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Ana66

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Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« on: 13 October 2022, 12:03:40 pm »
Hi everyone,

I really wanted to ask this question on here whether or not you count the money in front of clients ? (for cash payments)
I've noticed this is quite of a controversial question as people (both girls and clients) have mixed views on it.

Personally, I now ALWAYS count money in front of the client, I just feel that it's good and professional to make sure the right amount is there before the client even go for shower. Of course, clients trying to underpay on purpose are rare but even without the intention of doing so, mistakes happen (generally £10 or £20 missing to the total amount just because the client didn't count properly in the first place, not on purpose>>> still happen to me yesterday lol).

I've been told a few times (both by girls and clients) that it feels very transactional and rude to count the money in front of them, but yes it's a business, and like in every business, if a cash payment is made, the person at the counter will always count to make sure the right amount is there, to me this sounds super logic and common sense.

As well, I think not counting the money in front of the client can lead to awkward situations in case there is some money missing (been there once), like imagine you wait for the client to go to the bathroom, you count the money, £20/£10 is missing and when the client comes back you tell him that the amount he gave is incorrect, then the client says he is sure he gave the right amount and then the situation becomes awkward because the client might think you're trying to scam him, which implement a very bad vibe for the booking ahead.

What do you all think ?  :)

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #1 on: 13 October 2022, 12:40:32 pm »
I prefer to check the money in front of them. I often say something like "Gosh these new notes are so awkward aren't they, they get stuck together so easily, someone nearly gave me an extra £20 yesterday by mistake!"

If it's a regular then I sometimes don't bother.
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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #2 on: 13 October 2022, 12:51:42 pm »
I usually do, yes, and I think with the habit of the new plastic notes to stick together it's a good idea. At least doing it in front of them there can be no argument. As with VC, for regs maybe not, but with a new client always, and I think decent blokes understand/don't mind. Also, I've found too much more often than too little, so the client has come off better!
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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #3 on: 13 October 2022, 01:35:44 pm »
I usually do, yes, and I think with the habit of the new plastic notes to stick together it's a good idea. At least doing it in front of them there can be no argument. As with VC, for regs maybe not, but with a new client always, and I think decent blokes understand/don't mind. Also, I've found too much more often than too little, so the client has come off better!

A few times the plastic notes clump has left a note or two in their pocket or wallet.  I have had quite a few short money incidents in the last 12months, some regulars on lower rates (& overun)from the days I didn't insist on upfront payment, others new clients insisting the money has been checked. Another chatting away I gave change to, thinking it was over (had happened in the past with this person but usually carried it over), recount on way home revealed it had been under before I gave change.

Has to be upfront, has to be counted.

Perhaps 3 exceptions are 3 clients I've seen so often, long bookings, reliable, received a lot of income from them who if it is wrong once I can stand.

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #4 on: 13 October 2022, 01:45:24 pm »
Sorry but unless you or whoever does not see it as a paid job then i have no idea why it's controversial.

I find it very strange for women not to count the money and it needs counting as there is so many bad guys out there who try to not pay and underpay. The few women i know of that found uncomfortable counting it or getting it upfront have been ripped off a few times.

I had someone turn a bit funny because i counted the money in front of him..but that guy was a dick and obviously cannot understand that this is business and i would not fuck you without payment.

Most decent men understand why we need to count it just like when we buy stuff in shops or pay for a meal they count it.

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #5 on: 13 October 2022, 01:48:23 pm »
While I have never been in the habit of counting the cash in front of them, when the new shiny plastic notes became more and more the norm I did check the money in front of one new client and he gave me a filthy look. I thought oh no this booking won't be good but it turned out ok but a one off.

Now with all plastic notes and they are buggers, even the bank tellers tut tut when handling them, I a!ways take the fee straight out of the room and check. Never been short changed yet but most of my clients are regs and cause me no doubts.

Yes though it is a business transaction and no store assistant would put the payment in the till without carefully checking it.  For some reason we can be looked down on if we do the same.

One man was different though and said it turned him on to watch me count the cash first 😁

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« Reply #6 on: 13 October 2022, 02:05:16 pm »
Justine i think the men that look down on us for counting it are the same men that want to pretend we only do this job because we are sex mad and money does not matter so when they see us being professional by counting a stranger's money there little fantasy has drifted off and off course some don't like it as they hate parting with there money as it is.

I even count with men i seen several times. I always do count it in front of them as if it is short i want them to see it with there own eyes.

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #7 on: 13 October 2022, 02:12:15 pm »
Justine i think the men that look down on us for counting it are the same men that want to pretend we only do this job because we are sex mad and money does not matter so when they see us being professional by counting a stranger's money there little fantasy has drifted off and off course some don't like it as they hate parting with there money as it is.

I even count with men i seen several times. I always do count it in front of them as if it is short i want them to see it with there own eyes.

Oh yes am well aware they would much prefer us to pounce on them because we're overcome with lust and the money is just a bonus etc etc 😂

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #8 on: 13 October 2022, 02:31:29 pm »
I prefer to check the money in front of them. I often say something like "Gosh these new notes are so awkward aren't they, they get stuck together so easily, someone nearly gave me an extra £20 yesterday by mistake!"

If it's a regular then I sometimes don't bother.

That's exactly what I say as well although occasionally I'll get a client who counts it out in front of me, or asks me to count it "to make sure it's right"

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #9 on: 13 October 2022, 03:41:59 pm »
I prefer to check the money in front of them. I often say something like "Gosh these new notes are so awkward aren't they, they get stuck together so easily, someone nearly gave me an extra £20 yesterday by mistake!"

If it's a regular then I sometimes don't bother.

I do too. That’s pretty much what I say ‘these new notes do stick together don’t they’ and ‘sometimes people give me too much’

Rather that than worry it’s the wrong amount etc.

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #10 on: 13 October 2022, 04:01:43 pm »

Always.  Trust no one.  Regulars will start to take the piss and shortchange you at some point.  And of course new men don't get trust because we have no idea who they are..........   The only times I have been shortchanged is when I have not counted the money in front of the client.

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #11 on: 13 October 2022, 04:24:51 pm »
The thing is you either do or you don't

If you don't you risk being short-changed or worse you count it while they are in the shower and its short, you are then in a situation that you always going to come off worst in  you say nothing and take the hit, you say something and they think you pocketed it.
I've had a few times where they have overpaid and when I go to return it they are always really grateful and most often say keep it, only a couple of underpaid and it's been a rapid apology and sorted straight away.

If you do then you and the client know all is good and things can get of to a good start, if someone is offended by you doing it then I would question why, they are either a snowflake or they were testing the water to see if you are a counter with the intention of shorting you next time.

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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #12 on: 13 October 2022, 04:39:30 pm »
I used to sort of trust people and just put it away but I’ve been down 20 or 40 a lot of times at the end of the day. it’s not a lot but it certainly adds up after a few times so now I 100% count it I don’t care if I look rude. A few times they’ve over paid by 10 or 20 by accident and I always give it them back x
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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #13 on: 13 October 2022, 06:52:48 pm »
I prefer to check the money in front of them. I often say something like "Gosh these new notes are so awkward aren't they, they get stuck together so easily, someone nearly gave me an extra £20 yesterday by mistake!"

If it's a regular then I sometimes don't bother.

This is exactly what I say and I have actually had guys that have added an extra £20 by mistake as well. Especially now I've raised my rates I always double check in case its missing any notes
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Re: Do you count the money in front of clients ?
« Reply #14 on: 13 October 2022, 07:25:53 pm »
I always count it in front of them, usually say something like "will just double check it, would hate to accidentally have taken your money to get home or something". That way it comes across like I'm counting it for their benefit, plus it means you both know for sure if it is over or under.