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Saucysarah2019

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Do you have a lower age limit?
« on: 08 September 2019, 09:55:34 am »
I’ve been contacted about an overnight hotel booking but the 2 lads are only 17  :-[

First of all, I’m not even sure if it’s legal! But secondly, I have some concerns about lads at the younger end of the spectrum, in terms of their maturity.

What have other people’s experiences been?

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #1 on: 08 September 2019, 10:07:16 am »
Well, first I'd be wondering how the hell they could afford it? I think it sounds like a fantasy to me.

However, I think legally they need to be 16 plus, but don't they need to be 18 to book a hotel?

Personally I'm not convinced this is a genuine enquiry, visualising them wanking over the fact they emailed an escort...

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« Reply #2 on: 08 September 2019, 10:09:59 am »
It's legal - the age of consent for buying sex is exactly the same. (If you were 17, it would be illegal to pay to have sex with you.)

The rest is up to you, but you don't sound comfortable with the idea.
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Saucysarah2019

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« Reply #3 on: 08 September 2019, 10:12:32 am »
Well, first I'd be wondering how the hell they could afford it? I think it sounds like a fantasy to me.

However, I think legally they need to be 16 plus, but don't they need to be 18 to book a hotel?

Personally I'm not convinced this is a genuine enquiry, visualising them wanking over the fact they emailed an escort...

You can book and stay in a hotel from the age of 16 without an adult, under 16’s need to be accompanied by an adult.

They’ve actually said they’re prepared to pay half as a deposit so I know they’re serious.

I just wonder how mature 2 17 year old lads are for this sort of thing.

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« Reply #4 on: 08 September 2019, 10:18:06 am »
I'd get that deposit then soon as!  :)

The question of maturity, I guess that depends on how old you are and the age difference. I'm in my 40's so it would be too weird for me!

17 is VERY young though.

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« Reply #5 on: 08 September 2019, 10:19:14 am »
I'd get that deposit then soon as!  :)

The question of maturity, I guess that depends on how old you are and the age difference. I'm in my 40's so it would be too weird for me!

17 is VERY young though.

I’m 35! So I think OMG I’m old enough to be their mother.  :FF

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« Reply #6 on: 08 September 2019, 10:27:25 am »
You can book and stay in a hotel from the age of 16 without an adult, under 16’s need to be accompanied by an adult.

They’ve actually said they’re prepared to pay half as a deposit so I know they’re serious.

I just wonder how mature 2 17 year old lads are for this sort of thing.

If they are prepared to pay a deposit of course they are serious lol!

25 is my lower limit, 17! no way would not feel right with me at all

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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #7 on: 08 September 2019, 10:28:19 am »
This all really does sound like some kind of fantasy or joke to me but if I am proved wrong then  :o

I know I would not respond to a message/email  from anyone claiming to be 17 let alone 2 of them!

If I was called and asked for a booking I would say no. I don't state a lower age limit and had a booking from a 21 year old the other day. He could have been fibbing but on meeting him he did look around that age. ( I am in my fifties)




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« Reply #8 on: 08 September 2019, 10:37:48 am »
I’m 35! So I think OMG I’m old enough to be their mother.  :FF

I would be surprised if you didn't have clients old enough to be your father...

Do you know what they're expecting? Eight hours of being spit-roasted is different to two people wanting to lose their virginity before going to university is different to...
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Re: Do you have a lower age limit?
« Reply #9 on: 08 September 2019, 11:34:02 am »
Mine is 18, but no way would I see two together without a friend/other escort I knew present.
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« Reply #10 on: 08 September 2019, 12:55:01 pm »
I have a son in his 20's and I don't see anyone under 30 as it just feels weird to be having sex with someone my sons age

It is everyone to their own though

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« Reply #11 on: 08 September 2019, 01:01:09 pm »
It's unusual for sure. If it's via email who knows? we get fantasy emails dumped on us. I'd just speak to both to check if it's real, and you'll know in seconds. If not your cuppa then decline. I've specilised in seeing mutiple clients and stags on my own so it doesn't worry me but not everyone's comfy with that. I'm happy with legal age clients. I've seen two 18 year olds- one regular at his uni digs on campus a few times, (big daytime and no one blinked lol), and one at mine. I was hesitant but vetted them hard for maturity and they were more adult than me. ??? Obviously future prime ministers!
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Saucysarah2019

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« Reply #12 on: 08 September 2019, 01:54:46 pm »
They haven’t been back in touch so I guess it all was fantasy! I had told them they had to ring me this morning.

Thank you for the advice. Still new to this so if I get a little unsure about something it’s great to know this forum is here and you’re all so helpful  ;D

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« Reply #13 on: 08 September 2019, 03:31:56 pm »
I have a son in his 20's and I don't see anyone under 30 as it just feels weird to be having sex with someone my sons age

It is everyone to their own though

My nephews are 24 & 26, so that's my cut off age. Ugh. Too close to home, literally.
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« Reply #14 on: 08 September 2019, 04:09:59 pm »
I have a son in his 20's and I don't see anyone under 30 as it just feels weird to be having sex with someone my sons age
My nephews are 24 & 26, so that's my cut off age. Ugh. Too close to home, literally.

As Ian said, do those comparing punters with younger relatives never see any punters who would be your fathers' age or older? I'd be fairly stumped if I didn't, although the majority of mine are (very) broadly the same sort of age as me :).