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Sophine88

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Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« on: 29 April 2021, 03:25:47 pm »
Like title suggest some fucking champion idiot has been ringing me off multiple numbers today to waste time and has been keeping up this charade for a month now. Just obviously has zero fucking life at all. The thing is is this stupidity really ruins my day and I find myself being rude and cold towards anyone that calls then as it just puts me in such a bad mood. It’s annoying that some annoying mongrel has to ruin it for everyone else by putting you in a foul mood.

Do you ever get like this? I felt bad because another client called earlier with a similar accent to the idiot whose been calling me and I snapped immediately only to find out it wasn’t the same person and I felt terrible.

Maz

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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #1 on: 29 April 2021, 07:18:14 pm »
Since I started displaying my number I've got more abrupt and distrustful with potential clients when they get in contact. Not always but more when they ask annoying questions or just being slow to reply.

Like you say, the nob heads really spoil it for the genuine ones.

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TantricTease

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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #2 on: 29 April 2021, 07:31:51 pm »
I do this all the time! I can’t help it and I don’t trust any of them, you give an inch and they take a mile and I’ve never met a client that’s proved me wrong...yet!


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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #3 on: 29 April 2021, 07:34:05 pm »
Must admit I’ve done the same once the tws get stuck in
Had a booking once and someone else wanted to come half hour before the other meet , idiot was stressing me out as he got lost and wasting time , so by the time he arrived I were fuming as the other meet meant start 15 mins time , as I got angry with him he fucked off didnt stay and worse the other twat never showed , I put phone on in a good mood then as the day goes on I just get pissed off on the phone once all the muppets come out , the amount of idiots about is unreal, my advert makes me look like a crazy as I put shit on it when I’m fucked off but I’m fucking sick of the amount of divvys that nothing to do .

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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #4 on: 29 April 2021, 09:50:26 pm »
Maybe do a warning on the main platforms  as he's very professional and persistent. And he's all prepped with his selection of wank numbers!

It's tempting, but if not sure I  ask them to repeat themselves a lot so the fakes get infuriated or I cut them short more to get rid of the chaff. Sometimes I leave them hanging for a minute while I pootle around, get a drink, waste their time. Or I'll take ages to answer a question-just to see his reaction and slow down the pace.  Wanktwats don't like that. If they're still holding on then I find generally their kinda half genuine (ish).
« Last Edit: 30 April 2021, 01:05:24 am by saltysweet »
Yeah like I'll let the human guineapigs have first dibbs at eating the food that's been sitting in those restaurant freezers for the past 4 months.

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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #5 on: 29 April 2021, 09:57:01 pm »
Must admit I’ve done the same once the tws get stuck in
Had a booking once and someone else wanted to come half hour before the other meet , idiot was stressing me out as he got lost and wasting time , so by the time he arrived I were fuming as the other meet meant start 15 mins time , as I got angry with him he fucked off didnt stay and worse the other twat never showed , I put phone on in a good mood then as the day goes on I just get pissed off on the phone once all the muppets come out , the amount of idiots about is unreal, my advert makes me look like a crazy as I put shit on it when I’m fucked off but I’m fucking sick of the amount of divvys that nothing to do .

Haha don't beat yourself up, I do exactly the same, these idiots can totally fuck with your head til you sleep on it and calm down.
You have to feel sorry for them really as what sad, bitter, miserable, lonely lives they must lead.

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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #6 on: 02 May 2021, 10:05:08 am »
Yes I can be bitchy some times when guys have upset me. We are all only human. Even my cat attacks other cats when she's upset with me or someone else.

TantricTease

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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #7 on: 04 May 2021, 07:04:34 am »
Must admit I’ve done the same once the tws get stuck in
Had a booking once and someone else wanted to come half hour before the other meet , idiot was stressing me out as he got lost and wasting time , so by the time he arrived I were fuming as the other meet meant start 15 mins time , as I got angry with him he fucked off didnt stay and worse the other twat never showed , I put phone on in a good mood then as the day goes on I just get pissed off on the phone once all the muppets come out , the amount of idiots about is unreal, my advert makes me look like a crazy as I put shit on it when I’m fucked off but I’m fucking sick of the amount of divvys that nothing to do .

Omg I put stuff in my ad too, when I’m fucked off and this makes me look mental and then when I’ve calmed down I take it off!😂😂 better for them to think your mental though than someone that will take any old shite!

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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #8 on: 04 May 2021, 10:52:37 pm »
Chances are the ones you might snap at might not be so innocent after all and have been trouble with other workers before calling you.

I find decent nice genuine clients are becoming more rare.

When i get a really nice normal guy that is polite and grateful to see us i think to myself why can't we have more decent men booking in this industry that just book, turn up pay straight away and are zero hassle.

It's so easy to think so many clients are messers when they call because we get so many arseholes that call that are so it puts you in a mood and can make you doubt other's.

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Re: Do you ever lash out at innocent guys?
« Reply #9 on: 05 May 2021, 10:17:31 am »
This happened far too often
Too much mental energy spent on time wasters
It is so hard to then be nice each time on the phone afterwards when your next call comes through
In the end I just switched off I wanted no more nonsense I'd lost out on alot of time and thought about all the money I could have made .
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