I don't offer fingering because it's unnecessary, it's not healthy and can hurt me causing me discomfort and days without work. If you leave them at ease, they really think we're plastic dolls. If that means I have fewer customers, I don't care, at the end of the day I'm the one who has to deal with pain or possible infections. In fact, I wouldn't even like to receive oral, but this is something that unfortunately I know is not possible :'(