That's a good point, I hadn't thought of this. I'm wanting to start working but still trying to figure out what might work best for me. So many variables and pros and cons and what ifs!!

Maybe only allow a select few clients to your home, to avoid the word getting out? But it's still just a lucky dip whether they're going to tell people or not, no matter how much you think you trust them

There sure are EllieSpicy! At least there is great advice on here though!

Do you think that would be enough though GucciGang? Especially with the neighbours who work from home etc and nosy,  gossipy judges. Some are like hawks and what the do miss they rewind on their doorbell cameras!   

Bu y a wig off Etsy.

Lol I wonder if I could get a wig over my bushy hair!

I suppose it’s more the neighbours that would notice “gentlemen visitors” and may gossip around the area, which a wig won’t really help with. But it would in the advertising, as you could say it’s not you. If it was just me to think about I don’t think I’d give a shit what people think, but if neighbours could cause problems for you then that’s a whole other issue.

Is it possible to advertise a different location that is not your exact location to prevent locals who know you booking? If so how far could you get away with?

I have my face on my profile because I'm covered in some pretty big recognisable tattoos. Obviously you don't always know who's coming to the door but I tend to turn down people who drink in my favourite two pubs as I don't want to get barred for soliciting, and I've had a couple emails from guys who say they've seen me walking my dog that I've refused, just feels too close to home. But with my tattoos I don't think it would take too long for people to figure it out anyway. Plus I've told a couple friends before and they've betrayed me and told people anyway, so now I just wear it as an armour and it can't be used against me. I was a bit overly defensive at first and used to practically introduce myself like "Hi I'm "Kat" and I'm a hooker, but now I just casually drop it into conversation with people I'm comfortable with as if they've always known. It's not illegal it's just not properly legislated, and I'm not ashamed of or embarrassed by it so I've given up caring what others think, especially with the rise of OF and other sites, and I've got friends who are strippers, why is going one step further and actually banging a client so taboo? 😅 I also do tiktok videos talking about it and most of my supporters are women! Granted, my other job is online and overseas so I have the privilege of not working a job where my boss could find out, but I could live on my escort earnings and I put into a private pension with it so I'm not too fussed. Saw a great interview on LadBible with a 70yo escort a couple months ago and she was so relatable and likeable. If people find out and don't want to hire me in the future I'll just do this until I'm 70 😅

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Thank you. 😉

Sorry Amy! Noted for the future! Xo