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Author Topic: Do you ever get clients who are willing to pay just "to get to know you" ?  (Read 2110 times)

Dynamite Doll

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I had a regular stop seeing me as I refused to go to dinner without being paid. He kept saying “Why would I pay to take you to dinner?”.
I had to hold my tongue so I didn’t reply: “Why would I spend time with you for free?”

Answer: Clearly I am the escort and you are the client regardless of how many times you seen me. Time is Money I charge for my time be it incall or outcall social.

The time your sat with him eating etc you could of seen a few clients in that time frame so yes I must be paid. What a twat and all idiots who think like that of not wanting to pay cos they are paying for dinner.

Dynamite Doll

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Those who want to get to know me still charge for my time same rates advertised and I remember my fake life lies as I use it a lot become my second fake life persona  ;D

The ones for the coffee meet and see if they want to book me after different date. Again strictly one hour and my cab there to the coffee prepaid not part of my fee, what I applie as outcall still applie to those who want coffee. When times is up time is up.

Ana66

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I had a regular stop seeing me as I refused to go to dinner without being paid. He kept saying “Why would I pay to take you to dinner?”.
I had to hold my tongue so I didn’t reply: “Why would I spend time with you for free?”

Had pretty much the same situation a while ago where I saw a client twice, the second time he took me on a dinner date and when he contacted me on the third time to arrange a meeting he said that this time he wanted dinner only (date with no sex involved), I reminded him that even though it was for dinner only he still had to pay me (just in case he had forgotten lol) and indeed after I said that, the guy gave me a very poor excuse to cancel and I never heard about him again.

Milf-G

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I had a regular stop seeing me as I refused to go to dinner without being paid. He kept saying “Why would I pay to take you to dinner?”.
I had to hold my tongue so I didn’t reply: “Why would I spend time with you for free?”

I've had a few want to take me on dates so now I've stipulated my social escorting rate, funnily enough they never asked again.

PinkR2021

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Answer: Clearly I am the escort and you are the client regardless of how many times you seen me. Time is Money I charge for my time be it incall or outcall social.

The time your sat with him eating etc you could of seen a few clients in that time frame so yes I must be paid. What a twat and all idiots who think like that of not wanting to pay cos they are paying for dinner.
He didn’t get that any time I’m not working, I’m loosing money. The ones who ask are always the last people you’d ever consider going out for food with anyway- money or not.

Mirror

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He didn’t get that any time I’m not working, I’m loosing money. The ones who ask are always the last people you’d ever consider going out for food with anyway- money or not.

Or be answering enquiries, such as theirs.

Ana66

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UPDATE :

I saw the guy in question and despite finding his request very strange and suspicious, I decided to see him and the guy was actually really lovely and told me that he didn't want sex on the first meeting in order to "build a connection" to make the future intercourse "nicer".
Definitely not a standard thought for this industry but it's understandable I guess + it was nice and pleasant so all good  :)