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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Sophine88 on 03 April 2025, 01:38:38 pm
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I have to admit I usually don’t give the wankers too much time of day.
Although I have 4000 blocked contacts on WhatsApp and I find it hilarious to go in and find a guy I blocked months ago and prank call him on private number to get a rise out of him when I’m bored and not busy and things are slow. It actually is really hilarious to me and it feel secretly satisfying to one up the rotten cunts. I always do make sure it’s a guy I’ve blocked a long time ago and not a new guy so they won’t remember they wasted my time and I do call private number and fake an accent too. I find it good fun to mess with the pricks. Hahah.
I’ve seen girls also put Timewaster’s details into gay dating sites and just sit back and laugh in the Knowledge a bunch of men are probably harrassing them the same way they harrass women now lol.
Maybe just maybe if more of us fuck around with these assholes they’ll stop doing it and learn their lessons doubt it though wankers don’t tend to change.
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No, because even if it was a worthwhile use of my time, one 99p SIM later and I could be alone in my flat with some psycho. I have hobbies instead :)
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I simply ignore or block. Whether or not we like to admit it we are quite vulnerable in this line of work, and I don't think provoking people is the most sensible course of action. And it's also a massive waste of time/energy.
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Sophine while I can understand your annoyance with these idiots I don't think what you do is wise at all. It's never occurred to me to take revenge on any time waster. I'm just glad I never met them and not likely to after they're blocked. They can try again with a new number and there's nothing to stop them but you finding it hilarious to get them back is a waste of time (which could be spent doing much better things).
I find it enough to just call them f@#@#@ c#@#s to myself.
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Sophine while I can understand your annoyance with these idiots I don't think what you do is wise at all. It's never occurred to me to take revenge on any time waster. I'm just glad I never met them and not likely to after they're blocked. They can try again with a new number and there's nothing to stop them but you finding it hilarious to get them back is a waste of time (which could be spent doing much better things).
I find it enough to just call them f@#@#@ c#@#s to myself.
No, because even if it was a worthwhile use of my time, one 99p SIM later and I could be alone in my flat with some psycho. I have hobbies instead :)
This and this 100%
And as well as those comments I will add that this is the kind of behaviour that's puts us all in danger and gives this industry a bad name, it's why most people think all escorts have mental health issues or are on drugs and feeding a habit, frankly I find it slightly bloody unhinged if I'm honest :FF.
Block and move on it's simple, then if you have too much time on your hands, which it would appear you do, go out for a walk, take up a dance class, read a book or 1000 other options other than this and tell the mates who are doing it or putting guys on guy sites to do the same.
Good god that post ground my gears, OK rant over
Peace and harmony to all
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I guess I feel a bit more safety in this because my circumstances are a bit different. I don’t full time escort anymore and the clients I do take are usually guys who have bought tonnes of content off me over a certain time period and built up a rapport of trust and they usually have to pay a deposit then to meet. So the likely hood of some psycho coming to meet me is very nil unless it’s one of the guys is already sell content and video calls to but those guys I never prank or play jokes with so doubt they’d target me for that reason maybe other reasons though
I could see how this would be dangerous for escort who don’t take deposits and just have to go off their screening and anyone can fake that. If some weirdo was determined to meet you I’m sure they could do so if they were very calculated.
I definitely wouldn’t do these jokes and pranks if I was operating under my old routine though if just booking a hotel and taking clients I’ve screened on the day. Then the likelihood of it happening could be much worse.
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So your idea to punish people who have upset you by wasting your time is to let them waste more of your time? ???
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I absolutely hate them too and wish all ills on them but I have seen how easy it is for them to swap numbers and have another go so best just to ignore them, block and move on, it's likely that with the massive ego these types of guys have that ignoring them and not engaging will piss them off the most.
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No. If that is your idea of fun you need help.
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No I don’t. I put their messages on my WhatsApp story so previous tw or my genuine clients get to see what I get daily. I also sometimes do a day in the life and record percentage of interactions to, no shows, to actually turning up. I find this way I advise the tw to think about their actions and for my genuine clients to see what I put up with x it helps them understand when sometimes I just have to go home or quit for the day. It’s sometimes as little at 7% from interaction to booking. I hope this information gives the timewasters food for thought and my genuine clients have empathy for my job and book in more. Just me though.
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8)Just BLOCK those fools
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No, because even if it was a worthwhile use of my time, one 99p SIM later and I could be alone in my flat with some psycho. I have hobbies instead :)
This
I used to know a lady who went out of her way to annoy TW’s. What a waste of energy.
I have better things to do than give them time I’ll never get back.
Talking of time, I’d rather spend it on updating my branding to target the type of client I want to spend time with.
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I wasn't going to add more here but meant to also say - taking revenge is stooping to their (idiots) level. 🙄
We're better than that 🙂
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I haven't done this although do get pleasure out of declining and ignoring them when they try their luck again.
Best way is not to give them any ammunition
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I get pleasure out of reporting them on the relevant App (not WhatsApp, i don't use that)
Only if it's warranted and only 100% truthful.
If i can forewarn one other Escort to think carefully/be cautious/take a deposit etc that makes me happy feel better about Mr Twatty Mc Twat :)
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I hate the time wasters I have to deal with, block them and move on. Some come back with a different number but I make it clear for an appointment they need to phone.
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I block them I don’t response to fools
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The OP's gone, folks (and not for the first time (https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-answers/why-arent-people-offering-bareback-sex-banned-from-using-sex-worker-websites/) when a thread didn't go the way it was supposed to). Don't waste your energy.
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It's a bit of a silly immature thing to do and one day you might get yourself into a really bad and dangerous situation.
To say your chances of meeting a pyscho are nil is a bit irresponsible and naiive too, no matter how much screening you do.
If someone annoys or irritates me silence is the best way to deal with them and block them. Not just punters but people in general - ex partners, disloyal friends etc.