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Phoenix

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #15 on: 08 September 2019, 04:50:12 pm »
I’m 35! So I think OMG I’m old enough to be their mother.  :FF

At 50, if I took the same stance I would be refusing about 40% of my clients  :-\

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #16 on: 08 September 2019, 05:10:55 pm »
Yep, I'm 52 and like younger clients. No more iffy being the same age as your son than your dad IMO.
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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #17 on: 08 September 2019, 05:47:59 pm »
No I don't see why either of them are a problem.

That's like saying... I can't shag clients my own age, it would be like shagging my brother! It wouldn't though would it.

I am 24 and generally prefer not seeing clients under at least 25. However, I have seen quite a few younger than that; my rule is, that if they are mature enough to speak to me properly on the phone and follow my booking procedure, without making me suspicious of their youth, why shouldn't I fuck them? Provided they look undoubtedly old enough when they turn up at my door.
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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #18 on: 08 September 2019, 05:57:56 pm »
I’m SO bad at telling peoples age by look alone.
And at 17 there is so much room for error. It’s so close to being underage.

Short of asking for ID before or on arrival, I’d have only their word to go on and it’d make me feel super anxious for a while after (if I went ahead) so much so that it wouldn’t be worthwhile for me.

I had someone a few weeks back contact asking for a massage session, but I declined bc he said he was 17, and I instantly felt unsure about the whole thing.
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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #19 on: 08 September 2019, 06:08:57 pm »
As Ian said, do those comparing punters with younger relatives never see any punters who would be your fathers' age or older? I'd be fairly stumped if I didn't, although the majority of mine are (very) broadly the same sort of age as me :).

Well A) my Dad's dead & B) he was 90. I've put a cap on the age limit to about 70 but that's just me. Any older than that & they're just too infirm & it's too damn much work on my end.
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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #20 on: 08 September 2019, 11:44:44 pm »
Well I don't think anyone was suggesting that people shag their family members, but most of us can tell the difference between their close relatives and random folk, even with eyesight as terrible as mine is :).

I only turn down punters who I think might cause me problems of some sort, whether it's because they sound rude and obnoxious (and possibly likely to be disrespectful or even start a confrontation) or as thick as a plank and unlikely to follow directions/have read my ad (so more likely to be indiscreet or push for services not on offer) - that's really about it.

When it comes to random characteristics that have no bearing on behaviour and whilst I definitely like some of my customers better than others for all sorts of reasons, as far as I'm concerned I'm turning down good money and I suppose I find it hard to understand why anybody would do that.

LotusFlower

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #21 on: 08 September 2019, 11:45:37 pm »
I don't see anyone younger than 25, except from a few who show maturity on booking and in confirmation call.

I used to see anyone older than 18 but a few very uncomfortable meetings made me change my policy. I definitely wouldn't meet TWO 17 year olds, that just soumds like chaos to me.

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #22 on: 09 September 2019, 12:06:07 am »
If I turned down all the men who are in their early twenties I would be losing out to a lot of money and some good bookings.  I have never had a problem at all with seeing men young enough to be a nephew and I have 4 of those in ages ranging 19 to 30. 

If young guys want to book me I am more than happy to see them.

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #23 on: 09 September 2019, 10:56:03 am »
I see no guys under 25. TBH though most my clients 35-75, rarely have enquiries from under 30s.

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« Reply #24 on: 10 September 2019, 12:28:35 am »
I see no guys under 27 because they have too much stamina  :FF but I’m seriously thinking of upping it to age 30, also I think that young guys are less likely to be discreet, well this is my experience anyway, it won’t be everyone’s though.

I have no upper age limit but I once had a very elderly guy have a mini stroke whilst he was on top of me and he did the #2 toilet on me, :o it was horrible but I really felt terrible for him as it was clearly worse for him and he was distraught, I insist, rightly or wrongly, that elderly clients must be in good health and this is because I don’t want a repeat experience or worse, someone dying on me although I can’t have this written on my profile! :)
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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #25 on: 10 September 2019, 09:22:21 am »
As Ian said, do those comparing punters with younger relatives never see any punters who would be your fathers' age or older? I'd be fairly stumped if I didn't, although the majority of mine are (very) broadly the same sort of age as me :).

I think its everyone to their own. I just do not feel comfortable seeing young men but it is my choice and I am not saying that others should do the same

I am in my late 50's and the oldest man I see is in his 70's but looks younger, my father was 87 when he died so no I don't see any men who are his age and I doubt there are many men still punting when they are close to 90

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #26 on: 10 September 2019, 11:02:59 am »
I’ve considered putting a 25 or 30 plus only on my advertising recently because since I’ve been back most of the younger guys I’ve seen, if not all with I think one notable exception, I’ve not liked, I’ve found the early 20s guys I’ve seen to be very bossy and entitled  and expect a lot for their money and usually they go for the shortest appointment available. I always feel a bit undermined afterwards.  I don’t like to generalise and have always been open about who I’ll see but with that age I’ve had it so consistently now I might break the habit of a lifetime, and put in a restriction.

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #27 on: 10 September 2019, 11:46:41 am »
 I find anyone under 25 is obsessed with if  you squirt or not or if your ass gapes lol

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #28 on: 10 September 2019, 12:10:47 pm »
In my experience younger men can be the same as any other i.e. problematic and annoying. Older clients I have met have been blocked by me for their attitudes, as have 20 something men.

A recent under 25 I met was ok for the booking but on getting dressed he asked could he ask me a question (yes I know  ::) ) which was "if you saw me in town with my mates would you be discreet?"

My answer was to say of course I would ignore him but I then pointed out that I have concerns of my own on this one, a young client out with friends and seeing me could make comments to them "she's a pro and I had her last week" or some other immature quip. I assume most men do not tell their friends they punt but I know some do.

This is what bugs me occasionally, they think we may be indiscreet but never consider the reverse and if I could be embarrassed in public. It has never happened so far!

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #29 on: 10 September 2019, 12:56:28 pm »
In my experience younger men can be the same as any other i.e. problematic and annoying. Older clients I have met have been blocked by me for their attitudes, as have 20 something men.

A recent under 25 I met was ok for the booking but on getting dressed he asked could he ask me a question (yes I know  ::) ) which was "if you saw me in town with my mates would you be discreet?"

My answer was to say of course I would ignore him but I then pointed out that I have concerns of my own on this one, a young client out with friends and seeing me could make comments to them "she's a pro and I had her last week" or some other immature quip. I assume most men do not tell their friends they punt but I know some do.

This is what bugs me occasionally, they think we may be indiscreet but never consider the reverse and if I could be embarrassed in public. It has never happened so far!

It's always been older men in their 50s, 60s and 70s who've been indiscrete in public, often even localish and bothered about their own discretion.

Some have shouted my name in public, others became stalkery, a few shouting 'Thank you Mirror for a lovely time' on leaving or entering.

Back to topic I do not discriminate on age, only ability to make a booking in a straightforward manner.