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Pinkpurfume97

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Do you work from your own property?
« on: 14 November 2024, 10:21:08 am »
I’ve just started escorting again after a very long break. I’ve had many clients message me but I’m only able to offer outcalls until I make enough money for an apartment. Would it be considered sloppy of me to meet some clients (not all) at my actual home address? Obviously I don’t have any regulars because I’m new.  If any of you do this, what are some tips to keep safe? I was going to say that it’s my friends flat and I need to give it back. Let me know :)

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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #1 on: 14 November 2024, 12:50:57 pm »
Hey i would never work from the city i live in never mind from home but everyone is different. Regulars dont matter even the ‘nicest’ of clients youve known for years can get nasty out of nowhere. Even if everything goes great you need to weigh up weather you want to invite punters in to your home, they will keep your address and probably post it on a punting sites. I always wonder how ladies switch off when they work from home. i love going home from tour back to my own private space that is just for me. If i were you id do everything i can to not work from home, why do you need apartments there are plenty of hotels around that are a reasonable price ? Xx 
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« Reply #2 on: 14 November 2024, 01:52:16 pm »
What I found is that some will assume the property isn't your home, and many will assume a separate not-your-home is your home.

Often the latter don't understand why you aren't just ready now, but when I worked and lived in the same property I certainly wasn't 'ready' 24/7. I did find having a separate work bedroom helped, had my work clothes and lingerie in there, slept in the spare room, tried to keep personal areas separate.

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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #3 on: 14 November 2024, 03:05:24 pm »
I have always found it very easy to switch off using my bedroom as my work room. No problem at all.

Low volume and did not grow up here so barely anyone knows me.

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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #4 on: 14 November 2024, 04:48:02 pm »
Are they allowed to post the full address on other sites?

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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #5 on: 14 November 2024, 05:19:47 pm »
Are they allowed to post the full address on other sites?
i thought so. I havent been on any of those sites for years but they definitely used to x
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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #6 on: 14 November 2024, 05:26:48 pm »
Back on topic, please.

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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #7 on: 14 November 2024, 05:27:02 pm »
Hiya..I'm currently on a break from escorting, unsure if I'll be returning as old age is creeping up on me. However, when I was working apart from a couple of tours and hotel working I have predominantly worked from home (I'm extremely low volume), there are plus/negative points to this as in my early days I naively gave out my home address to what turned out to ge a couple of address collectors (never again) and this in turn made me feel like I had to watch over my shoulder every time I had to go out.  :FF

You have the issue of nosy neighbours  which can make you paranoid that they suspect something is going on at your home dependant on how many bookings you're intending doing in a day. Lastly you have the horrid/abusive ones who can threaten to 'out you' to your neighbours if you don't play ball with them (happened to me). It's a gamble working from home but the obvious plus point is no travel/hotel costs.

Think wisely is all I would advise.

Good luck and stay safe x

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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #8 on: 15 November 2024, 06:01:40 pm »
I've always worked from home but have always been very low volume. As long as you screen well and are very choosey about who you let in then you should be okay.

I've done this for 9 years, too.

I wish to add I bought this house with the intention to work from it. It's not in an area I would ever just solely want to live in.
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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #9 on: 16 November 2024, 08:44:44 am »
I used to work from my own rented flat in central London for 7 years. This was quite convenient since I didn't have to travel. I made managing bookings easier but there were also challenges like dealing with clients who didn't read my instructions or continuously asking for address. Unfortunately I had one very unsettling experience with a dangerous individual. Having separate place for normal life is nicer - you have your own bed and bathroom and no interruptions from others. It gives you the chance to enjoy your personal time and have a more normal life. When I switched to doing outcalls only it felt much more balanced. I could go to do my job and return to my peaceful space and rest without stress.

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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #10 on: 16 November 2024, 09:43:48 am »
I have worked at home on and off for the last eight years. There are pros and cons, as there are with everything.

Things to think about:
Does the layout of the place enable clients to come directly into the bedroom and bathroom without having to walk through any of your living areas? When I first started I was living in an open plan flat which meant that clients had to come in via the lounge and if they needed to use the bathroom, they had to walk through the lounge and the kitchen to reach it, which was not ideal at all.

I now live in a modern flat and the only thing that they see is the bedroom and the ensuite bathroom. I keep my personal toiletries in the other bathroom so everything in the ensuite is purely for client use.

You also need to think about how clients are going to get to your door, are they going to be visible to any neighbours. I prefer working from flats for this exact reason - there are 16 flats in My Block and most of us are renting. So anyone coming into the block that isn't a known face doesn't raise any suspicion. However I do keep footfall pretty low at home – I would only see three clients a day maximum.

For security, I never tell clients that I live alone, I always subtly mention that I have a flatmate. Some clients will assume that I mean a boyfriend or husband, which is fine by me. You could also leave out some items of men's clothing for example a pair of boots or a jacket. Although some clients are put off by the idea that a man might be present, I would rather not put the idea into their heads that I'm a woman living alone who could be targeted for robbery. I also mention that I have a dog - you can do this by asking "Do you have any allergies? I have a dog but he doesn't go into the work bedroom at all"

I minimise risk by going to the bank daily so there is never a large amount of cash on the premises.

One thing to think about is do you have a presence in your local community? for example if you have children at school are you well known amongst other parents, are you connected to a lot of local people on Facebook, do you go to a lot of social events in your area? When I first started working here, I was quite socially isolated and I didn't know that many people in the local community. However over the last couple of years I have started socializing a lot more, and it's made me realize that I am increasing my risk of being recognized. So as of next year, I will be aiming only to see regulars at home, and doing most of my work on tour.

Also on Facebook my profile picture is not of me it's a picture of my pet, and my cover photo is also not of me. This avoids the problem of a punter recognizing me if I comment on a mutual friends post.

Always keep post out of sight, a couple of punters have clocked my real name as Amazon have left parcels outside my door as a clients been leaving or arriving 🙄

Think about having a landmark where you can direct clients so you can make sure they are there before giving the door number. I've had a couple who have said they've arrived, I've given the door number and then they've disappeared - not a nice feeling to know they now have my address 😕

I have two bedrooms here so I work in one and sleep in the other so it's quite easy for me to switch off when I've finished.

There are a lot of benefits for me, the main one being that if someone contacts me I can be ready more or less immediately. And of course I've got no extra costs. Plus you can claim a certain amount of your bills as a work expense for tax purposes.
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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #11 on: 16 November 2024, 05:09:45 pm »
Never would I work from home, after having had a stalker and two nasty weirdos try and blackmail me. And all three didn't start off nasty but when I started to feel uncomfortable and wouldn't see them, that's when they got nasty. Had a friend who had a client put letters through all the neighbours door alerting them to a prostitute on the street at number X. But not everyone will have this problem with clients.

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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #12 on: 16 November 2024, 05:15:18 pm »
I'm currently having problems with nosy neighbours, but before I lived here, I had always worked from home (10+ years) and never had any problems. I knew that there was always a risk of stalkers and weirdos, so I 've always had CCTV on the front and back of my house. Outcalls are far less stressful in my opinion, but you can't beat being stood up at home and not being stuck at some unknown address trying to find a timewaster... :angel:

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« Reply #13 on: 17 November 2024, 08:01:56 am »
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But going back on topic. If you do work from your own home be careful you only got to get a hinged client. My friend had problems working from her flat years ago and her profile was posted through all her neighbours letter boxes.

Personally I use hotels in meantime like day rooms, hardly no work just outcalls anymore. Or maybe rent a room in a shared working flat with another girl.
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Re: Do you work from your own property?
« Reply #14 on: 19 November 2024, 02:13:47 pm »
i worked from home for years and i guess i was lucky tbh only had a couple of things like knocking late at night which i didn't answer,but i moved somewhere else and would never do it from here again ever