I have an outcall for tonight that has been booked for a couple of weeks.  Sounds pleasant enough.  54 years old. Wants to go to dinner first. He called yesterday to make final plans and gave me the address of the  pub car park we are to meet in. He asked repeatedly what car I  had.  He then asked about my regular job (I explained to him early on that I could not always talk on the phone during the day).  He asked how I managed to see clients during the day,  how many clients a week I see etc. 

He said I would have to sneak into his house, as he has nosy neighbours.  Fair enough.  But the pub we are eating in is one minute from his house.  He wants me to leave my car at the pub and go in his to his house and the whole world can spot us in there.  Checked his address from AW Booking Form out, no registered electors since 2003.  The one in 2003 had same first name as him but is 70.  They could have started using the private option but that still makes him 70 if its him.  And he says he does motor bike racing or some such . Also he has changed the phone no used on booking form said he had a new one and then today he is asking me to use the first number again for today only.  Also I find it odd that a guy of 54 (70) uses ur instead of your and 2day and u etc like a teenager.  Also been planning this for weeks and has a feedback appear this morning from one of those obviously fake girl profiles.  Why would you plan all this and then suddenly see someone the night before.  He joined this month.

TLDR :  I feel suspicious, I'm not happy about the booking but I have learned to trust my intuition.   Do you think I'm being paranoid ?  It has been known.

Dodgy! It sound like it was a property he once lived at, but not now. And if the neighbours were that nosy, he would be coming to see you methinks..

It sounds dodgy, please dont go.

Nevermind all the detective work on his address (although of course that's essential for any outcall to a private residence!) - I'd have blocked this guy just for writing to me in txtspk, changing his number for no apparent reason and getting fake feedback. I mean, of course, this could all just mean he's a silly kid timewaster. But it could also mean he's planning some kind of horrible murder. Or maybe just hiding in a corner to videotape your confusion for YouTube. Carparks? Pubs? Sneaking around? Normal bookings with sane clients generally all go the same way: they ask for an appointment, you tell them if you can make it, they then follow all *your* instructions on how to meet you. I don't do many outcalls and personally do not visit private residences unless I've met the client at least once already - but incall or outcall, the client follows my directions because I absolutely do not want to be in even the most slightly weird situation with a man I don't know in a place I'm not 100% familiar with. My mum would just kill me.

This job involves a certain amount of self-protection, safety and awareness even on the easy, normal bookings but when it gets to the point that you're honestly wondering how many lies a guy is telling you and how likely it is that you might get hurt on a scale of 1 to 10? I'd say that makes this particular time more of a staying-home-safe-on-the-sofa time than a let's-be-adventurous time!

Excellent post and spot on. 

I always trust my intuition, if everything is pointing to "no", then don't go. Never ignore your WG antennae
if it's waving madly.

he's planning some kind of horrible murder. Or maybe just hiding in a corner to videotape your confusion for YouTube. Carparks? Pubs? Sneaking around? Normal bookings with sane clients generally all go the same way:

Emily, I think you should change your blog to 'Ask Emily' because I had a laugh lol. It sounds like a kid is going to make a video titled: ConfusedProssyLOL.

I dont even like the sound of sneaking around. And like someone said, if he's that nervous, why not come to you or book a motel? It sounds absurd and I wouldn't even allow him anymore time to waste mine.

I agree with this as well. If he was concerned about his nosy neighbors, he wouldn't take you to his neighborhood pub. He would take the time to get a hotel room, or met you at your incall and arranged to travel together to dinner.

It all seems like a ploy to know your real information. Tell him how you feel, and you're not comfortable with the details. Work out an alternative that should go over well with him. The only challenge I can see is if he doesn't have a car. But even that shouldn't be a problem. Choose a hotel that's close enough for you both to walk to, and tell him to meet you. 

Im really really instinctive and always follow my gut feelings and the fact that your questioning it already is your little voice inside saying "no" One thing Ive learnt is to ALWAYS follow the voice that says "this isnt right"

It could also be that old cookie of some punters just like the fact they are talkng/making plans with a working girl, they just ring up and waste your time , prob with one hand and the phone and the other around their mars bar!

Either way, your being told to question it for a reason, go with your gut instinct girl 

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