Author Topic: Do you kiss clients? Is it possible to offer GFE excluding kissing? (Read 10494 times)

mature helen · « **Reply #30 on:** 01 June 2016, 07:49:36 am »

I had a new punter yesterday who didn't want kissing and he wanted his oral covered. He told me he was married and I was his 3rd escort and boy it showed, I didn't enjoy it at all, I found it very strange and impersonal having sex without kissing and it did nothing for me, he just wanted to bang away at me for 25 minutes, ok for him I guess but for me it was the most boring booking I've done in a long time. No passion and no eroticism.
When my punters are leaving I usually give them a hug and a kiss on the cheek to say goodbye but when I went to do this to him he swerved his head to the side to avoid my kiss it and TBH I felt highly insulted I felt as if he must see me as a walking disease ridden whore so I listed him on my phone as an "arsehole" don't do again. There some clients I wouldn't kiss for hygiene reasons but in general kissing is like adding salt and pepper to your food it gives it a little spice.

newbieNW · « **Reply #31 on:** 01 June 2016, 10:26:03 am »

Quote from: mature helen on 01 June 2016, 07:49:36 am

When my punters are leaving I usually give them a hug and a kiss on the cheek to say goodbye but when I went to do this to him he swerved his head to the side to avoid my kiss it and TBH I felt highly insulted I felt as if he must see me as a walking disease ridden whore so I listed him on my phone as an "arsehole" don't do again.

Some punters are like that. Sadly, feedbacks on AW won't tell you. There was another thread on this "post-coital bad behaviour". To be honest, I hate "married men" like that. His remorse or "Guilt" showing. I have nothing against married men using escorts if they are nice and I welcome them openly. But geeze, swerving his head to avoid a simple kiss. That's completely messed up

Jill · « **Reply #32 on:** 01 June 2016, 10:44:51 am »

Quote from: newbieNW on 01 June 2016, 10:26:03 am

Quote from: mature helen on 01 June 2016, 07:49:36 am

When my punters are leaving I usually give them a hug and a kiss on the cheek to say goodbye but when I went to do this to him he swerved his head to the side to avoid my kiss it and TBH I felt highly insulted I felt as if he must see me as a walking disease ridden whore so I listed him on my phone as an "arsehole" don't do again.

Some punters are like that. Sadly, feedbacks on AW won't tell you. There was another thread on this "post-coital bad behaviour". To be honest, I hate "married men" like that. His remorse or "Guilt" showing. I have nothing against married men using escorts if they are nice and I welcome them openly. But geeze, swerving his head to avoid a simple kiss. That's completely messed up

This is what I posted about recently and I just find it rude, more so when they have been snogging us rotten a few minutes earlier! Turning their heads and not giving eye contact when they leave I can sort of understand but hell we can act when we need to, why can't they? if only for two seconds.
It just makes a big difference to me but obviously not to all others.

trashbaby · « **Reply #33 on:** 01 June 2016, 11:03:40 am »

I hate that too. I had a guy not long ago who requested covered oral - which by the way is fine with me, I appreciate it when clients are extra careful about their sexual health - but he also didn't want to kiss, and made it really clear that he was disgusted by the fact that I had slept with other men that day to the point he would barely let me touch him. I felt like a piece of meat.

I've also had clients who choose covered oral and no kissing but they do it in a way that is quite obviously nothing to do with the 'dirty prossie' and just a preference of theirs (and usually Dom clients tbh), and that is always fine with me, and it's never felt clinical. I find it's all to do with intent.

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #34 on:** 02 June 2016, 06:51:31 pm »

I find this really interesting because I am not really a fan of kissing at all even in relationships. Peck on the lips is fine but open mouth is just yuk to me.

It's reassuring to know there are some clients who won't mind my taking DFK off the table.

ladyinred · « **Reply #35 on:** 02 June 2016, 10:15:59 pm »

I understand some of you might want to trick clients into "passion" however I prefer to practise safe sex.

Kay · « **Reply #36 on:** 02 June 2016, 11:13:47 pm »

Quote from: ladyinred on 02 June 2016, 10:15:59 pm

I understand some of you might want to trick clients into "passion" however I prefer to practise safe sex.

I don't understand what you're saying?

katrina · « **Reply #37 on:** 02 June 2016, 11:29:33 pm »

Quote from: ladyinred on 02 June 2016, 10:15:59 pm

I understand some of you might want to trick clients into "passion" however I prefer to practise safe sex.

There's no such thing as safe sex, only 'safer sex' or abstaining altogether

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #38 on:** 03 June 2016, 12:09:17 am »

Quote from: ladyinred on 02 June 2016, 10:15:59 pm

I understand some of you might want to trick clients into "passion" however I prefer to practise safe sex.

I wasn't aware that kissing is particularly unsafe?Not sure what you mean about tricking a client into passion.Do I offer clients a passionate gfe in exchange for money?Yes and I do that to the best of my ability personally and for me that includes passionate kissing and cuddling,that's what they want,that's what I offer and that's what they get.There is no trick to it.None of us on here do sex work because we are nymphos or fancy every guy that goes without saying but nobody is tricking clients as far as I know.And yes deep down these clients know it's not for real but they pay to suspend disbelief for an hour in the same way that people like to escape into a video game or film for a couple of hours.Nothing stupid about abit of escapism with another human be it paid or unpaid.
Technically anything sexual can be classed as risky but I would say kissing is on the lower end of the risk spectrum personally.
If you don't want to offer kissing then that's fine but some of us are happy to and it's not about tricking anyone it's about offering the type of service we feel happy about and are good at I guess.

trashbaby · « **Reply #39 on:** 03 June 2016, 12:16:14 am »

Quote from: ladyinred on 02 June 2016, 10:15:59 pm

I understand some of you might want to trick clients into "passion" however I prefer to practise safe sex.

I didn't think kissing was particularly risky on the spectrum of safer sex? As katrina says, there's no such thing as sex that is 100% safe. we all have to weigh up the risks and benefits for ourselves.

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #40 on:** 03 June 2016, 12:34:07 am »

A client recently didn't want me to kiss him as always ask before we begin. Okay but when he said not to touch him was fine at the time but after reading this is making me swing. The typical sterotype stigma is to blame. I only dfk once never again. It was more personal if anything. If they have good oral hygiene kissing of French kiss is fine.

Stinky breathers makes me think about how an earth they let themselves get in that mess. Brush your teeth is simple. It's a build up of bacteria through poor oral hygiene.
No thank you not in my mouth from theirs.

Riverprice · « **Reply #41 on:** 03 June 2016, 08:47:42 am »

Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 03 June 2016, 12:09:17 am

Quote from: ladyinred on 02 June 2016, 10:15:59 pm
I understand some of you might want to trick clients into "passion" however I prefer to practise safe sex.
I wasn't aware that kissing is particularly unsafe?Not sure what you mean about tricking a client into passion.Do I offer clients a passionate gfe in exchange for money?Yes and I do that to the best of my ability personally and for me that includes passionate kissing and cuddling,that's what they want,that's what I offer and that's what they get.There is no trick to it.None of us on here do sex work because we are nymphos or fancy every guy that goes without saying but nobody is tricking clients as far as I know.And yes deep down these clients know it's not for real but they pay to suspend disbelief for an hour in the same way that people like to escape into a video game or film for a couple of hours.Nothing stupid about abit of escapism with another human be it paid or unpaid.
Technically anything sexual can be classed as risky but I would say kissing is on the lower end of the risk spectrum personally.
If you don't want to offer kissing then that's fine but some of us are happy to and it's not about tricking anyone it's about offering the type of service we feel happy about and are good at I guess.

This is pretty bang on!

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mature helen

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trashbaby

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VoluptuousCurves

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Kay

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