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cassiea

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Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« on: 10 March 2015, 07:55:03 am »
I clearly state on my AW profile that under no circumstances will I do unprotected penetration, never, not ever, no way.

Yet I still get asked repeatedly whether I will, I had one guy this week tell me how clean he is, his wife was a virgin when they married so there is no way he can have anything.

I immediately said no way and he then began to question me as to why, was it the fear of disease, etc. URGH  :FF

I haven't yet blocked him although I have cancelled a meeting we had set up. 

Would you block someone like this?


Nia Hope

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #1 on: 10 March 2015, 07:59:52 am »
Yes I immediately block, I don't respond at all, if they have asked you for bareback it's probable that he has bare backed other girls so I wouldn't risk having them near me even with a condom x
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cassiea

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #2 on: 10 March 2015, 09:19:59 am »
Thanks that was my thoughts too. x

Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #3 on: 10 March 2015, 09:35:21 am »
When guys have asked about BB I haven't even answered their question.  I simpy hang up on them and block mark on phone.
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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #4 on: 10 March 2015, 10:31:59 am »
Me too - I don't even respond and it's an automatic block

BibiofLeeds

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #5 on: 10 March 2015, 10:42:44 am »
They are boundary pushing pure and simple why would you even engage in a conversation with such a prat?Yep it's a block from me too.

Fabulassie

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #6 on: 10 March 2015, 10:55:21 am »
I don't bother replying because I don't get paid to do so. I just ignore them.

Edited to add: I think a lot of bareback seekers specifically look for girls who do not advertise it, figuring we're safer and also assuming that we do it secretly.

Miss K xXx

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #7 on: 10 March 2015, 02:40:22 pm »
I don't bother replying because I don't get paid to do so. I just ignore them.

Edited to add: I think a lot of bareback seekers specifically look for girls who do not advertise it, figuring we're safer and also assuming that we do it secretly.

Yeah I see loads of reverse bookings for BB but they say that they will not consider a girl who advertises BB.

Hasn't it occurred to them that the girls who don't advertise BB but do it in secret are secretly doing it with every other secret BB request or BB reverse booking.......which is ALOT!

Silly sausages!

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #8 on: 10 March 2015, 03:14:17 pm »
I don't understand why you even engage into conversation with him? For me by text/email it's block, no reply. If the question is asked on the phone I just say "sorry I'm going to hang up now" and I hang up and block.

When you open/maintain the dialogue you simply nourish their hope. You may think you'll educate them/change their minds and make them stop asking for bb. No. Even if they don't succeed to convince you the very fact they managed to engage you into conversation/dialogue will make them think they'll be more successful/convincing  with the next escort they'll contact. Intil they finally come accross the one they will manage to convince.

meetingdiversity

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #9 on: 10 March 2015, 04:27:53 pm »
I instantly block as they must have done with other bb escorts. Who do with many other clients goodness knows what could be wrong concerning to sti's. All that mixture of pass the parcel type thing. But it is a risky game untill HIV then kiss escorting goodbye. So an instant ban is worth it compared to a risk of catching sti's for me. There are many horny men in society there is no need to keep the bare backers in case of loosing business.

cassiea

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #10 on: 10 March 2015, 07:05:17 pm »
 Thanks all now blocked phone and AW . And a lesson learned for the future.  I am busy enough without him which I am very happy about. x

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #11 on: 10 March 2015, 07:06:20 pm »
I block at once.

meetingdiversity

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #12 on: 10 March 2015, 09:35:50 pm »
Those ask for bb via text well imediatly add to the spam list as well as reject list. Some times if have a few minutes will give them the scary low down of them being irresponsible.

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #13 on: 10 March 2015, 10:39:36 pm »
I immediately block and never reply..

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Re: Do you immediately block clients asking for bareback?
« Reply #14 on: 11 March 2015, 07:18:15 am »
I always block, sometimes I email them first to say I am going to do that too.