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mollyalice

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I'm new
« on: 08 April 2009, 04:23:54 am »
Hello, I'm Molly Alice, and I'm 19 years old. I'm interested in becoming an escort, but I'm not totally certain on how to start.
I do have someone who would like to start seeing me as a client, we met over the web, but I have yet to see him in person on account of me being unsure.
I know he is a real person, my only concern is that the only way it seems that we can come in contact is in his car, which is my main concern.
Does it seem safe to anyone else or am I just over reacting?

How do I know if it is legit?

UrbaneAspects

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Re: I'm new
« Reply #1 on: 08 April 2009, 06:01:31 am »
the only way it seems that we can come in contact is in his car, which is my main concern.

I dont blame you. I just couldnt feel completely safe in a car. Its much too close of contact, he could lock the doors or drive you anywhere he wants and possibly leave you there (its happened to me before  :( 

However, I was talking to a friend who met a client in the car and turned out well. Im also guilty of several car encounters well before I started escorting LOL, but thats a different story and all except for 1, only 1...have turned out shoddy.

But if you're an adventure seeker like myself (which isnt recommended) just be aware of the surroundings, get a tag number-which may or may not do any good as it may not even be his car. Often times, car encounters always end up in dark, deserted alleys. If something happens there's a good chance no one will see or hear whats going on. Its a risk Im not willing to take in the big cities.

If not, insist meeting him only at a hotel.

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Re: I'm new
« Reply #2 on: 08 April 2009, 09:06:53 am »
Hi there Molly,
Go to the main pages of this site and read all the information there, please. It's for your own physical and mental safety!
Before you do anything, go read that stuff and don't go meet this guy in his car for goodness sake!
I can see the headline now:
19 year old meets man on internet and is last seen getting into his car.....

There are sites where you can advertise yourself, where punters go to look for escorts.... You don't need to jump into the car of some guy you chatted to on the net!
Please read this site a few times and get yourself a plan going, then come back if you have questions and we will all help you out as best we can!
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anonymoussw

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Re: I'm new
« Reply #3 on: 08 April 2009, 10:05:59 am »
Before you do anything, go read that stuff and don't go meet this guy in his car for goodness sake!

Seconded! Don't meet in a car... recipe for disaster...
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
"if" - Rudyard Kipling

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« Reply #4 on: 08 April 2009, 01:32:40 pm »
I agree with the others. You don't get into a car with someone you don't know, even if they're just picking you up.

As for the rest of it, there are people who'd be interested in finding an "amateur" escort who don't have ulterior motives, but it's quite likely that there is something dodgy about your guy. Even if he's a real person he could still be a fantasist wasting your time, or he could be planning something much worse. Treat him with skepticism and don't allow yourself to get into a situation that you wouldn't consider safe if it was any other strange man.

You don't seem to have any reason to hurry, so take plenty of time to do your research and think it over. This site is a great place to start, and the forums at places like punterlink could also be useful. There's also a guidebook for escorts that's been mentioned here, hopefully someone will be able to provide the title so you can read it if you want.

It's not clear from your post whether you had any interest in being an escort before talking to this man. I once got over-involved with a client who convinced me that I should start my own porn site (with him behind the camera of course). When the sheen wore off that relationship I realised it wasn't something I was interested in at all. You might find out the same thing; that you've just got caught up in someone else's idea.
« Last Edit: 08 April 2009, 05:23:41 pm by Anika Mae »

mollyalice

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Re: I'm new
« Reply #5 on: 08 April 2009, 05:09:21 pm »
well it is something that apeals to me, not only because he brought it up.
Thanks a lot guys
you've been a great help!