Quote from: Fluffy Bunny on 01 December 2012, 08:27:30 pm

Men can separate love and sex whereby women can not we use it as a weapon to get love and then tie the two things together.

Huh. Would you say you love your clients?

As for the question..no, not particularly. I grew up knowing that people cheat and lie in marriages all the time so I never idealized them.

I have learned to separate the two now especially dealing with clients. It's an acquired survival skill in this game to prevent from getting heart involved. Reminding myself the reasons the client is with me for a service and no other reason.

I was at my grandsons sports day in the summer before they broke up and saw one of my clients there with his wife and children.  Didnt bother me in the slightest.  We both knew we had a connection with the school and as we live in the same town there are chances we could bump into each other. 

I dont mistrust men because of the job.  I just dont trust men period.

I never have and never will.  I think the line, how do you know a man is lying ........ cos his lips are moving ........... covers it for me. 

Im not really that bad.  If a guy says something, I believe him, do I trust him?  Hell, Noooooooooooooooo !!

Nothing to do with the job though.

Yup, i'm totally with you on this one!!! x

I do not however trust a single word a client says to me, especially the ones who you know just want to date an escort for free sex on tap.  I just laugh and find them incredibly boring as they all come out with the same old lines

'you're really special to me'

:vomit:

some women beleive everything that is said to them by guys they are delusional when its so obvious to eveyone whats happening , the guy screwing around etc  and then you think glad im an escort and not putting my heart on my sleeve for any man !

I used to be so gullible growing up until now, a man needs to earn my trust before any thing happening. The likely hood of that is slim.

Quote from: orchid on 03 December 2012, 01:13:44 pm

some women believe everything that is said to them by guys they are delusional when its so obvious to everyone whats happening , the guy screwing around etc  and then you think glad im an escort and not putting my heart on my sleeve for any man !

this reminds me of a thread on mumsnet where the woman had found aworks on her husbands bank statement and was trying to find out what it was, had searched it and was told from numerous sources he'd paid to adultwork, the woman made a complete fool of herself when she said 'i looked at that site and no way, DH would never go on a site like that'

are some women living in a fantasy land or something? they honestly believe even with the evidence staring them in the face that their darling OH would never look at or book an escort, many men are cheating bastards and hide it well! Being an escort made me open my eyes to this 

I would have thought that some woman just don't want to think about the whole cheating concept. Now back to distrusting men topic...

One guy told me a year ago all men are wankers, this was when I didn't believe in that. Escorting sure has made me wiser to be careful. But one day I might find Mr Right. Of course it doesn't help my judgment serving mainly cheaters. The faithful good hearted ones stay at home with their wives. A taxi driver was telling me he wouldn't know about flirting because his been married for 10 years. I could tell though that fun thought of flirting did enter his mind. This was after I said ''yes I'm single able to flirt when ever the opportunities there, because we don't always know when this will be.''