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cleojones

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Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« on: 03 May 2024, 03:15:44 am »
I mean sometimes they dont even have security at night. I can imagine how one could be assaulted and nobody would witness it
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Mirror

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #1 on: 03 May 2024, 06:31:04 am »
Quote from: cleojones on 03 May 2024, 03:15:44 am
I mean sometimes they dont even have security at night. I can imagine how one could be assaulted and nobody would witness it

I don't consider any booking safe, I was held at knife point in my incall place. I use the same precautions wherever the booking is held and whoever the booking is with new client or regular.
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GucciGang

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #2 on: 03 May 2024, 08:05:00 am »
It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.
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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #3 on: 03 May 2024, 08:34:24 am »
Quote from: GucciGang on 03 May 2024, 08:05:00 am
It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.

I'm simular regards dark, some punters want quite late appointments - either so it's immediately before they go to bed or perceived discretion. I have started pulling my finish time back mostly to fit with my life, but also safety and actual discretion.
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AnnaConda

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #4 on: 03 May 2024, 09:14:07 am »
No booking is ever going to be 100% risk free and whether there is security on duty or not is not going to stop something happening to you in a bedroom within a hotel.

I do find hotels safer than private homes though; the perception that there are other people around that can intervene is psychologically there and may cause a client to hesitate before doing something. In addition, the hotel has their booking details which makes them more traceable in the event of an incident.

I am outcall only and I far prefer hotel outcall appointments. There is a minimum standard of cleanliness/lack of clutter/facilities that you can rely on compared to the occasional hovel a client lives in.
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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #5 on: 03 May 2024, 02:03:56 pm »
I always ask for a deposit no exceptions.
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cleojones

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #6 on: 03 May 2024, 06:10:51 pm »
Quote from: Mirror on 03 May 2024, 06:31:04 am
I don't consider any booking safe, I was held at knife point in my incall place. I use the same precautions wherever the booking is held and whoever the booking is with new client or regular.
was it an organized crime kinda thing or "just" a wacko? and um, no u cant compare hotel thats full of people vs incall. but often they dont even have security at night which is shocking.
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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #7 on: 03 May 2024, 06:15:27 pm »
Quote from: GucciGang on 03 May 2024, 08:05:00 am
It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.
Thankyou Gucci the request for the video is a good one
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Justine

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #8 on: 03 May 2024, 07:29:25 pm »
I no longer do outcalls and my last one was over 4 years ago but the idea of asking for a video and/or photos of hotel rooms and door numbers etc is a very good one and I'd be doing that certainly!

For what it's worth I've done hundreds of out calls to hotels in the past and never had a single issue with safety but  anyone considering them these days  should do whatever they need to feel confident and comfortable walking into the hotel room of someone they've never met before.
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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #9 on: 03 May 2024, 08:12:00 pm »
Quote from: cleojones on 03 May 2024, 06:10:51 pm
but often they dont even have security at night which is shocking.

Most hotels have a 24 hour desk (or at least a night porter), often a doorman late at night plus CCTV in public areas and the doors are electronically locked. What exactly is it that you want; I doubt many of us trying to work would appreciate armed guards patrolling the corridors?
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oleyoleyWG

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #10 on: 06 May 2024, 02:57:29 pm »
No i would never offer outcalls due to secret filming. They have to visit my incall and keep all their belongings including glasses in a draw out the way x
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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #11 on: 07 May 2024, 08:21:14 pm »

Mitigating risk is the name of the game. 

Big hotels with night staff are generally much better than the smaller boutique hotels with no one on duty.

I love hotel outcalls as you can leave at your whim, but of course you have to do your safety checks as pertaining to the client themselves.  Never ever slide into the comfort zone of thinking anyone or anywhere is safe.

If you have a gut instinct something is wrong when you arrive at the hotel, leave.

If you have a gut feeling something is wrong with the booking, call the hotel and ask for the guest in the room - any decent client would be okay with a woman doing this; 

In general, I do find outcalls to hotels safe and I do prefer them over incalls to my apartment.
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lora

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #12 on: 15 May 2024, 08:49:42 am »
I think hotel outcall are one of the safest way to work because. There are security cameras, other people in nearby rooms and they will have booked in under their real name ( I presume nowadays most hotels require card payment or photo ID). Also its much easier to leave someone else's room than kick them out of your incall.

Also surely having security on the door would make it harder for you to enter at night. And no one would witness an assault unless they are in the room with you or standing outside listening.
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Gingerella

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #13 on: 15 May 2024, 09:30:31 am »
I love hotel outcalls. You can leave when you like rather than with an incall you’re waiting for them to leave. I find hotel outcalls a lot more relaxed and generally start with a drink and a chat rather than straight into full on action. I mostly do them on weekday evenings and they tend to be businessmen that are in town for a night or two.
If they don’t have lots of Aw feedback I get them to send a deposit. And I always get them to send a photo of the room card which has the number they’re in written on. Can always get their name and room number and call reception and ask to be put through to that room to confirm they’re there.
I don’t do private residence outcalls. I’ve done them in the past and don’t feel comfortable. Their homes and bedrooms are never as clean and fresh as a hotel. I’m also paranoid they could have hidden cameras or someone else in another room or the wife/girlfriend/child could come home.
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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #14 on: 15 May 2024, 10:18:19 am »
Quote from: Gingerella on 15 May 2024, 09:30:31 am
I love hotel outcalls. You can leave when you like rather than with an incall you’re waiting for them to leave. I find hotel outcalls a lot more relaxed and generally start with a drink and a chat rather than straight into full on action. I mostly do them on weekday evenings and they tend to be businessmen that are in town for a night or two.
If they don’t have lots of Aw feedback I get them to send a deposit. And I always get them to send a photo of the room card which has the number they’re in written on. Can always get their name and room number and call reception and ask to be put through to that room to confirm they’re there.
I don’t do private residence outcalls. I’ve done them in the past and don’t feel comfortable. Their homes and bedrooms are never as clean and fresh as a hotel. I’m also paranoid they could have hidden cameras or someone else in another room or the wife/girlfriend/child could come home.

Ohh, what a good idea, I've never thought of the room card picture, definitely gonna do that in future!


Yeah, as many ladies have said, I also find that I feel secure doing outcalls in hotels. If the client had malicious intent I don't feel that they would choose a hotel as the venue....my only caveat being that I'm not mad keen on visiting too late as it might be "party time" and I like to have things within my own control.
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