Author Topic: Does anyone have a strict Alcohol Policy? (Read 2697 times)

Mirror · « **Reply #15 on:** 17 January 2018, 07:46:39 am »

Quote from: Phoenix on 16 January 2018, 08:34:05 pm

Yes. Every time I have had a nasty experience ( except two memorable afternoons with separate coke heads ) It has been in the late evening with Strong-Ale swigging younger fellas.
More and more, I am finding myself asking callers if they will refrain from alcohol or drugs until I have left.
Too many times, the couple of hours from our call to me arriving at their home has seen them change from decent, polite callers..to absolute Dicks

Mine have been a mix of ages.

One man I refuse to see because he constantly, drinks and smokes and cannot abstain.

mySecret · « **Reply #16 on:** 17 January 2018, 12:03:13 pm »

i do not have a Alcohol policy and i am offering a glass many times, never had a drunk punter!
but only wine/prosecco..light drink! no rum/vodka/gyn heavy drink!
i found classy a glass of a good wine! it is not to get drunk but to enjoy the pleasure of a glass of good wine!
anyway i am working daytime so many they won t be drunk at lunch time!

tinag11 · « **Reply #17 on:** 18 January 2018, 09:13:30 am »

Quote from: Treetop on 15 January 2018, 08:16:02 pm

I have a one drink rule with regulars or bookings over 2 hours. I rarely work past 7pm unless on tour and for incalls I prefer to ask if they have had a drink. When I've worked from home or hotels I turn down anyone who sounds drunk bc I've had issues with drunken indiscretion and embarrassing penis issues.

Outcalls, I don't really mind if they are drinking tbh

Treetop, i like this idea. The idea for each of us to have a drink (one glass of wine or beer) seems harmless and so far i havent had anyone who has turned up drunk. I find it makes both them and me a bit more relaxed. I totally understand everyone's thoughts though.

I met punter for a dinner and drink in a hotel before heading upstairs and it was such fun. I cant imagine having a dinner without a drink if that is what the punter wants to do. I do however feel drinking and working can lead to bad decisions!

I think i will introduce the one drink rule. Thanks for the suggestion.

Guiltypleasure · « **Reply #18 on:** 18 January 2018, 01:47:01 pm »

Well I have on my profile no drink drugs etc but had a v cute coke head the other day who kept ' popping out' he was really nice and basically slung money at me like no tomorrow ( I even turned down a heap when he left) it turned out to be be a good little earner , no sex, just listening to non-sensible chatter .

But if they asked I'd say no ! But he was a cutie and v v funny , foot guy , says if he has a mate with a good looking amazing girl , he doesn't look at her feet as feels it's invasive lol ! Boobs don't do it for him plus he was what I term as 'fuck off' good looking !

Emma_C · « **Reply #19 on:** 14 March 2018, 08:21:47 am »

I went to an out-call last night & the guy was drinking Prosecco. Older guy, who later admitted to having liver cancer $:-\$ he clearly doesn't care about healing. He must have been drinking before I arrived he seemed to quite intoxicated within the first 45 minutes.

It was easy money, we didn't have sex. I wouldn't go back though, he got quite pushy for me to stay longer & for an overnight booking the next time. Which I don't even offer. He was blocking the door when I was leaving which is really passive aggressive BS.

When I arrived he was jabbing his finger pointing at me so I nearly walked out & threatened to a couple of times. He seemed to be defensive toward everything I said. Middle class ex pilot, shy with women type.

It's the behaviour change that worries me with intoxication. Some people can turn psychotic if they've had a skin-full & turn violent. I'm not putting myself at risk of that. It's not worth the anxiety.

Rosesugar · « **Reply #20 on:** 14 March 2018, 09:52:33 am »

I do have a drinks tray with rum and whisky, red wine and Bailey's but clients don't want it .
They tend to have bottled water or coke cans I offer instead.

Seamstress · « **Reply #21 on:** 14 March 2018, 10:24:12 am »

I've had a few outcall clients ask if I'd like them to get a bottle of wine and, if so, what kind. I always politely decline for myself - often I'm driving anyway so wouldn't but more importantly it's because I don't want it to affect my judgement, reactions or professionalism. Normally I tell them to go ahead if they want to for themselves but on the whole though these are older, professional guys where the likelihood of drunkenness is minimal, they just want to enjoy a nice glass of wine as part of their evening.
What I DON'T say is that I would never accept a drink from a semi-stranger in a private environment that I didn't have control over because of the risk of something being slipped into it - I've had that lesson drilled into me from when I started going to school discos ("if you have to leave your juice, never go back to it!") and not being able to look after myself to the best of my ability (whether through self or third party administered intoxication) is pretty much my nightmare scenario. If something ever does go wrong I want to have my wits about me!

Aqua Allegoria · « **Reply #22 on:** 14 March 2018, 11:16:12 am »

I do. For roughly 2 years now.

Rule number one is that if I had a glass of wine I will not work.
This is partly due to the fact that a couple years ago I had late lunch with a glass of wine, followed by a 6pm incall. I fell asleep on the guy. Next i remember is him getting dressed calling me fat and ugly and asking for half the money back. Well, you can't really blame him

Rule number two is that I don't offer any alcohol and don't drink with them. I used to, I had a lot of clients bring wine when I lived in London, I had a whole collection of wine. I also had guys who did not drink but would bring me wine as a present. But it's just that a glass of wine on empty stomach makes me sleepy. That puts me off work for the rest of the day, so moneywise it's not a smart thing to do. Plus there's my security to be considered etc.

I don't get drunk guys as I mostly work office hours. I had a hungover guy last week and it wasn't very pleasant, he did his best to be fresh but still.

My last drinking booking was a cheapskate who brought a bottle of cheap warm ros?. Well I knew him and his real name, so I made him drink the whole of it while pretending to sip on a few drops. Hope he got sick. That was because he called me before the booking asking if I preferred wine or flowers and I did insist on flowers.

Mirror · « **Reply #23 on:** 14 March 2018, 11:48:36 am »

Yesterday I had two enquiries from men under the influence of alcohol, both talked over me, one told me the alcohol helped with the nerves he had about contacting me. The other told the truth then tried to lie about it, telling me he was a nice, gentle drinker - which I presume is why he wanted me to visit him at his mate's house whilst his mate was present.

He'd gotten my number from an advert which contains my policy re alcohol, drugs and more than one person. The other did accept he needed to be sober for further contact.

One was daytime, one was not.

Aqua Allegoria · « **Reply #24 on:** 14 March 2018, 12:49:24 pm »

Oh as to coke, I forgot to add, when I started I saw maybe 4 clients on coke.
Well, I never had coke and never been around people on coke. After those few bookings I was slightly puzzled by the way those clients acted and I spoke to my flatmate. Yup, she told me how to recognise people on coke

Mirror · « **Reply #25 on:** 14 March 2018, 03:09:33 pm »

Quote from: Aqua Allegoria on 14 March 2018, 12:49:24 pm

Oh as to coke, I forgot to add, when I started I saw maybe 4 clients on coke.
Well, I never had coke and never been around people on coke. After those few bookings I was slightly puzzled by the way those clients acted and I spoke to my flatmate. Yup, she told me how to recognise people on coke

I've been around folk who use coke, and also had bookings with men who were under the influence of coke or cannabis. All those who admitted to it were definitely affected by it, only one was absolutely fine he'd only had one mild joint. The others were agitated, or wrecked.

Same with alcohol and hungover from either alcohol or drugs.

I do understand how these bookings can be easier however I just don't like being with someone who looks rough, or who is edgey. I can also see how it would be easy to just get them 'serviced' and out of the way. The last hungover person I saw was like this although was not the one getting him out of the way, I could see he looked ill, rough (from the drink) tired and possibly over the drink drive limit.

Not something I want to be around.

Aqua Allegoria · « **Reply #26 on:** 14 March 2018, 03:26:18 pm »

Quote from: Mirror on 14 March 2018, 03:09:33 pm

I've been around folk who use coke, and also had bookings with men who were under the influence of coke or cannabis. All those who admitted to it were definitely affected by it, only one was absolutely fine he'd only had one mild joint. The others were agitated, or wrecked.

Same with alcohol and hungover from either alcohol or drugs.

I do understand how these bookings can be easier however I just don't like being with someone who looks rough, or who is edgey. I can also see how it would be easy to just get them 'serviced' and out of the way. The last hungover person I saw was like this although was not the one getting him out of the way, I could see he looked ill, rough (from the drink) tired and possibly over the drink drive limit.

Not something I want to be around.

Well my first coked client was a 10am booking. The guy was an editor, he acted edgy as you put it Mirror. So I put it on him being extravagant and just a bit quirky (a lot!). Well, nope, not really.
After those few guys I noticed they were bloody hard work, all over the place and complained to my flatmate, that's how she opened my eyes. Those guys were exhausting!

foxylady · « **Reply #27 on:** 14 March 2018, 07:20:03 pm »

ha ha Aqua,

i've had a couple. One overnight guy (actually he only booked 4 hours, but i'd been kinda dead so saved my bacon) and I got to his apartment and after money out, he got out (from his huge pile) coke, and I admit I did partake as it was a throw-back to my 20's. I spent the whole time talking shite about my clubbing days in London (I assume he was a semi-big time dealer) and he said let's go to bed (even though I was in the 'wide-awake' club) when we woke up, he was desperately trying to make his cock work (even though it's obvious after shit-loads of coke it wouldn't do anything) but I squirted everywhere, so was quite satisfied

okay I was absolutely drug-fucked for the next 48 hours, but it was fun and I really did nothing except take the cash

I am really too old to be doing that, but not sure he got value for money with it all!

Then he drove me back to my hotel.

Ordinarily I wouldn't take a booking like this though, it's not really my thing anymore!

But hey, I never, ever go out so it was unexpected and fun at the time. Fortunately he was a bit of a sweetheart even when I laughed at him for thinking he would ever get a hard-on. On the plus side he had never seen a lady squirt before so was grateful (I think) for me ruining his sheets

tinag11 · « **Reply #28 on:** 21 May 2018, 09:51:48 am »

Just for an update. Since implementing a one drink rule, i have had a couple of instances of Punters turning up a little 'loaded'. One of them i sent away and the other i let in as they seemed sweet and nervous. Turned out it was a bad decision. Once through the door they got a little demanding and i ended up turfing them out after they started to get insistent.

I need to get stricter with my alcohol policy to stop this happening again. Anything could of happened! Seems a little scary!

Thank everyone for your advice.

Guiltypleasure · « **Reply #29 on:** 21 May 2018, 11:15:54 am »

Quote from: tinag11 on 21 May 2018, 09:51:48 am

Just for an update. Since implementing a one drink rule, i have had a couple of instances of Punters turning up a little 'loaded'. One of them i sent away and the other i let in as they seemed sweet and nervous. Turned out it was a bad decision. Once through the door they got a little demanding and i ended up turfing them out after they started to get insistent.

I need to get stricter with my alcohol policy to stop this happening again. Anything could of happened! Seems a little scary!

Thank everyone for your advice.

I may have put earlier in this thread but it's a good idea to have a non alcoholic bottle around red/ rose and slip this into your glass while they are showering or whatever ( my fridge was around corner ) so I'd just pretend I'd pour two glasses and either tip some out or leave in fridge

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