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pennypittstop

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Condescending clients!
« on: 28 August 2016, 03:52:02 pm »
Urghh I don't normally get bothered by dickhead comments but one this week really got me.

After the service as he was getting dressed, the client (the same age as me, 22) turned to me and asked in this really patronising tone why am i doing this and told me to get an education, and that I should get another job but this. he then turned to me and  asked what my future kids would think, I replied that I didn't want any then he went on this massive 'all women should be mothers and it's really weird that I don't want to be one etc etc etc'.

Bare in mid, I am at uni, and not an idiot.

This guy was a dominoes delivery driver, and spent his spare time 'getting pissed in the car with his lads and cruising' (not that there's anything wrong with this, each to their own, but don't tell me to get an education and sort my life out if you haven't yourself).

I swear, the cheek of them sometimes!

how do you guys deal with comments like this (cause they're not rare, let's be honest!).

I'm real usually okay with dealing with rudeness etc, but dealing with them being condescending pricks really irks me!

Pxxx


lapetitemort

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Re: Condescending clients!
« Reply #1 on: 28 August 2016, 04:06:40 pm »
Just try and think of it as he is destined to a life of mediocrity whereas you are earning a full time income whilst getting an education. You'll leave uni with a degree, savings and you'll be set financially without even feeling pressured to get a graduate job. He clearly is a sexist moron with no brains. I know it's hard but try to let it go. I love what I do and what I get out of it and nobody can make me feel bad for that.

Mirror

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Re: Condescending clients!
« Reply #2 on: 28 August 2016, 04:59:33 pm »
Some people have no tact.

I'd either not see him again, tell him how condescending he's being, or just veer right away from revealing anything about my personal life.

TrashAzn

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Re: Condescending clients!
« Reply #3 on: 28 August 2016, 05:07:49 pm »
I find it best to not get defensive and just deflect questions that get too personal even if they are rude. If they ask me why I do what I do I say that I earn more money with less hours than my last job and I like meeting people plus with all the spare time I can study more and focus on my course so I can get a degree and do things I really want to do all said with a smile before moving the conversation elsewhere. I think some people just have their on misguided perceptions of what a prostitute is and some think they can save us by changing our morals and starting a real relationship with a pizza boy because surely a "proper" job and a relationship with such a supportive good person will make our lives better  ::)

Jill

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Re: Condescending clients!
« Reply #4 on: 28 August 2016, 06:56:44 pm »
I would not feel inclined in any way to justify why I do this work. A rude man like that would have his service from me and then I would block his number, simple.  If he had put those questions and opinions to me while getting dressed I would have blanked him, just not answered. This would have turned the awkwardness back to him hopefully.

newbieNW

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Re: Condescending clients!
« Reply #5 on: 28 August 2016, 07:07:30 pm »
Translation.

I could fuck you for free if you weren't a hooker.  I hate paying you. 

Plain and simple.  Block him.