an ick feeling of being so physically close to clients I did not want to be. I tried massage with HJ but I was not good at it and got bad feedback and lost all my regulars. It was hard work for low pay.
I then saw a profile of someone I worked with years ago and she was doing a voyeur experience and had lots of positive reviews. I contacted her and we did some sessions together with a few of her regulars (just solo action where the client watches). I moved away and started voyeur service on my own. Basically, it involves me masturbating and showing off my body whilst the client masturbates (no touching). My prices are about 60% of full sex competitors and close to full sex prices if I do HJ, but I have plenty of regulars,,, mostly nice older and clean guys. No STI risk and no STI risk for clients which many tell me is a reason for picking my service. Some have also told me that their guilt factor from having sex with a stranger is less and that is why they enjoy it more than paid for full sex. I have recently taken things to another level with my male partner and we offer voyeur service for clients to watch us have full sex whilst they masturbate. This also has extra opertunities such as HJ. This is popular even though we only offer it at weekends and times to suit us. Again, older guys like this.

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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #5 on: 13 April 2025, 11:06:16 am »
I'm trained and qualified in massage, and this is what I offer.

I have a massage table - at the right height, and I would say this is essential. With this, I can easily put in a few hours a day, no problem.
I would not massage on a bed or the floor or at the wrong height, as it would be a back-killer within 30 minutes. And very difficult to deliver a good massage on the wrong height equipment.

So, I'm saying - learn how to do massage properly - then you can easily make the session last 1-2 hours (as I do). And have the correct table/ correct equipment. Charge £80+ per hour (in the middle of nowhere, I'd charge more in London). Also, they will pay £100+ per hour if you are nude/topless.
Do not go too cheap!

As for HE. I aim this to be 10 minutes from the end of the session - I have a lot of experience, so rarely get it wrong. But I also charge a lot, so I don't overly worry if we go 10 minutes over due to my misjudging things, or I continue massaging to fill the time if he comes too quickly. I do not aim to make them come twice.

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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #6 on: 13 April 2025, 12:11:53 pm »
I offer GFE & massage services.

Massage is tough on your body, if you’re not used to it. It takes a few weeks to adjust. I’ve had major abdominal surgery and there’s no way I would have been able to do massage.

I would just offer very basic services until you have healed. You could maybe do pre paid private videos/chat and offer short HJ bookings.

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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #7 on: 15 April 2025, 11:39:10 pm »
I’ve done FS work in the past and do massage only now
I fully agree with what others say
Massage is actually more taxing on your body, especially if you are not used to doing it
Even with a massage table you will be bent over for long periods of time, it won’t be possible for you to do post op
Most clients stay their full time & most book an hour, so you will be doing a full hours work which is taxing on your body especially if you aren’t used to doing it
I think people think massage is the easy option but that isn’t the case
Would recommend camming or texting services till you are healed

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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #8 on: 16 April 2025, 06:20:08 am »
I've been thinking and puzzling over this idea that massage is hard on your body—because I haven't found that at all. I'm wondering if it is due to the technique or having a massage table at the correct height.

And then I remembered - mostly I only do 1 a day/ 7 a week!  :D

I can easily manage 2 clients in a day, but I have occasionally done 3, and that is really tough, and I wouldn't normally do that. Now, it's not difficult on my body - I am doing a fairly gentle massage. I'm not physically working hard. It is mentally tiring. I allocate 2 hours per client, so 3 clients is a 6-7 hour day (with a break and clearing up). I don't want to work that long!

I started out on the basis that I would aim for 1 person a day, priced accordingly, and then packaged it in such a way to make that sound appealing. So, each client pays about what I would have charged for a FS GFE.

Years ago, I used to go for regular massages. I remember being on holiday in a hotel and going for a massage that was 3 or 4 times as much as I would normally pay—I couldn't believe the price. But I was treated so well in lovely surroundings, so that is what I aim for. And I learnt that there are people in this country who expect to pay a lot more for things than the average person, those are the customers I'm aiming for.

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I never considered doing short sessions or cheap sessions as that is too much work. And the cost of cleaning up and laundry would eat into profits, so I'm deliberately expensive.
If I charged less I'd see more men, but I doubt if I'd make more profit.


My mindset is:
* my time is what is worth the money.
* each client takes the same amount of effort so I may as well restrict it to few clients who stay a long time rather than lots of short-term cheapskates that still require the same amount of laundry/clean up and emotional energy from me.

NOTE: I can do a 90-—to 2-hour professional massage. I do know how to do this, and I would warn you all that it can cause real harm if you don't know what you are doing. My  tip do not massage legs with varicose veins.

Be sure you can deal with things, which is just the same for anyone in this work:
I've had incontinent clients - mentioned in other threads.
I've had someone have a stroke in my premises!
I've had numerous people take to me about their suicide attempts and generally pour their hearts out about grief and things that are quite distressing.


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Re: Doing massage only advice
« Reply #9 on: 16 April 2025, 09:57:28 am »
The OP has had major surgery, DBLM.