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sugarkane

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Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« on: 06 May 2015, 01:35:47 pm »
I had a guy contact me via AW wanting a half an hour booking. He also asked if I would give him a small discount as he is a student. I replied yes no problem, not something I normally do but it was only a tenner less, and I'm trying to work as much as possible. He replies great, and I ask him to make a booking via the booking system.

Next min he then asks if he can see my face as he has had 2 bad experiences with girls he has booked and not seen their faces before (what that could be I have no idea!!) I reply no,  I don't show my face for obvious reasons and long story short he decides not to go ahead 

Do any of you girls send face photos via text or email before a booking? Was I being a bit harsh saying no? Kinda feel like maybe he was a time waster anyway so no biggy but I would just feel so uncomfortable sending a picture!

BlaqHarlot

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #1 on: 06 May 2015, 01:42:11 pm »
I don't send face pictures to anyone now. If they don't like that they can book someone else.
I used to have face pics in my private gallery until an ex stalker client tried to use them to out me, I get the odd few asking for a face picture and I tell them for discretion purposes I don't send one.
Most are fine with it, it's usually the time wasters and pic collectors that don't like it!

If this client was so hung up on these bad experiences he's had, he wouldn't be asking you for a discount. Sounds to me like he's trying to push the boundaries. He definitely sounds like a time waster!
Pictures can end up anywhere and I for one won't send them or show my face anymore! X

sugarkane

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #2 on: 06 May 2015, 01:50:45 pm »
Phew glad you agree. I did think if you are worried about seeing a girls face, why are you trying to book an escort that doesn't show her face on her pics?! Especially when there are loads that do.

God knows where that picture could end up.

Lucie268

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #3 on: 06 May 2015, 02:21:20 pm »
You were definitely right to refuse. Especially for just a half hour booking with discount!

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #4 on: 06 May 2015, 03:06:14 pm »
Funnily enough a young man contacted me asking for a face pic, and said he wouldn't progress things without seeing one. After ascertaining that he was someone I would see, I sent him the closest thing to a full face pic I send out (I'm laid down, looking up at the camera, so it gives you a very good idea of what I look like). I didn't hear back, but his attitude did rankle me a little.
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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #5 on: 06 May 2015, 03:20:27 pm »
No, never ever ever. I indicate that clearly on my site and whoever asks for it, I have my TW radar set off. Discretion is important and I would never risk it for x amount of money. You never know who could be on the other end!

He should be so grateful you're already giving him a tennear off!  :-X

saturnspirit

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #6 on: 06 May 2015, 03:41:09 pm »
Never ever send face photos if you dont want your identity exposed. Loads of nasty trolls out there! They can easly put your face photo up on a forum and expose you on a dogging site or anywhere really!

I get loads of send me your face photos and I will definately book you! Well how will they definately book me if after they have my face photo they dont fancy me! Complete bulls**t!

Many face photo guys are Tws and some are prossie haters who want to out you.  Be careful

A guy who will only see girls with face photos will only contact the escorts showing thier face. Simple as that.

I sometimes get men saying "I have normally booked girls with face photos but you dont have any. Can you send me a face photo so I know your not fake"

 I reply with read my feedback & field reports. Look at my wesite. I'm a genuine escort. I dont send face photos for privacy reasons.

If they are geuine they will book you. If not then they just timewasting anyway.
« Last Edit: 06 May 2015, 03:44:29 pm by saturnspirit »

sugarkane

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #7 on: 06 May 2015, 04:25:49 pm »
Thanks guys. Glad I did the right thing x

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #8 on: 06 May 2015, 08:36:52 pm »
Sure it's not much to you, but it can't make that much difference to him either if he's got almost enough cash to spend on this.

Boundary pusher.  Next!

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #9 on: 09 May 2015, 06:15:17 pm »
I'm late to the party and I think it's mostly all been said, but just to add that IMHO if you don't want to be outed either now or in the future, never show your face on anything or send identifying photos.  It's up to each girl to decide what's right for her, but you seem to be in the same camp as I am on this.

I've refused to send face photos stacks of times, as the others have said there are alot of prossie haters/photo collectors/TWs out there, and I tend to think they are just timewasters/photo collectors wanting to see what you look like.  I can understand some guys do want to see face pictures before booking, well they can book someone with face photos...simples!

Even if they were genuine and I would have got those bookings, I still don't regret it for a split second.  My privacy is worth a hell of a lot more to me than my hourly rate.

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #10 on: 09 May 2015, 06:59:31 pm »
No. I don't send face photos as it's
just another boundary pusher routine.
That photo may be out of your control
long after you've stopped escorting.

Oh they can flap their lips and ask for all kinds of discounts. lol  :)
for being a student
for being close by
for being good looking
for having a big cock
for being a 'nice' guy
for being old
for being young
for being on benefits
for it not being pay-day
for being a part-time worker
for having their wallet stolen
for cash point bloops
for being an 'easy' client
« Last Edit: 10 May 2015, 07:34:07 pm by cheesypeas »
Random idle thoughs...Can I manage 100 sit ups a day for a year...?

Helen4444

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #11 on: 10 May 2015, 10:06:29 am »
No never!!

ScarletWoman

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #12 on: 10 May 2015, 07:27:30 pm »
Nobody who asked me for face pics (Ive never sent any, just direct them to my website) has ever showed up to a booking. All TWs. Just tell them you cant send pics on your phone.
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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #13 on: 11 May 2015, 11:44:47 am »
You were absolutely right, never send a face picture, even if you do show your face on your profile, who is to say where that photo will end up??

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Re: Do you send face photos to potential clients?
« Reply #14 on: 13 May 2015, 07:32:12 pm »
When I first started out I got lots of requests for a face pic and still do sometimes... My reply is always the same ..Due to purposes of discretion I do not provide face pics.. as I'm sure that you wouldn't want your face plastered all over the internet either... Seems to do the trick xx