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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #30 on: 14 March 2015, 08:55:50 am »
I bluntly ask them if they will make a booking without bb offered. If they get funny or ask again I block them, sometimes I think guys are trying their luck and another time they responded with I was just testing you, and made a booking.

(I don't do owo if they've asked for bb either.)
I don't buy all this just testing you shit, they get told to sod off anyway, I don't do playing silly games and decline the booking the minute they mention bb regardless of what they say the reasons are.

+1 please f*** off. Block immediately. I once had one do that once he already paid and took his trousers off. Refund and out.

Siorse

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #31 on: 15 March 2015, 08:52:27 pm »
I had one today wanting to book and asked for BB. I was pretty shirty with him, told him no, and goodbye.
Then he said, after the usual "I'm clean, I can prove it blah blah" and I still said NO.WAY.!!, what about just sex
then (protected) and OWO, you do OWO don't you?
Yes I do, but the thought of doing OWO with somebody who might be doing BB with other girls does not appeal
to me!
What do I do? Use my discretion and use his BB request as the reason? Even if he can "prove he's clean"?
Knock him back for a booking? For what reason?
Don't really know what do to here.. Apart from hope he doesn't get back to me!  :-\
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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #32 on: 15 March 2015, 08:55:21 pm »
What do I do? Use my discretion and use his BB request as the reason? Even if he can "prove he's clean"?
Knock him back for a booking? For what reason?
Don't really know what do to here.. Apart from hope he doesn't get back to me!  :-\

Why do you need a reason? He's ignored your ad and pestered you for services you don't offer, and you don't want to see him - what more reason than that is necessary? And the last of those three things is the only one that really matters anyway.

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #33 on: 15 March 2015, 09:02:17 pm »
Yeah very true Amy.. Sometimes I seem to think I have to have a valid reason to knock someone back, which in
this case (as you just pointed out!), I have..
I just didn't think it was a good enough one, but there actually isn't a better one as it states in big, bold letters in
the main bit of my profile (My FAQ's) DON'T DO BAREBACK. EVER.
Thanks for clearing that up for myself lol  ;)
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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #34 on: 15 March 2015, 09:23:19 pm »
I don't believe the 'I was testing you' either. I had someone last year who in the middle of sex asked if I would consider bb with him. I said no, he said are you sure, I said yes am sure!! When it finished he said I was right to refuse, he just wanted to make sure. I said it didn't sound like that, I think you asked in the heat of the moment hoping I'd agree. He didn't say anything back. I think they get embarrassed when we refuse so they make out they're just testing!!  >:(

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #35 on: 15 March 2015, 10:49:01 pm »
I don't believe the 'I was testing you' either. I had someone last year who in the middle of sex asked if I would consider bb with him. I said no, he said are you sure, I said yes am sure!! When it finished he said I was right to refuse, he just wanted to make sure. I said it didn't sound like that, I think you asked in the heat of the moment hoping I'd agree. He didn't say anything back. I think they get embarrassed when we refuse so they make out they're just testing!!  >:(

+1

They come out with all kinds of things when they are in the middle of it. I don't believe they are ever 'just testing' either.

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #36 on: 16 March 2015, 05:34:54 pm »
I repeatedly get messages from johns telling me and I quote "Iv had a vasectomy and that means I can have sex with you without a condom" and "I'm clean, so I don't need to wear a condom".

I don't block them, I just send a very sarcastic reply to them and I don't ever hear back from the johns.

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #37 on: 16 March 2015, 10:31:27 pm »
I repeatedly get messages from johns telling me and I quote "Iv had a vasectomy and that means I can have sex with you without a condom" and "I'm clean, so I don't need to wear a condom".

I don't block them, I just send a very sarcastic reply to them and I don't ever hear back from the johns.

Heyhey
Wow!I never knew having a vasectomy means you are sti free...total idiots some of them.

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #38 on: 17 March 2015, 10:20:51 am »
As they say: No comment!
Its amazing how much money some men will pay for certain extra's.

But, check this AW email I had recently. I won't respond just because he sounds like a right plonker/timewaster - and 0 ratings, profile created just 2 months ago.
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Hey,

Well you look fun ;) I have just joined and am also a bit fun.

Hot, naughty gent here for some fun away from the wife! : ) In great shape, good body and all that jazz!!!

Up for fun and naughtiness, nothing weird!

Looking for a naughty Lady for an overnight or a few hrs in London... :) The price would be 1000 (for a few hrs, more if an overnight), but it would need to be unprotected so you would need to provide proof you are clean as I am. You must be clean and tested as I have a lady? Im doing this as I want one last blast before I get married!! Be my last?

Few drinks and a lot of fun?

Some pics on my profile...Check me out, I am pretty tasty.

Only reply if you are naughty and fun :)

If you saw me in a bar you would?

x

ps.I would consider an ongoing Sugarbaby arrangement if we hit it off. A few meets a month for the same deal. I have had sugar babies before.

See, I get so bloomin' annoyed that they can't even insert my name into the copy and paste Spam, that I don't get as far as reading the content before I block. It's just lazy and rude.  >:(

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #39 on: 17 March 2015, 10:37:53 am »
Wow!I never knew having a vasectomy means you are sti free...total idiots some of them.
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Lol, it totally amazes me with what they write.
Majority are just Obtuse!

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #40 on: 17 March 2015, 11:10:48 am »
I think it is risky taking on clients who have stated they want BB or have it on their profile, like on another thread if they love BB how do you know they wont take off their condom e.t.c

Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #41 on: 18 March 2015, 10:06:46 pm »
As they say: No comment!
Its amazing how much money some men will pay for certain extra's.

But, check this AW email I had recently. I won't respond just because he sounds like a right plonker/timewaster - and 0 ratings, profile created just 2 months ago.
Quote
Hey,

Well you look fun ;) I have just joined and am also a bit fun.

Hot, naughty gent here for some fun away from the wife! : ) In great shape, good body and all that jazz!!!

Up for fun and naughtiness, nothing weird!

Looking for a naughty Lady for an overnight or a few hrs in London... :) The price would be 1000 (for a few hrs, more if an overnight), but it would need to be unprotected so you would need to provide proof you are clean as I am. You must be clean and tested as I have a lady? Im doing this as I want one last blast before I get married!! Be my last?

Few drinks and a lot of fun?

Some pics on my profile...Check me out, I am pretty tasty.

Only reply if you are naughty and fun :)

If you saw me in a bar you would?

x

ps.I would consider an ongoing Sugarbaby arrangement if we hit it off. A few meets a month for the same deal. I have had sugar babies before.

See, I get so bloomin' annoyed that they can't even insert my name into the copy and paste Spam, that I don't get as far as reading the content before I block. It's just lazy and rude.  >:(

Oh I had this one as well!
And did you have the one from that "spur" guy or something?
The thing is that the f*** "block" button doesn't always work.
So he emails me again today and I just emailed back with his own copy/paste. Only date and place were different.
Blocked again hoping it works this time!!!

cheesypeas

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #42 on: 22 March 2015, 11:32:47 pm »
I immediately super-block them from
emailing, booking form, sex-chat etc.
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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #43 on: 23 March 2015, 01:25:45 am »
I block them too. I once blocked a guy who had bareback listed on his likes list. He asked to book and I told him no because of that. He said it was a mistake but I still blocked him.

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #44 on: 23 March 2015, 03:27:30 pm »
I repeatedly get messages from johns telling me and I quote "Iv had a vasectomy and that means I can have sex with you without a condom" and "I'm clean, so I don't need to wear a condom".

I don't block them, I just send a very sarcastic reply to them and I don't ever hear back from the johns.

Heyhey
Wow!I never knew having a vasectomy means you are sti free...total idiots some of them.

I think there are some men out there who think, as long as they can't get you pregnant, it's ok. Sadly, some don't seem to think about the risk of catching a whole host of nasty STI's! As for the 'I'm clean', how do they know they are? When did they last get tested? Lol!  ::)